TheComfortCorner | V.7

[g00se.]

This is a personal opinion, but I find this song really comforting, the link for it is below(if you're a girl. idk if it will if your a boy, sorry), so when I feel sad or angry or have some problem, I just listen to this. I'm pretty sure it's a newer song, but it helps me. I just find it very relatable sometimes I guess.

Welp.. Here it is. I hope it helps you girls out there. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=QWtj3TS-J5k


And by the way, don't be afraid to lock yourself in your room and cry or yell at the wall or into a pillow, I think that sometimes helps as well. You could even talk to yourself, it's scientifically proven that it helps to calm you down.

All of you girls who're going through something right now, stay strong, you're loved! Even if you don't think so. Be positive and never think bad thoughts. And never get revenge. The best revenge is taking an insult as a compliment and walking away with your chin up. I hope everyone feels better soon!!! <3

[danheng]

she really... really impacted my life. she's a role model to so many but to me, she was an inspiration. it hurts I'm never going to get to tell her that. tell her how much I care and what she as a person has done for me simply by existing.
and she's gone...
and that sucks.

[slushy puppy]

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I completely failed my test. I studied. I guess I just suck : )

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social anxiety sucks. I know it'll just get more extreme, and I can't stop it. I can't.

[mandalorian]

my boyfriends life is getting worse and there's nothing i can do about it but cry

he'd prefer to stay with our friends than hang out with me for even a weekend

he tells me it's because they wouldn't let him but he knows that they would because i told him it could be his second home if he wanted

he never wants

he takes
and takes
and takes
and takes
and doesn't say thanks

[fika.]

i just hate it.. i hate it when i can hear the both of my parents having a fight. i just want this misery to end.
all i can just do here is just linger in the living room waiting for them to stop, having tears in my eyes. i thought
that it was over, but it just continues.. i feel so dreadful just hearing them, that i have that urge where i want to
cry. but i can't, i just hold them back.. i feel like a freak whenever i cry. i don't know how to distract my mind
from this. i'm not ready to move away from the house that i grew up in, i'm just not.

i'm sorry that you needed to see that. i become sensitive over stupid things.

i am so so sorry this is happening. it is horrible being in a fight, let alone listening to one. whenever my parents fight, i tend to just shut down. i cry and cry and cry, which helps a bit i guess. the best thing i have done which may help you is putting earphones / headphones in and blasting something. whether it is music, your favourite tv show or favourite movie. it not only blocks out the sounds, it helps distract your mind from it all. honestly, do not feel like a freak when you cry. it is natural. if it wasn't natural, we wouldn't do it! and trust me, i am probably the ugliest crier ever. i feel like kim kardashian when i cry, because my mouth does that whole D: thing and i go all snotty and i can't breath and don't even get me started on those sobs! to be honest, i don't think i have ever seen a cute crier?? or someone that doesn't feel like a freak when they cry. but it is natural. if it comes, it comes. don't hold it back! hopefully everything is sorted out soon, if you ever ever need someone, i'm only a pm away! <3

There was quite a lot of drama in our class with two girls,
they were both talking behind each other’s backs and it
was really annoying, honestly.

I really like school and I want to do my best, but if people
are going to play up then what’s the point in trying? I was
trying to focus on my work but the two girls were
distracting me.

We had a few teachers and the deputy come into our class
to talk to the girls so that took up half our lesson. One of
the girls decided to fake cry so she could go home early
(and it worked).

I’m just so fed up with the drama! I’m trying so hard and
I’m pushing myself beyond the limits to get good grades so
I can impress my parents but it’s not working because my
class is so unorganised and chaotic.

oh, the learning joys of education and 'friendships'! alright, so my best advice is sit tight. this happened in my old school, when we HAD to go to school. now at this age we can choose to carry on doing education or doing an apprenticeship (an intern). so, i am still in education, which is great, because i'm surrounded by people that want to learn. however, i wasn't originally.
i basically taught myself the whole curriculum! what the best thing to do is if the teacher isn't bothering with them two, call them over and ask them to explain something to you. truth is, teachers love students that actually want to learn. my old english class was a mess with no one listening, so i asked him to explain some key quotes that i need to know and he ended up sitting by me the whole hour and we were talking about the book we were studying. once you get home, sit and work. i get it's meant to be a relaxing time, so maybe only dedicate an hour or two a day to quickly make up for the messing around in your subjects. go over revision notes, do tests to practise your knowledge. it is a massive help! and i turned out okay, and i'm not one of those people that are naturally smart. i have to really work for my grades, so i have complete faith that you can too! good luck!<3

I'm done with them. They aren't my real friends. As far as I know I don't have any real friends at school anymore. All I have are fake friends that insist on hanging around and annoying me. I'm fed up with it. Why can't they treat me with respect? Oh wait that's impossible for them. They barely even respect the teachers more/less the students around them including me. Why can't I have real friends for once. People who actually TRUST me. What did I do to you to lose your trust? What did I do wrong? Hell, I'm about to have a mental breakdown! Its 12:16 AM, I have school tomorrow and I'm not excited. Its gonna be the same thing over and over again. If I ignore even one of them they're all gonna get on my ass about it. Its getting to the point when I'm thinking about switching schools. All I have now are online friends. At least they trust me and comfort me when I'm upset.

Sorry about this rant.

don't apologise for your rant! we all go through it. i had the exact same problem! thankfully, i only had two years left at my old school and i just sat tight and powered through it. however, in lessons i sat with other people so i wasn't constantly surrounded by the same people. this advise sucks i know it does but if you aren't one for confrontation like me, the best thing you can do is sit through it. they don't respect you, shame on them; but you'll be the one with tolerance and you'll be the one that gets farther in life. respect and kindness can get you very far, i promise. sit tight though buttercup! i survived, you definitely can.
good luck! if you ever need a new friend (online, but a new friend none the less), feel free to message me! my inbox is always always open! good luck<3

I’m my goshhh I’m failing at life so hard. I missed my morning class on Tuesday b/c I overslept. I donmt know of we had our quiz then or tomorrow. Now I’m worried I’ll oversleep tomorrow. I have to read a Shakespeare play which I have been doing, I need a theses for my 480 lvl Philosophy class tomorrow.

Which none of that is bad, besides the quiz.

I just remembered I was supposed to watch a film for my film class & I forget the film. I’m just going to stay up all night tonight so I won’t oversleep. I’ll find the movie, reread the play, make my theses more readable, shower, and see what time it is. Watch family guy idk but my life is a mess someone help me adult <_>

Missed breakfast today i need food

2:30am and i have insomnia anyways so i can stay up, just really stressed <_>

coming from a barely an adult, i can help! i go to one of the top five colleges in the UK, so the stress load, while maintaining a social life and remaining sane is COMPLETELY difficult. what has helped me is planning. make a to do list. it'll make you feel so much better and more organised and like you are truly adulting. the best thing to do when you miss class is email a teacher or someone in your lesson. that way the teacher sees you are taking initiative and actually care about your lessons. once you get work, write it down. writing it down physically, not making a mental note. if you do write it down, bravo! get into the habit of when you get home read what you wrote down and start it straight away. don't say "nah in an hour" because jheeeeze did i learn that the hard way. totally not the way to go. do work as soon as you get it. have small breaks every 35 minutes or so, such as popping to the loo or getting a snack (a hot drink = motivation am i right). as soon as you wake up, eat, prepare your lunch for the day. get home and eat. snack before bed. never starve. good luck!<3

I’m really sick right now. I feel like I’m dying to be honest. My mother is forcing me to go into school, but while she’s yelling at me I’m gagging over the sink. Does that make any sense? She just told me to take a vitamin c tablet which really doesn’t do anything after you’re already sick. I was in the shower and I couldn’t keep my balance, my head hurts like there’s a needle in it. Like all of my pain is concentrated on one spot. My vision is blurry and all of my body hurts.


I don’t know what to do. Do I lock myself in the bathroom until it’s too late to leave? Or go to school and get everyone sick? Or just puke all over the floor and maybe then she’ll understand that I’m sick.

i mean, the most obvious thing to do is just stay home. but your mum obviously is not too happy with that. puke on the floor? am i too late? hopefully you don't have to clean it up. i know i'm definitely too late for this, but if you're at home just relax and nap. stay hydrated with water throughout the day and lightly snack if possible (dry salted crackers are a big help). i hope you feel better soon!<3

I need a hug pls

if you need a friend, my inbox is open!<3

why is my sister so full of herself.why do i have to do everything for her, despite the fact that she has the capability to do it herself. and even when i do it, she keeps believing that i did it wrong. if im just constantly doing everything wrong why doesnt she just do it. if i dare try to say anything back, she'll resort to saying something negative about me. like today, i know it probably wasnt the best choice but i called her the worst sister ever bc of something that happened. then she responds with "go cry about it then". she makes me feel like a lesser person and the dumb one out of our whole family. and the thing is, i bet she wouldnt say that in front of her friends, which is one of the reasons why im so frustrated about it all. i really hate how fake she is. she never cleans the house, and when she was forced to vacuum she barely even did any "cleaning", it was like 6% of the living room cleaned. im always making sure the tables and floor is clean since we have a big family and it gets dirty quickly. i do this out of my own accord for everyones sake too. she once got mad at me for tidying up her unorganized shoes. ugh i dont know how to even deal with this. im sick of being in this position.

that must really suck. i am so sorry she treats you so poorly! have you tried sitting her down and talking without raising voices? the good thing is, your family can see your effort. just because she doesn't, doesn't mean the others don't either.
you are really appreciated around your household, and what you do means so much to everyone! the best thing to do is not make sly comments; sooo much easier said than done i know i have an older brother who is a pain in the bum. however, biting your tongue you can say alll the mean things in the world under your breath when you're going to bed! it really does suck she treats you so poorly, hopefully things turn out for the best soon. good luck!<3

why do i miss her when she cheated on me...

i hate you
you left me heartbroken
you dumped me
you lied to me
you lied to everyone
you started a hate attack on me
you didn't care about me
you used me
you forgot about me
you left me to die

so why do i miss you?

the unfortunate thing is, we are human. we aren't robots. we aren't programmed to feel no emotion, though it sure does feel a heck of an easier option, doesn't it? yes, they cheated on you, and yes, they are a horrid person for that. karma will get them back! karma has no dead line (: but don't forget about the memories, they have shaped you to this day. whether it was for the worse or the better. maybe you need closure? have one last talk with them about it, ask questions. why did they? what was running through their brain? it will certainly scratch the raw surface, but in the long term you will feel better and not feel like you caused it to happen. you didn't, i promise. it is okay to miss people, don't feel ashamed of it. it is one-hundred percent okay, just like you will be one-hundred percent okay soon. soon may not be tomorrow, or next week, but soon. i promise. good luck!<3

ugh I’m so irritated and anxious. <_> my prescription for my anxiety is almost out and its my fault because I didn’t get my refill before it expired. now i have to go see my doctor again because it is a controlled drug.

my stupid landlord came again today unannounced wanting to show my apartment. I still live here ?? can you not text me or give me any notice wth

so I didn’t let him in and he got all “stern”. like bruh what you gonna do? evict me? you won’t. who you gonna get to sign a three month lease at the end of a semester screw you

so I call him after he leaves and I’m like you can show my apartment but I need a heads up so I can at least be dressed/not have a sink of dishes ?? I feel like that isn’t much to ask oml i hate him he’s so inconsiderate and i’m not gonna take it so w/e thanks for making me get really anxious for no reason

yikes! what a nasty landlord! he sounds vile :c the best thing to do is not get annoyed or angry, because i think they do have a right to do something about it? either that or they will make your life a living hell while you are there. you did the right thing by calling him. i hope it all sorts out soon! good luck!<3

Today is just one of those days where you really dont want to get out of bed....

Its raining and im out of soda... again....

Its alwaysnwhen its raining. And my brother and sister in law are at work so no luck for a ride

these days are the worst! sleep the day away! no one is judging you! rain is such a lovely thing when you're not out in it, and the best way to spend a rainy day is to stay in bed. have a you day! relax! maybe binge watch something or read.
make an absolutely banging playlist. maybe click on the links down below! i hope you feel better soon, if you need a friend, inbox me! i don't bite! <3

i have an online friend that im extremely
addicted to, i have so much fun when we
skype and text. but when he’s away i grow
really depressed and upset. it’s unhealthy.
i wish he would just get out of my head.

that's completely fine! does he know how you feel? maybe just not text as much which sounds super duper cruel but maybe a bit of distance will help?? if not, completely understandable! maybe to make you feel better arrange to visit?
meeting online friends is such a great experience and opportunity. i hope things work out! good luck!<3

I was sitting in my fifth period talking to friends, when a boy, we’ll call him ‘L’, walked over.
Now, I used to go to elementary with L. We knew each other for years, and never were we friends. He walked over, looked directly at me and said; “Man you really hate me”. I didn’t say a word. All of my friends, who I had

just recently made that year considering I was new here not long ago, all turned to look at him. Then they looked back at me. I was so embarrassed at that very moment. “Why do you even hate me?”. What a stupid question. And my friends didn’t seem to care why I didn’t like him. In all honesty, no one did! And it’s not that everyone was being mean to him, no. He had forced that image on himself. And if people thought he was bad now? They should have seen him when we were younger. Now, I could’ve told my friends why I didn’t like him. Could of told them

that he bullied me for the first twelve years of my life. That he made me feel terrible about myself. So terrible, in fact, that I lost all self worth I might have had before. I could’ve told them that he was one of the reasons I was socially anxious, and always put myself down, but I didn’t. I just shrugged, and smiled real big at him. He walked away at that. At least I could be the bigger person.

i am so so incredibly proud of you! i know sometimes you want to scream and shout the reasons, but your friends might think it's too much. people struggle to put themselves in other peoples shoes, so i think you are really brave for staying quiet and you are definitely the bigger person. i am so sorry he treated you so horrible to the point you're socially anxious, i had a similar problem. know you aren't alone though! my inbox is always open! good luck <3

can i just be with him?
why do i have to wait so many more years for this to be a reality?
its finally brung some color back in but i dont know how we can wait
i just want to go camping with him

time will fly by! it sure as heck does not feel like it, but it does. but please don't wish your life away! it is so horrible to think you've wished your life away when you're older, because you wish you could've done so many things then. do whatever you can. live life to your fullest. go ice skating with friends, go to an amusement park, go to the movies and eat all the popcorn during the adverts and have none left for the actual film. plus, it adds as a distraction and time will seem to go faster,
without wishing your life away! good luck! i hope the time comes<3

she really... really impacted my life. she's a role model to so many but to me, she was an inspiration. it hurts I'm never going to get to tell her that. tell her how much I care and what she as a person has done for me simply by existing.
and she's gone...
and that sucks.

i am obviously not sure of the situation, so i don't want to be stepping on egg shells and say the wrong thing;
but you will get better. you will feel better and i promise you, things will get better. you're so strong and me and so many others are here for you at all costs and all the time. it does suck i know, but remember the memories, okay? good luck!<3

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I completely failed my test. I studied. I guess I just suck : )

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social anxiety sucks. I know it'll just get more extreme, and I can't stop it. I can't.

you don't suck. if you only just did it, have high hopes. nothing is a fail unless you didn't answer anything. effort is an attempt. you put the effort in, and it will reflect it. i won't say you get the grade you deserve because you deserve a hell of a lot better so please don't think it reflects you as a person. as for anxiety, it's so horrible. it's disgusting. i can't say get over it because mine is kicking my butt right now, but can you talk to someone about it? a doctor? trusted friend / family member? a teacher? counsellor? i am so sorry to hear what's happening, but it's only temporary. if you ever need a shoulder to cry on, mine is always free! good luck <3

my boyfriends life is getting worse and there's nothing i can do about it but cry

he'd prefer to stay with our friends than hang out with me for even a weekend

he tells me it's because they wouldn't let him but he knows that they would because i told him it could be his second home if he wanted

he never wants

he takes
and takes
and takes
and takes
and doesn't say thanks

right so my friend is going through the exact same problem. and she never takes my advise, because it's not the advise she wants to hear, so i won't say the exact thing to you. i get that it's hard to get through to him, but sit him down and tell him it isn't fair. how you are being treated is not fair. on some days it can be 90/10 effort on your side, and 80/20 effort on his side.
but it should never be 100/0 effort your side. relationship is compromise, and though we all have our bad days it isn't fair for him to do this. my boyfriend used to do this and i gave him an ultimatum. not saying you should, but don't be afraid of losing him if you already have lost him. say you want appreciation. say you want to feel loved and wanted. sometimes a stern talk is all it takes.
i wish you so much luck and to keep your chin up, because we all see the efforts from you. you're such a wonderful person. inbox me if needed <3

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to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

[will byers]

I usually do not like posting on these because of the sense of bothering others, but I really need to now. I might just be paranoid, but everytime after I watch some video relating to ghost hunting and such, I feel such a strong prescense with me and I’m honestly getting so scared. It’s gotten so bad I always beg someone to go with me just to walk down a hallway with me. There’s a voice in my head telling me I’m safe but still. I see my cat who recently passed running down the hallway like he always used to and I always feel somebody watching me. Not evil or good, just there. I’m probably just paranoid and being a little kid but it’s just gotten so bad. Even at school I feel them. That is, if they’re even there.

[Keriae]

im such a terrible friend
i get jealous too easily and i feel like the past couple of weeks we've hardly spoken
and she's got all of this work for her a levels and im sat at home doing nothing bc ive graduated uni
and like she's such a good person but i feel so lonely
i have no friends
and now she's basically telling me off bc im lazy and i dont cook at home and i dont know how to cook
and i feel guilty bc she's got all of this work and she's got a chronic illness and she does so much more than me
and now im crying
im such a toxic, selfish, lazy person

[Smoogiepie]

I'm so freaking bummed. It's not a choice. I keep trying to shake it off and do chores to distract myself but today is just not my day. My roommate is hanging out with her friends having fun and my only other friend is hanging out with his friends having fun. I don't have anyone. It's a beautiful day outside. I wish I had friends. I wish I had someone. I'm a thousand miles away from home and I have no one.
I'm almost certain I have cancer and I'm nervously awaiting the results of my biopsy. I don't want to be alone right now.
Every day I'm on the verge of tears.
I just want to be with someone. Oh my God it hurts so bad to be completely utterly alone during a time of need. I can't take one more day.

[_deactivated_]

Every friendship I form always gets terminated within a year
Am I not cut for friends? Should I grow to my family's expectations of being a heartless business worker? Live in solitude and keep up my rude act that crushes all my friendships?
I don't know but that seems most logical because they all leave anyways. Why try for more when I'll just feel bummed out and get guilt tripped anyways tbh
Must block em out

[cornspurrd.]

Just silently crying in my room.
While at school, EVERYBODY has a friend, i look around
and somebody is laughing, Or talking to their friend.
And i don't have a friend.. I'm all alone all the time.
just alone in the dang corner.

And I get so mad at myself, Anytime anybody talks
to me, Even though i'm desperate for friends instead
of being interesting, Or fun I am silent and awkward.

I.Am.desperate.for.friends.help.