TheComfortCorner | V.7

[General Chaos]

AHHHHH

I WANT HIM BACK
GIVE HIM BACK

its not fair
Its not right

My dad was the best man
The most caring
Loving
Sweetest person

WHY DID HE GET CANCER
WHY IS HE GONE

What did he do?
He gave all he had to those who didn't have

He gave all his love to people
He gave all his love to his family

And yet only 8 months of fighting this stupid stupid thing called cancer I lose him

He was. My. Everything.
My protector.
My doctor.
My therapist.
My bestfriend.

What do I do now?
I lost everything...
He was my everything...

[DizzyGlitchez]

If you need help, PM me. Don't put your situation too detailed though, im not a specialist on this.

AHHHHH

I WANT HIM BACK
GIVE HIM BACK

its not fair
Its not right

My dad was the best man
The most caring
Loving
Sweetest person

WHY DID HE GET CANCER
WHY IS HE GONE

What did he do?
He gave all he had to those who didn't have

He gave all his love to people
He gave all his love to his family

And yet only 8 months of fighting this stupid stupid thing called cancer I lose him

He was. My. Everything.
My protector.
My doctor.
My therapist.
My bestfriend.

What do I do now?
I lost everything...
He was my everything...

He is probably at a better place.
He's still alive in your heart.
Losing a dad is like losing a very kind, loved and loyal pet. I never related to your problem, but i do know how you feel.
Think at the good memories you had with him.
Hope this makes you better :)

hello yes I'm feeling very anxious rn
please give me a hug I'm shaking
I don't feel good at all

it's because I think my butt is bleeding very slightly and,, I haven't told anyone. I'm really worried it's something bad hhhh

[kiwikweenie]

@ __Cerberus__

hey, there. I've reached out to you before and idk if you remember me but I lost my dad eight years ago and it's hard on me everyday.
my advice to you is when you are ready, seek out a therapist to talk about loss. it may take some time, since the grieving process for everyone is different. people go through the stages at their own pace and experience it differently than some. bargaining for your lossed loved one is part of this...if only we could get them back, if only it was that simple. but we still can hold on to the loving memories we have as a token of their existence.

losing a loved one so dear and close to you is never easy. no matter how bad you feel right now though, I promise you that things will get better. I'm proof of that-- I made it through grief.

it's only been a few days in your case and the world may feel like it's ending but you will be okay. I promise, you will be okay. everything is going to be okay. bad times are only temporary...may he rest in peace and live on in your hearts and memory.

please, feel free to contact me again honey if you need anything, okay? if you need a pal or just an inbox to vent in, I'm your gal.
<3 sending all the love in the world to you and your family.

[cswolf.]

Why am I always in pain and tired </3

[illusion.]

hug pls

[fika.]

I Have one last thing left on this earth that brings me happiness, And he's dying.


He's gone.

i'm so sorry, and take your time to heal. happiness will come again some day, and i know some days seem really dark and hard but don't give up because there is so much worth living for and you deserve the very best. good luck, if you need a friend you can pm me ♡

Why am I always in pain and tired </3

ugh, it's hard isn't it. i think you just need a relaxing day and have a bath and light a few candles and make the day all about you. you sound exhausted and you definitely deserve a days break. good luck ♡

hug pls

mwah! i'm wishing you the best of luck ♡

[ptolemaea]

hug pls

*virtual hug*

[cornspurrd.]

hug pls

*huggo*

[plecostomus enjoyer]

thats it im crying again
im tired of pretending everything is ok, mom
im tired of this stupid positivity stuff
i wont be ok for a very very long time if ever again
i've been completely broken

[fika.]

thats it im crying again
im tired of pretending everything is ok, mom
im tired of this stupid positivity stuff
i wont be ok for a very very long time if ever again

it's okay, you don't have to pretend !! we aren't robots, we aren't built to hide our emotions. don't pretend to your mum, either. honestly, i think it pained my mum more to see me faking my happiness then actually showing my mental illnesses. it's okay to not be okay! and not being okay takes time to be okay again! there are many options such as therapy or doing your own things to help you find that 'okayness' again, such as finding things and focusing on things that make you smile. take pictures of little birbs and draw your favourite food. you're not alone in this! good luck ♡

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to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/