KayKayKitti2000 wrote:He says I can, so I do. E always has her ways of getting in someone's head. I honestly, don't think he will choose her over me.But who knows. she has been telling me stories of how he calls her cute and gives her hugs all the time. when we just started getting a little more touchy-feely with each other. I know the stories aren't true, but what does she tell him?? she has stopped hanging out with him for now. But she always wants in on what we are talking about, I try to get her away. she always reads our messages. I tell her to stop but she won't. so it done with her. she doesn't think that tho
So start getting aggressive about getting away from her. Walk away from her. Shout over her. Bring earphones and start up some music whenever she starts to talk to you. She's getting under your skin, so find a way to block her out.
Kassypen wrote:So I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of months ago, but I still can’t shake the habit of looking for him in a room or in class. I don’t want to date him anymore nor do I like him, but am I just telling myself that? Also, I have a suspicion that this whole thing is because I just want to be able to talk to him again. It is so weird going from talking to someone all the time, to never speaking a word. I feel like I can’t even make eye contact with him anymore. I do feel like I sometimes spot him looking at me in the corner of my eye. Luckily, though, we are starting to talk more, but I feel like if I try and talk to him too much he will think that I still like him, which ties into my previous question for myself about still liking him. Wow. That was so much longer then I thought it was. XD
I’ve never told anyone this. Thanks for this thread, cs. <3
I thought your questions were rhetorical, but since you re-posted, I'm going to guess they're not.
Don't overthink or second guess yourself. You got close to your boyfriend and spent a lot of time with him. We're only human. Even if you wanted to completely cut him out of your life, it's completely weird to go from seeing someone so much to suddenly never seeing or talking to them. It takes time to get used to.
Instead of second-guessing all of your actions, let yourself feel how you feel and let a friendship rekindle if that's what you want.