One of my best friends has a crush on me, and she is very touchy-feely and likes to hold my hand and lay on me.
But she has a boyfriend.
Her boyfriend is sooooo nice and he's one of my friends and they are so happy together.
Recently, her boyfriend messaged me and said that he knows that she likes me.
The girl told him because she is honest and she said that "Just because I like someone else doesn't mean I love you any less." Which is awesome that they can trust each other like that.
Anyways, I'm sort of stuck in the middle of this and I'm okay with that but I'm concerned about the boyfriend because he is one of my only friends, and if she decides to break up with him, I'd hate for him to think it was for me.
I'm sorry if this was hard to follow (I mean I'm confused myself) but I wanted to ask
1) how do I tell her no and still be friends with her ?(I mean I do like her back but this can't continue on like it has, I feel like I'm lying to her boyfriend all the time and I HATE it)
2) how do I keep my friendship with him when his girlfriend stares at me like I'm food right in front of him?
Thanks for any advice at all
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