♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[cawaii]

Quick check so you know how he asked if i liked him, i said yes and now its awkward and idk what to do ):

[Mina Ashido]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

[kiffell]

uh so. Last night i had a dream about my crush?? I love her so much, but i've already tried confessing to her, and i dont think she got the message. I dont want to try again because im scared ill ruin our friendship : (

just a few little notes
She might be aromantic, or its just a phase, she doesn't know
we've actually dated once before for like, 2 years? We broke up because she said she didn't know how to properly date and needed time
she is friends with someone who i despise

its so hard to make eye contact with her because im just so scared of, i dont even know. We talk and laugh like normal friends, but everyday i always have the urge to hold her hand again, or just randomly fling my arms around her in a loving and caring matter.
But i cant,, because then people will think im weird, she'll think im weird..
Not to mention, she always tries talking to me/telling me little things in class. So it seems like she likes me back but im not sure..
Im so scared of being rejected and alone. Im so scared of ruining our friendship. I was so happy with her when we were together.
My mind drifted from anxiety and depression to happiness. I felt so safe. I felt like i didn't need to lock myself in my room and not socialize. We barely talk anymore because she is always with the person i dont like. She sits with her at lunch, and talks with her in the mornings. Im so jealous, yet so scared to try and talk to her because im so scared of being rejected and left alone. My soul is so damaged right now. I just need a little bit of help

[kipin]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

i may not be much help, but i am currently in a relationship and lemme tell ya,
communication is key. either the next time you see him or text him,or even
call him (emotion is clearer over the phone), tell him how you feel about it and
let him know how it worries you when he doesn't respond.
i wish you the best, happy holidays!

[Mina Ashido]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

i may not be much help, but i am currently in a relationship and lemme tell ya,
communication is key. either the next time you see him or text him,or even
call him (emotion is clearer over the phone), tell him how you feel about it and
let him know how it worries you when he doesn't respond.
i wish you the best, happy holidays!

Thank-you^^^

Could I get a second opinion though???

[z i m]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

i may not be much help, but i am currently in a relationship and lemme tell ya,
communication is key. either the next time you see him or text him,or even
call him (emotion is clearer over the phone), tell him how you feel about it and
let him know how it worries you when he doesn't respond.
i wish you the best, happy holidays!

Thank-you^^^

Could I get a second opinion though???

[WastedSpace]

So I've been dating this guy, for about 4-5 weeks. I love texting him, he's the highlight of my day. So when I can't text him I sorta get upset. So today he was with his mom so he told me, "in 5 minutes I'll be back on to text you" That was more than an hour ago. I know things may be going on, I just got really upset. What if he forgot about me? I don't know what to do so I said, "I see you're busy, sorry. Have A good night" and that's all. I'm not really the emotional one but I cry sometimes and get really upset because I know he can do way better. What do I do??

I think you need to expect a little less here. You've only been dating a month. You're not married in a long-term relationship where it might be expected you say good-night every night. You should each still have your own space and lives.

Lots of things could have happened that made it so he couldn't text you back, too, so I definitely wouldn't jump to the worst conclusion, nor would I get passive aggressive with him, which is kinda what I think you did. Instead of just giving up, you could have texted him asking "still busy? wanna just talk later" or "hey what's up? did something come up?" or something instead of trying to make him feel bad and making yourself feel worse. You've no idea what was going on around his end. Maybe he got stuck doing chores and his phone died and then he passed out before getting to reply.

If this really bothers you this much - and it does, then you should talk to him and tell him your expectations and what would make you feel best. Ask him what his expectations are and what makes him feel best.
If you two are on different wavelengths, then maybe think about if this is the relationship you want to be in.

Take a deep breathe, go to bed, and start over tomorrow.

uh so. Last night i had a dream about my crush?? I love her so much, but i've already tried confessing to her, and i dont think she got the message. I dont want to try again because im scared ill ruin our friendship : (

just a few little notes
She might be aromantic, or its just a phase, she doesn't know
we've actually dated once before for like, 2 years? We broke up because she said she didn't know how to properly date and needed time
she is friends with someone who i despise

its so hard to make eye contact with her because im just so scared of, i dont even know. We talk and laugh like normal friends, but everyday i always have the urge to hold her hand again, or just randomly fling my arms around her in a loving and caring matter.
But i cant,, because then people will think im weird, she'll think im weird..
Not to mention, she always tries talking to me/telling me little things in class. So it seems like she likes me back but im not sure..
Im so scared of being rejected and alone. Im so scared of ruining our friendship. I was so happy with her when we were together.
My mind drifted from anxiety and depression to happiness. I felt so safe. I felt like i didn't need to lock myself in my room and not socialize. We barely talk anymore because she is always with the person i dont like. She sits with her at lunch, and talks with her in the mornings. Im so jealous, yet so scared to try and talk to her because im so scared of being rejected and left alone. My soul is so damaged right now. I just need a little bit of help

It sounds like you've already decided you don't want to try again, so there's not much for us to say unless you wanted us to convince you to change your mind. =x

Also, if you're feeling lonely, go out and try something new! Go out for a sport, join a club, go to a fun class at your local community center, etc. Something to get you engaged with other people and to show you there's still a life out there. I have depression, too. I know how hard it can be. You have to let yourself want it. You have to push yourself for self-care sometimes. Don't just tie yourself to one person. Be open to all sorts of opportunities!

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I do want to bring my crush my phone number but sometimes blocks me from doing it.. I do want to do it for a long time but what if it's not the time to bring it to her^^

[acura,]

I just want to come here to express how joyful I am. I promise I won’t turn this into my own blog.

So, I’ve come to the comfort corner and here several times to talk about my crush... but aye. I’m so happy, I told him about how I felt and now I’m waiting for a response from him. I’m honestly really happy that I got all that pressure off of my chest, it’s something that’s been bothering me for so long, I feel like since the last time I told him, he and I have gotten so much closer, with a stronger connection. We’re not dating, we’re just friends, but I’ve video chatted him several times, talked to him over the phone many times, messaged him many, MANY times and honestly I feel so happy. I don’t mind what his response is to me liking him, as long as we continue to chat without things getting too awkward, I’m very happy. We’ve talked for 11 months and I’ve been there to support him, and he’s been there to support me. He’s mde me smile so many times, but now we’re splitting up. We’re moving into different schools but in a way, I’ll always feel like he’s there, just supporting me and by my side. I’ve been confused about my emotions towards him, but I now know that I do have emotions for him. Now that I’ve told him what I’ve hid from him for so long, I’m just waiting for a response, and honestly, I’ll be fine with any.

Just a little tip for anyone out there, don’t be afraid to tell someone you like them. :>

Sorry, just wanted to rant about this.

[pjnk]

ok this weekend has been WILD.

im currently camping and yesterday i met this boy, let’s call him aiden. we became pretty close friends and it’s only been like 30 hours.

then it gets weird. at about 10 at night he texts me saying to meet him near his caravan (we are in a caravan park). so i did and he told me my brother said i have a crush on him.

first of all, at that time, I’d only known him for like 7 hours. second of all, I have a crush at school.

i didn’t say anything because he said he kinda had a crush on me and im like wooooah back it up. by the way aiden is older than me by a year.

so then about 10 minutes later I’m in my cabin in bed, on my phone and he texts me to meet at space 80, so i did.

my stepsister (let’s call her Courtney), my stepbrother (let’s call him Richard) and my brother (let’s call him idiot) all came with me.

so at space 80 aiden and I were sitting next to each other and while my siblings were fighting aiden put a hand on my leg. dude I felt so uncomfortable and I stayed so still,, I had no idea what to do. when my siblings turned around he took his hand if my leg.

later on that night im walking around before i went to bed and then I saw aiden so I went over to him. then he asked to KISS and im just shocked and annoyed because he knew I’m not ready for that and i never felt more uncomfortable ever... until the next day.

the next day im sleeping and then I hear knocking at my window. I ignore it and hope it’s just a bird or something but it kept going so i opened my window, but no one was there. so i closed my window and went on my phone. then at about 6:30 i get up, change into my clothes and went for a walk. i ran into aiden and we just talked for a while and then went up to the game room.

there were 2 couches and we sat across from one another. it seemed really awkward since last night and aiden was mainly the one who was talking. then he moved the couch forwards and continued talking.

then the door opened and this little kid was asking if any of his friends were here but aiden and I said no.

then we were interrupted again by someone trying to open the door. aiden figured it was probably the guy who opened all the places so he moved the couch back to where it was and turned around. the guy asked how we got in and aiden said one of the doors were unlocked. the guy didn’t seem in the mood to argue with us so he just walked away.

then aiden sat next to me and we were quiet for a while. he slowly placed a hand on my leg again and i felt so awkward guys it was terrible. the next thing completely ruined my relationship with aiden.

he went in for a kiss and I backed away as soon as possible. im still young and not ready for my first kiss yet, and aiden needed to respect that. i noticed that i was silently crying so I turned away and excused myself.

i was halfway down the hill when aiden asked where I was going. of course I came up with the most original excuse; going to the bathroom. then he went back into the game room and i went to find Courtney.

she was on a jumping pillow with this little girl and so i told Courtney I needed to talk to her. she told the little girl that she would talk to her later. i told Courtney everything that happened this morning. i then asked her if she could stay with me the entire day just in case aiden made another unnecessary move on me and she said yes. then it was fine.

in the spa he put a hand on my leg again and in the pool he hugged me but apart from that it was fine.

i need advice and fast, please help me on what I should do!!