TheComfortCorner | V.7

[Ancient Wind]

my inbox is always open. If you need to vent, you can P.M me!

[Spearow]

ugh I’m so irritated and anxious. <_> my prescription for my anxiety is almost out and its my fault because I didn’t get my refill before it expired. now i have to go see my doctor again because it is a controlled drug.

my stupid landlord came again today unannounced wanting to show my apartment. I still live here ?? can you not text me or give me any notice wth

so I didn’t let him in and he got all “stern”. like bruh what you gonna do? evict me? you won’t. who you gonna get to sign a three month lease at the end of a semester screw you

so I call him after he leaves and I’m like you can show my apartment but I need a heads up so I can at least be dressed/not have a sink of dishes ?? I feel like that isn’t much to ask oml i hate him he’s so inconsiderate and i’m not gonna take it so w/e thanks for making me get really anxious for no reason

[Gifting Dogs]

Today is just one of those days where you really dont want to get out of bed....

Its raining and im out of soda... again....

Its alwaysnwhen its raining. And my brother and sister in law are at work so no luck for a ride

[bowiee]

i have an online friend that im extremely
addicted to, i have so much fun when we
skype and text. but when he’s away i grow
really depressed and upset. it’s unhealthy.
i wish he would just get out of my head.

[fika.]

I want friends.
I always scare them away some how.

i am one-hundred percent sure you don't! a pet can be your friend! nature can be your friend! a friend is something or someone you find happiness and comfort with, that's my definition of it. chicken smoothie and this whooooole community is your friend. trust me! if you do want a friend outside of this trusty 'ol screen though, can you join groups in school? maybe something new to you like chess club; that doesn't even involve much talking so if you have anxiety with new people it's a great start! or maybe start a sport like basketball, take your frustration out on the court (without injuring others of course!). i can promise you that you aren't alone though. so many people are here for you. i promise! good luck!<3

my anxiety has gotten worse these days. this kid that i didn’t know sat next to me for this partner thing and i couldnt stop sweating and my hands were shaking like mad. they probably thought i was some weirdo. i try to act confident and it works, but ugh i don’t even know i’m just stressing out over stupid things again.

i'm able to relate; my anxiety is seriously flaring up recently. the best thing i can advise is when you are confronted with a situation you aren't comfortable with, or feel your anxiety kicking in, rub your index finger (or middle finger, whichever is more comfortable) and thumb together and think 'white feather'. i used to use it when i got sad or angry, and it really helped me out! the good news is, despite what anxiety tells you, no one actually notices and no one thinks you're a weirdo. it may feel like the whole world is caving in and everyone is watching your every move, but they aren't! i promise you! good luck!<3

Why does he hate me SO MUCH? Why does he pick on me instead of HIM. He forces me to do everything just because I'm the girl in the house. (I'm just gonna call myself E for the time being) All he says is "E DO THE DISHES!" or "E CLEAN MY ROOM!" or even "E PUT THE GROCERIES AWAY!" I hate living with him so damn much I just wanna cry. He doesn't pick on my brother. He always favors him when he's sick or anything. I'm always being called "Hateful" " an Idiot" "a dumbass" I could go on, but I won't. Its bad enough that he barely lets us see our mom. I just hate him.

are you able to contact your mum in anyway? or message someone else and ask to spend the weekend with them?
the best thing i can advise is to just quietly do what he asks, and then scream into your pillow when its done. it's the best feeling and i can assure you you will feel better. plus, he's giving you tolerance on working with people you hateeeeee. good life skill. i'm so sorry he treats you like this! i hope you get to see your mum more often. good luck!<3

I don't even know how to explain what's wrong so I'm gonna just do a little ridiculous "roleplay scene" about what's going on

me: oh cool, some new store pets! I should make an art shop so I can get enough C$ for them!
paranoia: but nobody would want to buy your art, idiot
me: I guess you're right.. but maybe if I tried to do some really high quality drawings with tons of effort in them-
paranoia: but you're not good at hq. you're a simple artist who nobody would pay C$ to for art.
me: yeah. that's true. I doubt anything I did would even look good, anyways.


and that's basically it

these things go through everyones minds! you aren't alone! the good news is; people are always looking for art.
always. and your art is definitely brilliant, the only thing you have to lose is that horrible battle. i hate having these battles, i get it when it comes to revision.
me: maybe i should revise for my test tomorrow
paranoia/anxiety/depression: nah ur gonna fail anyway lol
me: but i have a sh-
p/a/d: failure.

it's cruel! but you can definitely make a business out of it, i promise! the best thing to do is bite your tongue, and create it when you feel the motivation to. just make it. or even save draft the thread and then you might get the motivation then. good luck!<3


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i'm falling asleep! it's 23:15 here and i've had such a busy day, so i've replied to as many people as i can! i will reply to everyone after edgy cat of doom tomorrow! <3

to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

[cribunni]

I was sitting in my fifth period talking to friends, when a boy, we’ll call him ‘L’, walked over.
Now, I used to go to elementary with L. We knew each other for years, and never were we friends. He walked over, looked directly at me and said; “Man you really hate me”. I didn’t say a word. All of my friends, who I had

just recently made that year considering I was new here not long ago, all turned to look at him. Then they looked back at me. I was so embarrassed at that very moment. “Why do you even hate me?”. What a stupid question. And my friends didn’t seem to care why I didn’t like him. In all honesty, no one did! And it’s not that everyone was being mean to him, no. He had forced that image on himself. And if people thought he was bad now? They should have seen him when we were younger. Now, I could’ve told my friends why I didn’t like him. Could of told them

that he bullied me for the first twelve years of my life. That he made me feel terrible about myself. So terrible, in fact, that I lost all self worth I might have had before. I could’ve told them that he was one of the reasons I was socially anxious, and always put myself down, but I didn’t. I just shrugged, and smiled real big at him. He walked away at that. At least I could be the bigger person.

[skorch]

nevermind i didn't like how edgy this was skrrt

[drift.]

in case no one has told you today...

good morning/night
you're so very handsome
if you're unhappy change something
the road ahead looks tough, so find someone that will hold your hand through it all.
you're doing great
nice butt 😂


if someone's asking for a pm shoot them one, it'll make them smile <3

[jellybutter]

can i just be with him?
why do i have to wait so many more years for this to be a reality?
its finally brung some color back in but i dont know how we can wait
i just want to go camping with him

[Yeens]

At the young age of 7 I was corrupted,
Now I wish my plans had worked and my friends were more supportive ♡
But that seems like a fairy tail
Doesn't it?

It's hard growing up and never becomes easy,
Even if I'm successful with grades and classes
It never seems to he enough?

I can't live with these people anymore,
Why won't someone save me.

Why won't my mother help me succeed and continue to lie in my face like I was age 7 again

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