Stormowalf wrote:So there's this girl in our school, let's call her... Aero. So I met Aero when I was in S1, or well my first year in secondary. She didn't seem like weird or anything, she was just my classmate and we eventually became friends. She introduced herself as a bi person and I didn't think much of it at first, I supported her but slowly, I began to see hints from her friends that she liked me, she had a crush on me. At first I didn't really care, she wasn't the type to just confess so I just hid that I knew that she liked me. People were shipping me with her ad I didn't like it but well I shrugged it off. Then one day, suddenly, she confesses. Her friends, my friends immediately start smirking at me, asking me if I like her. I didn't like her, at all, I had 0 feelings for her but I just couldn't say no. I just simply said to wait for her to until I got things clear with my own feelings. It was a while back when I knew I was ace, it's been a month and I really don't know what to do. I feel pushed and toyed around with, as if I'm forced to fall in love with her and dance off into the sunset with her. Maybe I sound mean, maybe I am being mean but any opinions on what I should do?
Tricky situation.
I had something similar tbh. There was this guy in the year above, who liked me, and asked me out. I only said yes bc my friend was literally grinning her head off nodding. And i felt way to awkward to turn him down. my friends pushed me to hold his hand, and to kiss him (but i didn;t want to so it was awk and didnt happen lmao). I avoided him, and eventually just made up this lie that i had agreed to date as a joke. Bad move, as that's quite mean. We never like officially broke up, but he never spoke to me again bc someone told him about my lie. It was a super awk time and i super regret it, even now i wish i did things differently to avoid myself going through that awkward time, and so tht he wouldn't have held a grudge about me for being a bit cruel.
Anyways, moral of the story is, please speak your mind! Don't be afraid to tell your friends and her that you just don't like her. It doesn't matter really, your friends will find something new. And the girl, well its unfair to date her without liking her as I'ts leading her on, and kinda like lying to her. I'm sure she'd like you to tell her sooner rather than later.
If shes a good person, and you're friends, she will accept what you have to say. She won't be horrible to you, so don't be scared. bc you should never have to do something you don't want to just to please someone else!
