friends dønt lie. wrote:niykee wrote:Okay guys I have a quick question. So this guy I’ve been talking to for a bit over the break is really confusing me. It’s the same guy from my last post as well. So my situation is that I can’t tell if he’s genuinely interested in me or not?
I mean he initiates conversations sometimes, and tends to carry them on a lot as well. He’s nice, but at the same time he calls me idiot and stuff whenever I goof up lmao. ( I should probably also add that he has a very sarcastic and weird humour)
So anyways, i find that he takes forever to reply to my snaps/messages? Like they’re usually 20-30 minutes apart from each other. It takes him a long time to actually open them and it kind of annoys me. And this doesn’t happen every now and then, it’s every single time. Not to mention there have been times where he leaves me on read? I’ve never been one to really care about that in all honesty But with him it just irks me so much because I️ want to continue our conversations. I can’t tell if he’s trying to put on the whole ‘I’m cool’ kind of thing and is purposely doing this? If you want an idea of what he’s like you can check out my last post!
i’ve kind of had the same problem! does he respond with longer messages, or an apology as to why he didn’t respond earlier, or does he reply with something simple like “k”? if he’s constantly leaving you on read but still loves to talk to you, it’s pretty hard to tell whether he’s interested in you or not haha
He’s never sent me one word replies, he tends to add a bit more. He’s never ‘k’ed me before either (thank god hah)
It’s just really weird to me because we talk for hours on end, like our conversations last 5 hours at least, I️m just so confused because he will just randomly leave me on read? And it’s like why??? I️ talked to my friend about it before and she said that it seems like he’s just trying to be cool? Idk, I️m so confused and it’s starting to really frustrate me:(