♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Panther202]

I TOLD HIM!!!! And I wasn’t scared either, he actually took it really well. But I still didn’t get a strait answer from him tho lol

Ahhh I'm so proud of you!!

[zenisiti]

I TOLD HIM!!!! And I wasn’t scared either, he actually took it really well. But I still didn’t get a strait answer from him tho lol

Great job! Too bad I don't have any confidence to tell my crush I like him :')

[wolfi.]

I TOLD HIM!!!! And I wasn’t scared either, he actually took it really well. But I still didn’t get a strait answer from him tho lol

Great job! Too bad I don't have any confidence to tell my crush I like him :')

Aww I know you will work up the courage someday! I’m so happy that I got everything off my chest that how I have this song stuck in my head something that goes “I feel nice like sugar and spice” lol

[vash ♡]

oh gosh uh.
i got out of an abusive relationship a little over 3 months ago. i broke it off, because i could no longer breathe, i was no longer myself and i had given up everything to help him. i also came to terms with the fact men are purely attractive aesthetically, and i am not bisexual at all, in fact. so that was a damper. anyways, these past 3 months i have taken back control of my life and am slowly becoming COMFORTABLE with myself, my wishes, aspirations, and what i need in every which way by discovering who i am. and i am not DONE discovering myself, i want to reiterate - im a romantic at heart, and i will always pine after people and be very in love with love. i complain about being single, but i am enjoying it rest assured. that being said... i met a mutual a little over 2 weeks ago that i have gotten close to very fast. and i am crushing, definitely. i have no need to rush into anything, or even admit anything, at this moment, but it is worrying because... despite everything i am still uneasy with relationships. i have not had good experiences, because i knew myself too little and i was not confident or strong enough. so it makes me a bit nervous, even though i know crushes are relatively harmless and nothing in the grand scheme of things!!! im not gonna brush this off as nothing bc she is a FANTASTIC friend but im gonna try not to pay any mind. :’> i just thought id vent, if you want to offer advice make sure it’s not the stereotypical “yeah that’s too fast, sit back, relax, work on yourself,” because i know that more than anyone and im doing it quite well i believe! im just a bleeding heart and a romanticist, and sometimes i hate it.

[okapi,]

Okay, so here's a story that I'd like to share. And although this situation is already over, I'd like to see the advice people would give...so please give advice and let me know what I should have done or what you would have done!

So, one of my best friends (we'll call her Cassidy) has a boyfriend (we'll call him Freddie). She has been dating him for around 8 months. All three of us are on the swim team at our school, and I started talking to Freddie at the beginning of the year. We became pretty good friends who talked quite a bit! However I had no intentions of trying to split them because I'm not interested in him that way.
Anyway, it got to a point where he told me that he could tell me anything. So one day, he was talking to me and all of a sudden said, "I have to get something off my chest. If I tell you this you have to promise not to tell anyone. Not even Cassidy." So I promised, because I didn't think it was going to be that bad. But let me tell you, I was wrong.
He said to me that he thinks I'm hot and wants to have (I'm going to say this because it's less uncomfortable) *smex* with me. I was surprised. And I'm really naive to boys, so at first I told him that it was okay and it's normal for guys to want to have smex with other girls, as long as they don't act upon it. So then I was freaking out, and I texted my friend, and she said a guy shouldn't want to do that with any other if he has a girlfriend. And when I told her it was Freddie who told me this, she told me I had to tell Cassidy and that Freddie is an awful guy for this.
At this point, I was really conflicted. I didn't want to break Freddie's trust any more than I already had, because he has trust issues, and so does Cassidy. And I was afraid that if I told Cassidy, she would be devastated, or believe him over me and not be my friend anymore. So I took a day to think about it and talk about it with my friend. I decided to ask Freddie a couple more questions the next day to get to the bottom of what he meant. Ultimately, the result of those questions was that he asked me because he wanted me to say that I would do it with him. I also asked him that if I said yes, would he still do it with me while dating Cassidy. And he said yes but that he felt bad for saying that. He also added that he thought it would be "fun".
After this, I decided Cassidy has to know what's happened. But I thought it would be safest to go to Freddie first and I asked him to tell Cassidy. Because she would know it's the truth if he told her.
So he told her.
And Cassidy came to me saying "why didn't you tell me sooner" and I had to explain the situation I was put in and how hard it was for me to choose what to do. I went to thank Freddie for telling her, but then she mentioned something about a dream. And I was like, "what?" and she told me that Freddie said that he had a dream about having smex with me. Which was a complete lie.
So then I told her the truth.
She was extremely conflicted as well, but she understood why I didn't tell her sooner and what position he put me in.
In the end, she talked to him about it and she decided to give him one more chance because he said that he feels really bad for it. And she told him to apologize to me. (He never did).
So after all this is over, I still think about it because Freddie and I are still friends and Cassidy and I are even closer. But, I still wonder if I made the right choice, and if Cassidy is making a good choice to stay with him. Because my friend said that Freddie is not a good person for this and doesn't deserve a second chance. But I just don't know how to feel. But I support Cassidy no matter what.

Anyway, I hope this story was interesting. Thanks for any comments! Maybe I'll get over it soon

[Panther202]

Okay, so here's a story that I'd like to share. And although this situation is already over, I'd like to see the advice people would give...so please give advice and let me know what I should have done or what you would have done!

So, one of my best friends (we'll call her Cassidy) has a boyfriend (we'll call him Freddie). She has been dating him for around 8 months. All three of us are on the swim team at our school, and I started talking to Freddie at the beginning of the year. We became pretty good friends who talked quite a bit! However I had no intentions of trying to split them because I'm not interested in him that way.
Anyway, it got to a point where he told me that he could tell me anything. So one day, he was talking to me and all of a sudden said, "I have to get something off my chest. If I tell you this you have to promise not to tell anyone. Not even Cassidy." So I promised, because I didn't think it was going to be that bad. But let me tell you, I was wrong.
He said to me that he thinks I'm hot and wants to have (I'm going to say this because it's less uncomfortable) *smex* with me. I was surprised. And I'm really naive to boys, so at first I told him that it was okay and it's normal for guys to want to have smex with other girls, as long as they don't act upon it. So then I was freaking out, and I texted my friend, and she said a guy shouldn't want to do that with any other if he has a girlfriend. And when I told her it was Freddie who told me this, she told me I had to tell Cassidy and that Freddie is an awful guy for this.
At this point, I was really conflicted. I didn't want to break Freddie's trust any more than I already had, because he has trust issues, and so does Cassidy. And I was afraid that if I told Cassidy, she would be devastated, or believe him over me and not be my friend anymore. So I took a day to think about it and talk about it with my friend. I decided to ask Freddie a couple more questions the next day to get to the bottom of what he meant. Ultimately, the result of those questions was that he asked me because he wanted me to say that I would do it with him. I also asked him that if I said yes, would he still do it with me while dating Cassidy. And he said yes but that he felt bad for saying that. He also added that he thought it would be "fun".
After this, I decided Cassidy has to know what's happened. But I thought it would be safest to go to Freddie first and I asked him to tell Cassidy. Because she would know it's the truth if he told her.
So he told her.
And Cassidy came to me saying "why didn't you tell me sooner" and I had to explain the situation I was put in and how hard it was for me to choose what to do. I went to thank Freddie for telling her, but then she mentioned something about a dream. And I was like, "what?" and she told me that Freddie said that he had a dream about having smex with me. Which was a complete lie.
So then I told her the truth.
She was extremely conflicted as well, but she understood why I didn't tell her sooner and what position he put me in.
In the end, she talked to him about it and she decided to give him one more chance because he said that he feels really bad for it. And she told him to apologize to me. (He never did).
So after all this is over, I still think about it because Freddie and I are still friends and Cassidy and I are even closer. But, I still wonder if I made the right choice, and if Cassidy is making a good choice to stay with him. Because my friend said that Freddie is not a good person for this and doesn't deserve a second chance. But I just don't know how to feel. But I support Cassidy no matter what.

Anyway, I hope this story was interesting. Thanks for any comments! Maybe I'll get over it soon :lol:

I've been in this situation! This was definitely the right decision. Unfortunately it is ultimately Cassidy's choice who she dates and you're doing the right thing by supporting her. If he had planted a kiss on you, I would be preaching a different story. I'm really glad it worked out in the end and I just hope she doesn't get hurt (although it seems like she will, honestly..)

[fiirstcrush]

resolved, thank u!!

[atychiphobia]

half the guys I’ve liked in the last four years are actually gay - (im a chick*)
but they’re not
one was bi and a year or two after I was told he was gay and I shut my feelings off I’m told he ‘finds me attractive’??
then what I was told just like, *poof* seemed to never have existed and he had this huge crush on my friend
then she had to basically shut down the two who liked her at the time

but here I am just utterly confused
another guy’s sexuality is not what I was told too, he’s not just into dudes
ugh feelings
ugh boys
ugh

[rainmaker]

ok, so this probably going to sound weird, but whatever. i like this guy, and i've liked him for a while, but we've never talked. then, out of NOWHERE he sent me an email, asking me for help with some school related stuff, even though we're not friends, and we don't talk. i honestly don't even know how he knew my name. . . . i just don't know what to do, as he sent it yesterday, and i only saw it a few hours ago, so i don't know if he thought i was ignoring him or what. . . anyways, he has other people he could have asked, but he asked me, so i don't know if its a sign he likes me, or if i'm just hoping he does.
feel free to give advice through pm or on here, doesn't really matter, although i'm more likely to see it if its through pm! thanks in advance!

[Panther202]

ok, so this probably going to sound weird, but whatever. i like this guy, and i've liked him for a while, but we've never talked. then, out of NOWHERE he sent me an email, asking me for help with some school related stuff, even though we're not friends, and we don't talk. i honestly don't even know how he knew my name. . . . i just don't know what to do, as he sent it yesterday, and i only saw it a few hours ago, so i don't know if he thought i was ignoring him or what. . . anyways, he has other people he could have asked, but he asked me, so i don't know if its a sign he likes me, or if i'm just hoping he does.
feel free to give advice through pm or on here, doesn't really matter, although i'm more likely to see it if its through pm! thanks in advance!

Don't read too much into it. Likely he just needed help. I would suggest just helping him out and seeing if you two connect. Don't move too fast.