caprisun; wrote:
hm,,, im not sure if anyone is gonna bother reading but !!
sorta a small question for you guys? what does it feel like when you go from just liking/crushing on someone to lovers? what does that feel like for you?
its been,,,, smth ive been wondering for a while i guess? bc everyone is different so everything we do is gonna be different --
for me, from going from crushes to loves,, the crush fades away immediately. but i know theres something more -- that we arent just friends or close friends anymore, but theres another thing on top of us being friends -- a better understanding and a much larger interest in em? i dont know . i know that we arent just friends anymore, that we are lovers, because i can just feel theres something more between us. a stronger bond or something, a better connection, i dont know. its been like this for all my relationships -- and i guess it rlly came to my attention more after my,, crush asked me out aha
just something ive wanted to share&& know from others for a while.
so if you want to share or comment feel free to, i guess? jgasdgfdagyf shRUGS i jus rlly wanna hear everyones experiences w this bc is such an interesting thing ;0 or,,, imo i guess
Pinesong wrote:I just wanted to ask someone's advice on here about how I'm feeling about something..
So I'm dating this guy and he's great- a real sweetheart, is always asking how my day has been and treats me with respect and kindness. I had a few doubts about him at first but we've cleared that up as I've spoken to him about it all. It's a rather new relationship but we seem to have clicked really easily. We used to be close around 3 years ago but drifted a little then really reconnected. He's a very physically affectionate person and is always hugging me and kissing me but he has told me multiple times that if I ever feel like he's being too affectionate that I should tell him right away- which I respect.
However, he's the first guy that I've dated as in the past I've generally seen myself as too busy with my own life to date anyone.
Recently he's mentioned that his parents wanted to meet me and hearing this at first kind of.. scared me? Although when we reconnected we seem to have clicked really easily, I'm not sure if I'm really ready to meet his parents in a 'meet his parents' kind of way. he didn't suggest when or anything, he just sort of brought it up. I'm not sure if it's that I feel like we're moving too quickly or something but I'm not sure if I'm ready to? Should I feel like this?
parakeetperson wrote:I accidentally got a boyfriend yesterday
His name is Xavier
I don't like like him but he asked if I could be his girlfriend and I said yes bc I'm too nice to say no :')
ғᴀɪʀʟʏɢøɴᴇʀ wrote:parakeetperson wrote:I accidentally got a boyfriend yesterday
His name is Xavier
I don't like like him but he asked if I could be his girlfriend and I said yes bc I'm too nice to say no :')
You need to tell him the truth. Bottom line is that this really isn't fair to him and can cause him problems down the line with future relationships if you lead him on.
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