TheComfortCorner | V.7

[ellie!]

i know i post here a lot
but another hug would be greatly appreciated

[food ☕️]

Apparrently I'm not suppose to tell me dad things? I told him I got something from a specific store, and now I can't eat there because "it's too expensive". I also just now told him that I drove a girl home yesterday, not really thinking anything of it, but my mom whispered behind me "nice going," and then he went on a rant about how they'd get in a lot of trouble if I got in an accident with someone else in the car. I don't even know why this got to me, but now I'm crying in my room. I didn't think it was that big of an issue. I share things with my parents, it's what I do. I think that we're pretty close, but if my dad keeps ruining these rare occasion that I actually share something going on in my life... Well, I guess I've learned my lesson, never telling him another thing ever again. Yay. :)

[fishstix.]

I know I'm always posting on here, but I need to vent again
So my friend's friend, let's call him R, use to be my friend too. He overreacts a bit, and I tried getting his friendship and when I thought we were actually friends, he started getting mad at me. So, R has a girlfriend, she moved away from us and he only talks to her through social media but she's busy with all the work she has to do now. It was recently R's birthday, he was kind of upset that she didn't say happy birthday to him, so I when I saw his girlfriend come onto a game we all play, I told R she came online so he could come talk to her. His response hurt my feelings a lot, he said "stop messing with my emotions she has no time to play games." and she logged off, right when he came on to check. I told him she did come online and that I didn't know she'd log of after saying hi to me
So he got really mad at me, I kept trying to say sorry, he blocked me on all the games and social media and he ignores and avoids me.. My friend says it's my fault, he also excludes me in all activities and called me some things. I feel so bad ;-;
this all happened this morning

[ThunderCedar]

There are 65 people in my class right now, sixty five! What is this? A concert? .. ah and, nearly not a single one of them is sending me good vibes. Some seem very full of themselves. I've had a laugh with about 3 people so far, that was nice, but then there are the super opinionated people who can't keep it to themselves.
"Oh my god don't talk to me about those Vegetables people. They don't know how to live."
"You mean vegetarians?"
"Yeah ewwwww they suck"

Just let people live how they want. It's not all about you

[Spearow]

Well a few more deaths
My white Silkie, Frodo died. :c yes he was named after LoTR hobbit because he had hairy feet. x3 he was old but he was a little guy with character. <3 I wasn't there to bury him.

I went to my parents for a day, because I needed a ride very early this morning to take my senior cat to the vet (she's doing okay). We stopped at my grandmother's, and they were talking idly. Then one topic ended, and my grandma asked my mom: "How is [name] doing since her husband passed away?"

And its like I got hit by a truck.

No one told me about him having a massive stroke and dying. I've known him (and his wifey) all my life, and I find out about his death in an offhand comment. He was the sweetest guy, with a laugh that sounded like a teeny tiny evil person laughing. 💚

My mom: "Oh. Thought I told you."

happened weeks ago

i'm sad

[MOVED !!!]

if you feel uncomfortable with your post being replied to, just tell me!

@ food ☕️ - Hmm, that seems a case of an over-protective father, he's extremely stressed, or a bit of bad parenting.
I know it's saddening to hear most or even all of those things, - but have you ever told him how you feel? I think we've
all had similar relationships with our fathers, I love my Dad a lot, but I go to my Mom to talk about things in my life,
I just feel more comfortable that way, - a girl to girl conversation. Dads will be Dads, and that means being a big party-pooper
because of being over-protective. - But then my theory is debunked when you said you were quite close with your Dad?
But all I can say if it REALLY bugs you, - then either talk to him about it, or refrain from talking to him about some stuff,
hiding secrets wasn't an option in my family, but is just some stuff it's rather said to someone else. ( if you get what I mean.

Hope things get better with you and your Dad. ♥
( your username is really cool by the way :0


@ Xuoit - Don't feel bad for doing the right thing. - The odds were not in your favour, her logging off was such bad timing in that situation. - You seem like a really nice person, it's just some people have such bad communication / being close-minded, it's frustrating. - If he never bothered to make the effort to be an actual friend, then he did you a favour by blocking you. - He seems really immature by doing that to be honest. - Please don't feel bad for that. - I really hope you have a good day + week ♥

@ Vixey - Well, Vegetarians do tend to be the 'holy' or 'EATING AN ANIMAL IS EVIL' person in the room most of the time, so unfortunately that's left a bad reputation for people that are vegan </3. - But yes, very true, people should live how they want
and it's pretty sad when someone gets that upset and immature over someone who doesn't want to an animal, it's not that big of a deal.

sorry that you had to go through that, lovely ! ♥

[samm.]

A few hours ago, an absolutely horrific accident happened just down the street from my house. A drunk driver going over 70 mph ran a red light and crashed into another car without even attempting to stop. A mother who'd just recently given birth died, and her husband had to be life flighted to a hospital about two hours away because our local one couldn't handle the seriousness of his injuries. No one knows if he's going to make it. At almost the same exact time that this happened my father, myself, and two of my three younger sisters were all out riding in my dads truck, enjoying the nice weather. We were on our way home from the park, we drove on the same road that the accident happened on, we went through the same traffic light where the two cars later collided. It was only a few minutes difference between the time we passed through the light until the accident happened. Had we decided to come home any later, it could've been us. My father and I had to leave to go to a family friends house a few minutes after we got home and as we reached the end of our street and went to turn, we seen all the flashing lights and emergency vehicles. I can still see the scene in my mind, it's there every time I close my eyes. That could've been us. I could've died, my sisters could've, my father could've. My mother and sister back at home would've never known. None of us heard the accident, only the sirens afterwards and she didn't think they had stopped near by so she didn't go outside to look. Its been almost seven hours since it happened and my anxiety is still through the roof. I can't stop shaking. I keep bursting into tears every time I think about that poor couple and their family, and every time I think about what would've happened had it been us. I don't think I'm going to be able to sleep at all tonight.

[cyrevan]

I'm a mess today.

[kolechia]

You know you're at an awful school when the students set
fire to it. I hate how my school won't do anything to change
things unless a parent complains. It's so pathetic and sad,
us pupils don't even have a voice anymore. Why is my school
going downhill?! I can't wait to leave this awful place...

[decembuary;]

when will things become okay again?