♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[FLYBOY]

@bblush - You really need to tell him straight up that you're not interested, you're not going to be interested, and he needs to knock it off. I know it sounds harsh but from the sounds of your story you're not being very clear about it and he's not taking a hint, so you need to be a little more up front about it.

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My ex keeps texting me looking for emotional support... I broke up with her, I'm over her, I don't care about her problems. But she just sent me twenty texts expecting me to help her through her personal issues, and ik it's probably selfish but damn I just want her to leave me alone, I'd go back in time and make it so we'd never dated if I could lmao
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[.Coffee]

@bblush - You really need to tell him straight up that you're not interested, you're not going to be interested, and he needs to knock it off. I know it sounds harsh but from the sounds of your story you're not being very clear about it and he's not taking a hint, so you need to be a little more up front about it.

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My ex keeps texting me looking for emotional support... I broke up with her, I'm over her, I don't care about her problems. But she just sent me twenty texts expecting me to help her through her personal issues, and ik it's probably selfish but damn I just want her to leave me alone, I'd go back in time and make it so we'd never dated if I could lmao
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You are not obligated to be anyone's emotional crutch. I've had friends like that and honestly it just gets worse and worse.

It's not selfish at all and it's okay if you need to tell her that she should seek assistance elsewhere. It also wouldn't be wrong to just not respond or block her number. It might sound harsh but you're well within your rights to end it.

[SweetStarlight17]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

Talk to him. Try to stay calm and not be emotional or mad about it but maybe ask him to tell you if he's not going to be able to reply for a while and explain how it makes you feel.

[friends dønt lie.]

okay, i’m gonna call my crush a, my friend b, and my friend’s enemy c.

so, i’ve liked a for a while, ever since my ex and i broke up two years ago. i dated one of his friends for like a day, and he knows about it. i feel like he likes me, since i always catch him looking in my direction, and he blushes when he gets near me. i honestly can’t tell if it’s me, though. the thing is, one of my friends, b, likes him as well. i would hate to ruin our friendship if it meant i asked him out. my friend’s enemy, c, who is also sort of my friend, likes him too. they don’t know i like him, though. i’m thinking about telling them, but i don’t want them to get mad at me.

the worst part is, he’s my cousin’s best friend. they live right next to each other. and whenever i go to their house, almost every time they’re hanging out. honestly i really like him, but i wouldn’t know if it would be worth it to ask him out, if it meant losing friendships and making it awkward to my cousin. any advice?

[Kisiel]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

Talk to him. Try to stay calm and not be emotional or mad about it but maybe ask him to tell you if he's not going to be able to reply for a while and explain how it makes you feel.

I agree. Also, I don't mean to sound harsh but it's a little unreasonable to think he forgot about you just because he hasn't texted you for five minutes. I understand how you feel but just take some deep breaths and realise that you're just overthinking it. He is allowed to do things without talking to you constantly - and vice versa

[WastedSpace]

ok this weekend has been WILD.

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If you don't want him touching you, tell him know. Jerk away from him. Slap his hand away. Keep close to Courtney. Start freezing him out and ignoring him. Get up and sit elsewhere if he sits by you. Etc.

My ex keeps texting me looking for emotional support... I broke up with her, I'm over her, I don't care about her problems. But she just sent me twenty texts expecting me to help her through her personal issues, and ik it's probably selfish but damn I just want her to leave me alone, I'd go back in time and make it so we'd never dated if I could lmao
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Be honest with her. Tell her you're sorry, but you really need some space and distance from her, and you hope she can find another support system. Block her number if you need.

Just because she's going through a hard time doesn't mean you have to be the one for her. Your mental health matters, too.

okay, i’m gonna call my crush a, my friend b, and my friend’s enemy c.

so, i’ve liked a for a while, ever since my ex and i broke up two years ago. i dated one of his friends for like a day, and he knows about it. i feel like he likes me, since i always catch him looking in my direction, and he blushes when he gets near me. i honestly can’t tell if it’s me, though. the thing is, one of my friends, b, likes him as well. i would hate to ruin our friendship if it meant i asked him out. my friend’s enemy, c, who is also sort of my friend, likes him too. they don’t know i like him, though. i’m thinking about telling them, but i don’t want them to get mad at me.

the worst part is, he’s my cousin’s best friend. they live right next to each other. and whenever i go to their house, almost every time they’re hanging out. honestly i really like him, but i wouldn’t know if it would be worth it to ask him out, if it meant losing friendships and making it awkward to my cousin. any advice?

If they get mad at you for simply liking him, then you all aren't that great of friends, and that's good to know. I think telling them so that you can all be honest with each other and discuss what's best for your friendship together, probably none of you pursuing him.

[serenitymontaza]

i'm going throughh my first heartbreak right now n if anybody would like to pm me and hep me i would be so sos o so so grateful

[Panther202]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

Talk to him. Try to stay calm and not be emotional or mad about it but maybe ask him to tell you if he's not going to be able to reply for a while and explain how it makes you feel.

I agree. Also, I don't mean to sound harsh but it's a little unreasonable to think he forgot about you just because he hasn't texted you for five minutes. I understand how you feel but just take some deep breaths and realise that you're just overthinking it. He is allowed to do things without talking to you constantly - and vice versa :)

I am currently in a long distance relationship and I have been for over a year. He isn't allowed to have his phone during school and we both have jobs so we only get to talk for a few hours a day (if we're lucky). Anyways, what I'm trying to say is that if you really have a solid relationship that means a lot to both of you, not texting every few minutes shouldn't be a problem. Plus, you've only been dating for about a month so (I'm sorry if this comes off as rude first of all) you have to remember also that it isn't that serious yet.

That being said, relationships vary and talking every minute may be important to you guys where it isn't in other relationships. You have to look at where your views differ and make sure to have open communication. Before anything else, talk to him about it openly and how you feel about it and make sure you listen to his side of things as well.

Just remember that taking a break from talking isn't always a bad thing :)

[.inactive.]

Ugh, I feel like crap.

So, I have a crush on two different people, one girl one guy, and I honestly feel like I don't have a chance with either. The girl because she's my friend and thinks I'm straight, and she also has a girlfriend, and the guy just because he's single but I don't think he likes me the same way I like him.

I just... I don't know. I know it's okay to be single and everything, but having a girlfriend/boyfriend is something I really want right now, and I really like both of these people, but I just don't know what to do. I'm really quiet because I have social anxiety disorder and it lowers my confidence a lot around others, so I feel like I'll probably never find someone because I don't open up enough... Every single person I've liked never felt the same about me either so that doesn't help.

It's hard for me to get over the girl even though I know she doesn't feel the same, and I want to feel like I have a chance with the guy because he does show some signs that he likes me but I'm scared to open up to him.

Does anyone have any advice about any of this? It's been making me kind of upset today and I'd really appreciate anyone's input.

[imperfectforyou]

I'm going to keep this short as possible. Basically, I've liked this guy for a month or so now. I really wanted to talk to him, but I never did and I'm so mad at myself for it. I had multiple perfect chances to talk to him and like the pathetic being I am, I never took any of them. I've never been in a relationship before, and rejection is one of my biggest fears. Along with that, I'm not very good at conversation. I think he knows I'm into him...
Anyway, the semester just ended meaning I no longer have classes with him. I'll still see him around and I'm considering still trying to talk to him. Any advice on approaching him or conversation starters that won't be awkward?
Thanks in advance for any advice given.