TheComfortCorner | V.7

[fika.]

I’m in a tough spot, I don’t know what I want anymore. My life isn’t going anywhere and it all just seems so pointless. My depression has gotten worse again, and I’m really stressed. I feel like I’m annoying my friends, they haven’t said that of course. But its so back and forth one day we’re fine the next they act like I’ve done something. I don’t have any friends at my university. So its not like Imm spending too much time with the friends I have when they don’t live here. By myself all the time but when they want to do something and I’m not like ready to go out the door when they show up without making plans, they get mad about it. How you gonna get mad at someone for not being ready to go out when you never even said you were coming over? Wth

So tired of days passing by and absolutely nothing changing or improving. ^^

i'm sorry to hear you're in a bit of a tough spot! the thing to do is, message / talk to your friends and explain that they need to start making plans in advance. i am completely on your side; i have friends that make a lot of last minute plans and i cannot attend them. my boyfriend is always with me when his friends message him last minute, so he never gets to go out either.
i get annoyed because i like times, dates, and planning.

as for not having many friends in uni, are you able to join any groups? maybe connect with someone in one of your classes and then become friends, go back to each others rooms/dorms (i'm not sure which country you live in so i'm not sure of the specific 'term' you would call it).

also, i believe it was you saying about your friend? i hope he is okay now! (it's been a couple days since i have stalked this thread).
good luck!<3

my friends are only happy and together when we play a game or when me and my best friend are away. do they really want us to be their friend?

maybe it's time to branch out and find new ones!

i always felt like that too, and then i always think i am being dramatic and looking too into things. the majority of the time, i am looking too much into things because i'm really sensitive; but not all the time. if you feel like that, there is no point having those toxic people in your life. i'm not saying cut them off, but maybe have a conversation with them about it or ask your best friend whether they feel the same or not. i hope things turn out okay with you guys!<3

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my excuses for not posting on this thread is just getting worse.

i am sorry i haven't been there for you all! if some of you know me, you would know i used to come on this thread religiously throughout 2016 and beginning of 2017, but when exams came around the corner and my own mental health has plummeted i'm hoping you can all understand why.

i hope i can be more active on here for you all!<3 here are the links i used to post!

to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

[cornspurrd.]

I want friends.
I always scare them away some how.

[Animall]

I'm in my education class right now and its driving me nuts. RIght now I am being taught how to understand someone elses perspective! It is beyond condescending it's ridiculous. I am in college. I know how to maintain positive relationships. Why is my tuition going towards ridiculous classes on how-to-maintain-positive-relationships-101?

I need this class to end now before I get too aggravated.

[saint]

my anxiety has gotten worse these days. this kid that i didn’t know sat next to me for this partner thing and i couldnt stop sweating and my hands were shaking like mad. they probably thought i was some weirdo. i try to act confident and it works, but ugh i don’t even know i’m just stressing out over stupid things again.

[Ancient Wind]

If anyone needs help, My PM box is always open!

[revvington]

Why does he hate me SO MUCH? Why does he pick on me instead of HIM. He forces me to do everything just because I'm the girl in the house. (I'm just gonna call myself E for the time being) All he says is "E DO THE DISHES!" or "E CLEAN MY ROOM!" or even "E PUT THE GROCERIES AWAY!" I hate living with him so damn much I just wanna cry. He doesn't pick on my brother. He always favors him when he's sick or anything. I'm always being called "Hateful" " an Idiot" "a dumbass" I could go on, but I won't. Its bad enough that he barely lets us see our mom. I just hate him.

[the folly of man]

I don't even know how to explain what's wrong so I'm gonna just do a little ridiculous "roleplay scene" about what's going on

me: oh cool, some new store pets! I should make an art shop so I can get enough C$ for them!
paranoia: but nobody would want to buy your art, idiot
me: I guess you're right.. but maybe if I tried to do some really high quality drawings with tons of effort in them-
paranoia: but you're not good at hq. you're a simple artist who nobody would pay C$ to for art.
me: yeah. that's true. I doubt anything I did would even look good, anyways.


and that's basically it

[kishu.]

i just hate it.. i hate it when i can hear the both of my parents having a fight. i just want this misery to end.
all i can just do here is just linger in the living room waiting for them to stop, having tears in my eyes. i thought
that it was over, but it just continues.. i feel so dreadful just hearing them, that i have that urge where i want to
cry. but i can't, i just hold them back.. i feel like a freak whenever i cry. i don't know how to distract my mind
from this. i'm not ready to move away from the house that i grew up in, i'm just not.

i'm sorry that you needed to see that. i become sensitive over stupid things.

[Vixem]

There was quite a lot of drama in our class with two girls,
they were both talking behind each other’s backs and it
was really annoying, honestly.

I really like school and I want to do my best, but if people
are going to play up then what’s the point in trying? I was
trying to focus on my work but the two girls were
distracting me.

We had a few teachers and the deputy come into our class
to talk to the girls so that took up half our lesson. One of
the girls decided to fake cry so she could go home early
(and it worked).

I’m just so fed up with the drama! I’m trying so hard and
I’m pushing myself beyond the limits to get good grades so
I can impress my parents but it’s not working because my
class is so unorganised and chaotic.

[revvington]

I'm done with them. They aren't my real friends. As far as I know I don't have any real friends at school anymore. All I have are fake friends that insist on hanging around and annoying me. I'm fed up with it. Why can't they treat me with respect? Oh wait that's impossible for them. They barely even respect the teachers more/less the students around them including me. Why can't I have real friends for once. People who actually TRUST me. What did I do to you to lose your trust? What did I do wrong? Hell, I'm about to have a mental breakdown! Its 12:16 AM, I have school tomorrow and I'm not excited. Its gonna be the same thing over and over again. If I ignore even one of them they're all gonna get on my ass about it. Its getting to the point when I'm thinking about switching schools. All I have now are online friends. At least they trust me and comfort me when I'm upset.

Sorry about this rant.