♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[regular;]

so i have a boyfriend. he's nice and sweet and all but i'm not really feeling us as a couple. he barely texts me, and i'm always the one starting conversations, but even when he answers he leaves quickly for fortnite or whatever so i'm not feeling like a priority to him. we still share feelings for each other but I always get anxiety when I see him, partly because I feel like he always acts like i'm not there unless I initiate the conversation.

so now there's this other guy that I met through a friend. we talk daily. he's so sweet, shy, funny, helpful, etc. I talk to him about my problems more than anyone else. my friends think I have feelings for him, which I don't think I do in that sense, but if I wasn't with my boyfriend I probably would, and if I break up with my bf, I feel like I would like him. anyways, he suggests I end things because i'm not being treated properly. i'm considering it tbh. this other guy is 2 years older than me, which I don't mind, and I think he might like me, or could start having feelings for me, but his cousin is in love with me. complicated ;c

[Sidewalk_Chalk]

Okay, so I have a boyfriend, and he is really sweet, kind, and cute. We still have feeling for each other, at least I do. The thing is, he is one of the more popular kids, and I'm kinda a no-body. We met each other in math class last year, and that's when it all started. I don't know if I'm just paranoid, but I feel like he is distancing himself from me, and I don't know what to do. He won't respond to any form of contact, and I still really like him. I'm stuck. Any suggestions?

[WastedSpace]

so i have a boyfriend. he's nice and sweet and all but i'm not really feeling us as a couple. he barely texts me, and i'm always the one starting conversations, but even when he answers he leaves quickly for fortnite or whatever so i'm not feeling like a priority to him. we still share feelings for each other but I always get anxiety when I see him, partly because I feel like he always acts like i'm not there unless I initiate the conversation.

You should either talk to him about this or end the relationship. You don't have to stay in a relationship that doesn't make you happy or where you don't feel like a priority. You deserve more than that.

Okay, so I have a boyfriend, and he is really sweet, kind, and cute. We still have feeling for each other, at least I do. The thing is, he is one of the more popular kids, and I'm kinda a no-body. We met each other in math class last year, and that's when it all started. I don't know if I'm just paranoid, but I feel like he is distancing himself from me, and I don't know what to do. He won't respond to any form of contact, and I still really like him. I'm stuck. Any suggestions?

So he's just ignoring you? Sounds like you might not be in a relationship anymore, sorry. But if this guy doesn't bother to talk with you, hang out with you, or even let you know if he's still interested, you're way better off without him. He's the nobody.

[Avisowl]

Hhahah awkward, me and my friend were coming up with a secret handshake and a teacher comes up and says to my friend, I think she likes you. Now I’m starting maybe, feel something for my friend? Hahah any advice or anything? I mean, I just can’t stop thinking about him, the other day I called him to ask what the homework was when I already knew what it was,....hhhhh.

[wolfie,]

So me and my boyfriend have been together for over five months now. We met of a similar interest (aka Voltron because that show is the bomb.com). He probably the best think that has happened to me is such a long time. He helped me get over my last break up (my ex literally wreaked my feelings and made me start feeling like everything was my fault), and he's too nice for his own good (this boy deserves all the love in the world, my poor baby doesn't deserve to be sad). Anyways, the thing is, he lives over 1,800+ miles away.. I mean, he still lives in the states (thankfully), but he's across the country. It also doesn't help that I have extreme trust issues AND my head is always telling me how I'm not good enough and he could easily cheat on my ugly self. So being that I have so many issues, and he have a two hour time zone difference.. it's kinda hard. I love him so much, and I want it to work, but I'm just so bad with my words... He hadn't called each other since December 13th, until today. He called me, we said hi, tried to make conversation, and then went silent. I'd like to mention that we are both very awkward people and very shy... I love hearing his voice, and I just love him so much.. but I'm just so bad with talking because I'm so scared that I'm gonna say the wrong thing, ya know? Does anyone have any advice, please?

[cassiopeiaa]

i'm sorry for posting vaguely -- I just want someone to believe in me

[WastedSpace]

Hhahah awkward, me and my friend were coming up with a secret handshake and a teacher comes up and says to my friend, I think she likes you. Now I’m starting maybe, feel something for my friend? Hahah any advice or anything? I mean, I just can’t stop thinking about him, the other day I called him to ask what the homework was when I already knew what it was,....hhhhh.

Advice about what? Figuring out your feelings for your friend? Telling your friend? Trying to get rid of these potential feelings? Life in general? You gotta know what you want before we can help, sorry!

So me and my boyfriend have been together for over five months now. We met of a similar interest (aka Voltron because that show is the bomb.com). He probably the best think that has happened to me is such a long time. He helped me get over my last break up (my ex literally wreaked my feelings and made me start feeling like everything was my fault), and he's too nice for his own good (this boy deserves all the love in the world, my poor baby doesn't deserve to be sad). Anyways, the thing is, he lives over 1,800+ miles away.. I mean, he still lives in the states (thankfully), but he's across the country. It also doesn't help that I have extreme trust issues AND my head is always telling me how I'm not good enough and he could easily cheat on my ugly self. So being that I have so many issues, and he have a two hour time zone difference.. it's kinda hard. I love him so much, and I want it to work, but I'm just so bad with my words... He hadn't called each other since December 13th, until today. He called me, we said hi, tried to make conversation, and then went silent. I'd like to mention that we are both very awkward people and very shy... I love hearing his voice, and I just love him so much.. but I'm just so bad with talking because I'm so scared that I'm gonna say the wrong thing, ya know? Does anyone have any advice, please? [/size][/center]

Sounds like you've got a lot going on and would benefit in a lot of ways from seeing a therapist. Not only to help work through your trust and self-esteem issues, but also with your social anxiety.

As for being less awkward talking with him, stop trying to treat the conversation like a script. Just... tell each other about your day. Talk about everything you've missed since your last call. It doesn't matter if it's as small as "our class got a hamster" or "okay, it's so silly, but I dropped my pencil at school and was so embarrassed over it, I went red for an hour!" Talk with each other. Get to know each other. Share those mundane details. Maybe one of you wrote Voltron fanfic you haven't shared with each other yet. Read it out loud to each other! Get real time reactions and feedback.

Get out of your head and just... share.

i'm sorry for posting vaguely -- I just want someone to believe in me

Okay. I believe in you!

[pizilo]

What does everybody recommend for the classic story of my crush?

I'm just a random girl and he's the jock who everybody knows. He's beautiful and funny and I like him a lot... but I know all ill ever be able to do is to somewhat get to know him. Not to mention he's dating a cheerleader...

How do you recommend I try to introduce myself so I don't sound ridiculous or desperate? He's in a few of my classes.

[WastedSpace]

What does everybody recommend for the classic story of my crush?

I'm just a random girl and he's the jock who everybody knows. He's beautiful and funny and I like him a lot... but I know all ill ever be able to do is to somewhat get to know him. Not to mention he's dating a cheerleader...

How do you recommend I try to introduce myself so I don't sound ridiculous or desperate? He's in a few of my classes.

You introduce yourself like you introduce yourself to anyone else. This makes it sound like you're planning some big dance and song routine. Just "I'm pizilo, don't we have a few classes together".

However, you absolutely shouldn't be making a move towards him while he's dating someone else. That's unfair to the cheerleader, to him, and to you. =\

[Moonshadow3]

Why do I even try with crushes