TheComfortCorner | V.8

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I wanna look for a job

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Good luck

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Thank you

[Purgatory K9]

Sooo... there's this person. She was my best friend. But I told her that I might not be friends with her, because we're going into highschool. I will meet new people and new friends, and she might get left behind. She told me that was very rude of me to say, and that she thinks I'm laughing with my friends at her now, and she quote on quote ended that with "shame on you." I don't wanna explain to her that wasn't what i meant, and I just want her to be prepared I'm not going to be there to spend very second of the day with her. How can I make her understand that I won't be her path to popularity anymore?? Please help (｡•́︿•̀｡)

In my opinion, you could have taken a better route on wording how you won't be her friend in HS, it could have came off as rude to her. Honestly, I wouldn't have said anything at all because you never know what will happen. What if you guys did stay friends? I see why your friend thinks that way and your friend is hurt by what you had said. Maybe you should apologize to her and do explain what you meant. If you don't want to do anything like that then is she really your friend and are you really her friend?

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I want to help you all

[fika.]

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if you ever feel down or need a shoulder to cry on, my inbox is open. i have gathered links to help everyone when they need a distraction or are feeling low:

to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

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if you ever feel down or need a shoulder to cry on, my inbox is open. i have gathered links to help everyone when they need a distraction or are feeling low:

to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

You are sweet(:

[tenor]

I don’t want to talk too much about my personal life, but I could really use some comfort. I have a condition that interrupts everything about my adult life. Meeting new people, carrying on conversations, committing to a relationship, etc etc... And usually I can just look past it, but it ‘flared up’, or got really bad, today when I was doing a really simple task (trying to put my puppy’s name tag onto his collar through the little circle clasp) and I got so overwhelmed. It sucks. This sucks. I hate trying to be positive all the time and look past it. I hate trying to be perfect because I care so much about what others think of me. I hate my shallow egotism just because I want to defend my personal honor. I hate getting so angry just because someone criticizes my parenting skills. I’m falling apart. I can go weeks feeling positive, but then something like clipping my dog’s nametag just tears down all of those barriers I had set up.
I need comfort, I need to talk to someone about this.
I can’t go to a doctor, I don’t want to go to a professional, I just want a friend to talk to about it.
I can’t even talk to my parents or my boyfriend because I don’t WANT to be diagnosed with something. I don’t WANT to take medicine, I just want to go on with my life, and I want to be normal.
I hate this.

[viles]

• am i actually depressed or do i just want my feelings to be valid in the eyes of my peers??

[Topsy Turvey]

im not going to be like this forever, am i?
its been three years and im worse off than i was before,
i wish there was still hope for me but i know better, i just wish they did too.