queen aluriya. wrote:i don't want to get too into it because the person i'm talking about may see this, but here goes nothing? and, um, i'm not eighteen? i think i can handle it, though. please don't treat me any different, i'm just as mature as any of you guys. i just need help.
so. i met someone.
uh, this guy and i like the same things and i'm not sure i even have feelings for him.
i mean, sure, he's nice, and he may be a bit better than anyone else, but i'm not ready.
this is the first time i've been so close to relationships. i'm not that young either!
so it was going great for a while and a few days ago he asked me if i liked him. i wasn't sure what to say. did i like him? it wasn't that obvious that he could tell, and he's probably not asking me this for fun. he seemed pretty serious.
i said 'not really,' like anyone would, and he just kind of forgot about it. a few days later i told my friends what happened and they said that perhaps he liked me.
why the heck would he like me? i'm pathetic, but that's not my point. my point is, does he?
he acts a lot nicer to me than everyone else, but i'm his friend.
i remember my friend sort of punched me really hard on the arm (she's like that???) and he saw it and got REAALLY PISSED at her and started showering me with questions like "are you okay?" "do you want to sit down for a while?" "are you bleeding?" etc.
but that's what any friend would do. get mad at the person who hurt you and try to calm you down, no?
he introduced me to his other friend a few days ago and i've been admittingly talking to him a lot, and he kind of noticed and started distracting me.
but again, that's what a friend who really cares about you would do. everyone wants attention!
a few days ago he pulled a few of his other friends over and they talked about something, while i stood in front of a bunch of lockers drawing, probably, and he just...
ran down the hallway and screamed "i might tell you something" at me the last second. i asked one of his friends what he meant and they said he was planning to tell me he liked me. i don't believe it.
do you guys thing it's true?
should i ask him again what he meant?
i really need help.
wolfie~ wrote:should i confess to my crush...?
i know for a fact he doesn't like
me because he's dating someone.
but i mean if i confess i'll have
to move accounts on that app,
because i'll be too embarrassed
to face him again. but i don't want
to loose the friendship i have with
him. yeah, he doesn't comfort me
when i vent and i comfort him when
he vents, but he thinks he's bad at
comforting but in reality just one
word from him will make me feel
better- anyway should i confess?
sorry im like really confused about
rather if i should or not-
niykee wrote:
I have two concerns. The first one is less about a certain boy and more about me. I noticed that I tend to go through crushes like it’s nothing. One week I’ll like one boy, and then the next I’m flirting with another. It just keeps happening and happening and I’m concerned that if there ever is a time I’m in a relationship, my tendency to flip between boys won’t end. I know that it’s hard to tell whether it would happen or not, but It kind of scares me. I’ve actually never dated someone, only had things but was quick to end them because I found myself getting bored too easily. It makes me sound like a crappy person, and I’m concerned because the last thing I want is to hurt someone by being the way I am! Especially if we’re in a relationship. Any advice for me?
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wolfie~ wrote:should i confess to my crush...?
i know for a fact he doesn't like
me because he's dating someone.
but i mean if i confess i'll have
to move accounts on that app,
because i'll be too embarrassed
to face him again. but i don't want
to loose the friendship i have with
him. yeah, he doesn't comfort me
when i vent and i comfort him when
he vents, but he thinks he's bad at
comforting but in reality just one
word from him will make me feel
better- anyway should i confess?
sorry im like really confused about
rather if i should or not-
w0of wrote:so i posted on here maybe one and a half months ago about a kid a thought would be my everything. it was an ldr so that was pretty touchy for me.
i felt so awful cause i had to break things off, i’ve barely had enough time to the necessities everyday with all this homework my teachers have been putting on me. i talked to him as much as i could without letting my grades suffer, which lead to us talking for about five minutes a day.
now i feel even worse cause i’m back to liking an ex of mine, who also lives an hour away but it’s a bit of a different situation.
i’ve known him for three years and we’ve always had this odd connection. at first it was him who was head over heels for me, and it stayed that way for two years, then the tables turned. i started to like him but i made a move too late and missed it. we started talking more and i could tell he definitely still had a thing for me, so we dated for a bit- a good month probably.
to say i miss him is an understatement. there aren’t words to describe how much i adore him, but i’m scared to really start opening up to him again.
i’m not really sure what to do with.. let’s call him b. should i try talking to him more? should i just be open about my feelings? i’m really lost.
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