Let's Get To Know Each Other! V.17

[hyukoh]

definitely all animal products. i want to try to go vegan soon but it's hard since my parents buy all my groceries and theyre not vegan. almost everything they buy has animal products in it. im not a fan of meat/dairy products at all so i feel like going vegan would be very easy for me.

have you ever had lucid dreams before ?

[Herlock Sholmes]

Yes, not frequently, but I've had them before! Unfortunately, whenever I have a lucid dream I do really freakin stupid things for the most part. For example, once I had a lucid dream where I was like: "Hey I'm dreaming! This is so cool. I can do whatever I want. I can. turn. this. wall. yellow." so I turned the wall colour yellow. I also made a hot dog appear out of thin air. Another time I had a lucid dream where I was fighting this dude and I kept rewinding the dream to see how many different ways I could defeat him and figure out which one would be the most effective in a real-life situation.

What are you most proud of doing in 2018?

[lextopia]

getting out of my comfort zone and becoming a better version of myself.
this year was revolutionary for my inner being

how about you?

[V's lost bag]

Graduating college. It was so hard...


If you saw me in real life, would you hug me and why?!

[Pistol Annie #1 NPC]

If you wanted a hug and felt comfortable with it, I'd certainly hug you. ^_^
I'd love to brighten people's day in any way possible.

What's something you bring to a friendship?

[lunaire]

tbh, i don't bring anything to a friendship since i'm a pretty useless / worthless person, but if you forced me to answer, i would say i'm that one depressed and pessimistic friend that will make you see the bad side of every situation.

for me, there are certain songs that remind me of a feeling / scene ( oh god the explanation is a bit long and i've already clogged up this post enough so if you really wanna know, pm me ) or an aesthetic. do you have a song that does this [ and what song ] ?

[corpse bride]

she's my breathe by blind.scream, a cover of halo. whenever I listen to this song it makes me feel warm and fuzzy. and I personally think this is way better than the orginal song.

what do you think is the most important thing in any relationship?

[Calibri]

Sounds cheesy, but communication - especially being in a long-distance relationship.
Personally I worry and overthink every little detail which is why it is very comforting for me when my boyfriend tells me he's busy but will text me later instead of receiving a text hours later saying he was doing stuff. If I feel like he talks to me and is honest about what he's doing/what his plans for the day are, I instantly feel like I can trust him more. I went from being in a position where I was always worried about what the guy was doing because it'd take hours (sometimes days) before he responded to me to being with my boyfriend who is very vocal about everything, whether something's bothering him or he's going somewhere where he won't be able to respond to my texts for a bit. I find that very... Liberating?

You?

[cainhurst]

it's practically impossible to narrow it down to just one "most important" thing, since relationships of any kind are such complex things that require a lot of different qualities and values to make it work. one value i think is very important is trust. i find it very hard to open up to people and share who i am really with them, especially the less pleasant facets of myself. there's certain things about myself i know i can't - and shouldn't - share with everyone. however, that also means that i'm honestly very, very wary of most strangers and reluctant to be myself.

it takes a lot for me to drop the "persona" i've created and truly be the person i am around others, and so it's important to me that i can trust a friend/partner with accepting the real me. even if that real me isn't like the person they might have assumed i was, even if that person sometimes struggles in many different ways. someone who won't be turned away by my inner demons, not even when i can't quite keep them contained inside of my head anymore.

but, just like i need to be capable of trusting a person fully and unconditionally, i also need someone who puts their trust in me. someone who believes in the good in me, someone who trusts that they do matter to me and that i do love them, even when my own head turns on me and makes me more or less incapable of showing it. someone who'll just be capable of hugging me and assure me that everything will be alright, while at the same time not allowing their trust in me and my love for them to waver.

so... yeah. this probably is super long and sounded super dramatic and over the top or something and probably doesn't make sense to a lot of people, but trust is super important. and, since trust encompasses so many facets of life and can be shown in so many ways, it goes well with a complex topic like relationships, huh?

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what ridiculous thing has someone tricked you into doing or believing?,

[kestrel]

i used to work with kiddos and when i worked with first graders, a group of girls came up to me and told me to "look under there" and i entirely fell for it and said, "under where?"
i literally got pranked by a group of seven year old girls.
as an adult human.

what's your greatest accomplishment on chicken smoothie?