dopper wrote:okay..so i've had a huge crush on this boy since about
december. he's kind and he's really the kind of person i'd wanna be with
and i think that even he might like me too?
the only thing is, he has a girlfriend and they're close.
both him and his girlfriend know i like him (well, pretty much everyone does)
his girlfriend is super cool with it, we even joke about it sometimes but
i still can't help but feel really jealous around them.. i don't show it but it's
killing me ;;
this is more of a rant than anything,, but how can i get over it? :0
You can try training yourself out of the feelings. Whenever romantic/crushy feelings pop up, recognize them, and take a moment to address them and redirect them. "Yes, he is good looking, but it's just aesthetic. It doesn't mean anything." "Of course it seems like fun to go on a date with him, but look how happy he and his girlfriend are. I bet they have so much fun, and I could have that fun with someone else." Stuff like that.
Sheena.b wrote:um i think you could try to talk to him about how you feel and try to see what he thinks about it, if he shows feeling maybe you could move forward in the relationship and if he shows no interest then i would suggest move forward or try and wait for him to reliaze how great and good you are.
I feel like it's important to quote for context because the person who posted right above you clearly states that the person they like has a girlfriend already, and I would hope this advice was meant for someone else. =x
(Sometimes I don't realize there's a new page and come in at weird spots in a conversation, too.)