♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Boredom Queen]

I got rejected by my "crush" but still have feelings for him and another guy, one guy is very nice and always makes me laugh, he always takes my side and is there for me, on the other hand my "crush" has started being very rude and avoiding me at all costs, i do the same, he used to be kind and make me blush every once and a while, he always made me laugh although I think he though of me as a nucance, any help please?

Okay, I would go for the other guy, the one who is on your side. Doesn't seem like you have much of a chance with your "Crush". If he was nice until he rejected you, then he's not worth it. Not sure what your relationship is with the other guy, but he seems really nice. I'd pay more attention to him. And most importantly, don't let your "crush" get in your way of finding someone else. Just because one person doesn't like you, doesn't mean nobody else does.

Thanks for the help!although i haven't seen the other guy in some time, i go to his house sometimes and really enjoy myself!Thanks for the advice!

[WastedSpace]

long story short, z and i want to go out, but he's worried that it wouldn't work out any [because both a) our living situations and b) the fact we rarely see each other], and we kind of need some advice on what to do. i've been told that 'long distance relationships (even over a short distance) are hard' and that i believe, but we want to figure something out over just texting and calling each other all the time. like we already do.

if that even made ANY sense at all.

aah goodness first time i'm posting here woof, if i could get a pm with some advice that'd be nice ^-^[/size][/list][/list]

I think you're both being really mature about this. Use that maturity for the two of you to come to a decision together. :3

[Miku_Cat]

i have a huge crush on a friend i met a couple months ago...
hes super sweet and really helps me with my mental health issues, in ways that nobody has been able to manage
he also told me that ive helped him in ways nobody else has, and that im very good for him
i really want to ask him out eventually! Im vaguely apprehensive because hes polyam and is already dating some people, but im warming up to the idea of it gradually and i think with how kind and good to me he is we would be able to work out jealousy issues if they came up

[kiggy]

i have a huge crush on a friend i met a couple months ago...
hes super sweet and really helps me with my mental health issues, in ways that nobody has been able to manage
he also told me that ive helped him in ways nobody else has, and that im very good for him
i really want to ask him out eventually! Im vaguely apprehensive because hes polyam and is already dating some people, but im warming up to the idea of it gradually and i think with how kind and good to me he is we would be able to work out jealousy issues if they came up

if you think you can handle the fact that hes poly, then I say go for it.
healthy and legitimate polyamorous relationships are totally fine.
if you trust that you'll get a good amount of attention and that he can balance everything, then again just go for it.

[WastedSpace]

i have a huge crush on a friend i met a couple months ago...
hes super sweet and really helps me with my mental health issues, in ways that nobody has been able to manage
he also told me that ive helped him in ways nobody else has, and that im very good for him
i really want to ask him out eventually! Im vaguely apprehensive because hes polyam and is already dating some people, but im warming up to the idea of it gradually and i think with how kind and good to me he is we would be able to work out jealousy issues if they came up

I very much support polyam, but I think you should make sure you are 100% okay with being in an open relationship before you pursue it any further. Just a friendly word of advice. ^^

[garnet.]

General advice; I know things may seem dire now, but honestly, things get easier once you're out of secondary school/high school/sixth form etc. It may seem devastating that your crush doesn't feel the same but honestly, when you get out there in the big , wide world, you'll find someone who loves you for you, and will be there for you no matter what. You'll all find that some day, I know it!

I had completely given up, until I met my current boyfriend, and he is my world honestly. I went through crushes that didn't work out, and some fairly poor relationships, but I came out the other side and he makes me happy.

I guess I'm just saying, if your crush rejects you, or is just getting you down, hold on... There are better things to come!

[Maeja]

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[snailkinz]

I have this huge crush on a boy at school I've been friends with since 2nd grade and have liked for years now. He really helped me when I was struggling in 4th grade and was really my only friend in my homeroom that year and he's the only person who can easily make me laugh and we were able to get along really well and joked around with each other a lot and I've never felt strong feelings for anyone before-


but then we get 'separated' for two school years since we didn't have any classes or homerooms together so we didn't get a chance to talk or anything, so then our friendship just kind of..faded away?? This year we're in the same homeroom and in a class together so thankfully we get to see each other more often and say small things but that's really it?? I see him stare at me sometimes and he does small nice things for me like opening the door or smth but nothing else really. I really miss hanging out with him a lot but my social anxiety keeps stopping me from going to talk to him. Seeing him talk to his other friends like how we used to just makes my heart shatter and it just messes with my head and i can't figure out if we're even still friends since he knows i like him and it's just ugh-

[Prison Cuddles]

First time posting here pretty embarrassing but just sharing my current crush story:
Crush: A
Friend: B
Friends One year older brother: C
A is one year older than me and therefor one grade ahead of me. We are both in band and I really like him. Only problem is that A is pretty popular and I don’t think he would like me because it would look like he is dating someone young (although when we grow up it won’t really matter). I’m not too sure what to do because I’m friends with B and C is friends with A, so if me and A did go out it would most likely be awkward for B and C since they grew up knowing A and I just moved there like 4 years ago. If I could get some advice PM or public that would be great. We are already sorta friends and I really don’t wanna mess anything up

[WastedSpace]

[center]I'm a pretty paranoid person, meaning that whenever he goes out without leaving a message and such I get horribly worried. When we argue I tend to jump to conclusions and almost always end up contradicting myself, or saying things to make it a lot worse. I know that's a horrible trait to have, but I can't help it. What I'm really trying to say is that I want to be a lot calmer in those kinds of situations//would like to handle them better. Do any of you guys have any advice?

If you're having troubles confronting this behavior of yours by yourself, then perhaps a professional could help you sort out the root of these issues and how to better cope with them. :3

First time posting here pretty embarrassing but just sharing my current crush story:
Crush: A
Friend: B
Friends One year older brother: C
A is one year older than me and therefor one grade ahead of me. We are both in band and I really like him. Only problem is that A is pretty popular and I don’t think he would like me because it would look like he is dating someone young (although when we grow up it won’t really matter). I’m not too sure what to do because I’m friends with B and C is friends with A, so if me and A did go out it would most likely be awkward for B and C since they grew up knowing A and I just moved there like 4 years ago. If I could get some advice PM or public that would be great. We are already sorta friends and I really don’t wanna mess anything up

It sounds like you've almost made up your mind. You just have to let yourself finish making up your mind. :3