TheComfortCorner | V.7

[♡ — the anime club !]

could use some words of upliftment, maybe some 'don't give up' words. thanks

hey, look you're amazing, don't be sad aight ? it's okay, and if you wanna talk shoot me a pm !

[fishstix.]

This isn't really 100% related to my real life but more of online
So I've been having problems in real life, yes, but I go to this one game and I use to feel happy playing it and I felt like it was my internet home.. With my friends and everything..

Well there's dungeons in the game, and my best friend has been always ditching me to do a dungeon I also need to do
She says "hey I need stuff from it go away" and she literally said that and it just made me feel so bad.. I always helped her with everything and now I just ask to join her on her dungeon and she just.. says no and some other things
I just feel so sad and left out, that someone I thought was my best friend was probably just with me because I helped her

She's been insulting me a lot lately too, calling me an idiot.. and some other words I shouldn't be saying on this forum and calling it a "joke". I feel sad about this every time it happens and I could use some cheering up ^^;

[∘Raven∘]

This isn't really 100% related to my real life but more of online
So I've been having problems in real life, yes, but I go to this one game and I use to feel happy playing it and I felt like it was my internet home.. With my friends and everything..

Well there's dungeons in the game, and my best friend has been always ditching me to do a dungeon I also need to do
She says "hey I need stuff from it go away" and she literally said that and it just made me feel so bad.. I always helped her with everything and now I just ask to join her on her dungeon and she just.. says no and some other things
I just feel so sad and left out, that someone I thought was my best friend was probably just with me because I helped her

She's been insulting me a lot lately too, calling me an idiot.. and some other words I shouldn't be saying on this forum and calling it a "joke". I feel sad about this every time it happens and I could use some cheering up ^^;

That’s not ok. I am so so very sorry that has happened to you. I would honestly just block her. Friends don’t treat friends like that, so she’s obviously using you until the point she doesn’t need you and dumps you. It’s called being a parasite. Just remember you have not done anything wrong. All the blame rests on her ok?
I’m so sorry this happened.

[fishstix.]

This isn't really 100% related to my real life but more of online
So I've been having problems in real life, yes, but I go to this one game and I use to feel happy playing it and I felt like it was my internet home.. With my friends and everything..

Well there's dungeons in the game, and my best friend has been always ditching me to do a dungeon I also need to do
She says "hey I need stuff from it go away" and she literally said that and it just made me feel so bad.. I always helped her with everything and now I just ask to join her on her dungeon and she just.. says no and some other things
I just feel so sad and left out, that someone I thought was my best friend was probably just with me because I helped her

She's been insulting me a lot lately too, calling me an idiot.. and some other words I shouldn't be saying on this forum and calling it a "joke". I feel sad about this every time it happens and I could use some cheering up ^^;

That’s not ok. I am so so very sorry that has happened to you. I would honestly just block her. Friends don’t treat friends like that, so she’s obviously using you until the point she doesn’t need you and dumps you. It’s called being a parasite. Just remember you have not done anything wrong. All the blame rests on her ok?
I’m so sorry this happened.

Thank you ^^;
It's just whenever I make a new friend, she follows me still (unless of course she's doing a dungeon ) and talks to that new friend of mine. Before I know it, they're both doing stuff without me and she says things about me and makes the new person not like me.
I'll probably just block her, the community in the game is really small and I have trouble making new friends because everyone already knows eachother.. which is why I talk to newer players that don't know the older players like me and help them out trying to be friends with them

I just saw a notice that she got an achievement from completing the entire dungeon... And I thought we'd do the dungeon together, guess not

[∘Raven∘]

This isn't really 100% related to my real life but more of online
So I've been having problems in real life, yes, but I go to this one game and I use to feel happy playing it and I felt like it was my internet home.. With my friends and everything..

Well there's dungeons in the game, and my best friend has been always ditching me to do a dungeon I also need to do
She says "hey I need stuff from it go away" and she literally said that and it just made me feel so bad.. I always helped her with everything and now I just ask to join her on her dungeon and she just.. says no and some other things
I just feel so sad and left out, that someone I thought was my best friend was probably just with me because I helped her

She's been insulting me a lot lately too, calling me an idiot.. and some other words I shouldn't be saying on this forum and calling it a "joke". I feel sad about this every time it happens and I could use some cheering up ^^;

That’s not ok. I am so so very sorry that has happened to you. I would honestly just block her. Friends don’t treat friends like that, so she’s obviously using you until the point she doesn’t need you and dumps you. It’s called being a parasite. Just remember you have not done anything wrong. All the blame rests on her ok?
I’m so sorry this happened.

Thank you ^^;
It's just whenever I make a new friend, she follows me still (unless of course she's doing a dungeon ) and talks to that new friend of mine. Before I know it, they're both doing stuff without me and she says things about me and makes the new person not like me.
I'll probably just block her, the community in the game is really small and I have trouble making new friends because everyone already knows eachother.. which is why I talk to newer players that don't know the older players like me and help them out trying to be friends with them

Absolutely! I used to play online games like that, and I had a similar situation. If there’s a online forum for the game I’d suggest joining it, and meeting people on there before playing with them in game. Join a guild if the game has one. Build a community of people that actually care for you. If it comes to it, report her to the game moderators, as she almost sounds like she’s intentionally ruining your experience.

[fishstix.]

Once again, the community is very small
So it is closely moderated, and the forums are very small too. People only go on there to make questions and suggestions

I am in a guild, very nice people in it, but they're all very quiet.. Always busy helping her.. they say hi to me but go back to helping her out with a dungeon.. I remember once they invited me but she went and teleported them all away to a dungeon before I could respond and whispered me with a "ha".
I also talk to her through discord ( A gamer chat thing ) and that's where she usually calls me names and stuff, knowing that the game owner could ban her for insulting me through the game

haha sorry It's a bit confusing to say this without using any names and I feel like I'm spamming this topic u.u

[Keir;]

i just wish it was easy for everyone else to tell when i'm upset. i wish i wasn't so good at hiding it until i completely break. i'm so done with everything. there's no point to anything. i always feel sick and tired. no matter how hard i try with anything i'm apparently never good enough. i'm good at making people not like me without even trying. i'm apparently a horrible person: i'm mean, and rude, and cold, and unsympathetic, and stuck up. and the way i think and feel and act and talk is apparently really messed up and different and not normal as well. and i need to stop feeling sorry for myself all the time; there's no reason for people to care about me, they aren't obligated to, and i've never done anything special to make them. i really just need to get over myself and grow up. but i really just wish people cared about me as much as i care about them sometimes; though i apparently never show it. because i honestly don't even know how. but when my friends or family are upset over something i also get so upset and usually break down crying and feel so helpless because i know i can't really do anything to help but i just hate seeing them so upset?? sometimes i think i care too much, about people who don't seem to care about me. i just wish i could have people who love me and care about me and are there for me; i'm sick of always being alone, i can't deal with it;; i'm just so sick and tired of everything and i don't even know anymore, there's no point to anything?? and no one cares. no one even notices.

[makoto niijima]

i live in such misery that ive become numb to the pain i endure

this has been induced by one person

i dont even notice any pain. its not okay;

can i just have a hug?

[fika.]

i just wish it was easy for everyone else to tell when i'm upset. i wish i wasn't so good at hiding it until i completely break. i'm so done with everything. there's no point to anything. i always feel sick and tired. no matter how hard i try with anything i'm apparently never good enough. i'm good at making people not like me without even trying. i'm apparently a horrible person: i'm mean, and rude, and cold, and unsympathetic, and stuck up. and the way i think and feel and act and talk is apparently really messed up and different and not normal as well. and i need to stop feeling sorry for myself all the time; there's no reason for people to care about me, they aren't obligated to, and i've never done anything special to make them. i really just need to get over myself and grow up. but i really just wish people cared about me as much as i care about them sometimes; though i apparently never show it. because i honestly don't even know how. but when my friends or family are upset over something i also get so upset and usually break down crying and feel so helpless because i know i can't really do anything to help but i just hate seeing them so upset?? sometimes i think i care too much, about people who don't seem to care about me. i just wish i could have people who love me and care about me and are there for me; i'm sick of always being alone, i can't deal with it;; i'm just so sick and tired of everything and i don't even know anymore, there's no point to anything?? and no one cares. no one even notices.

honestly, you're not alone. as you said, it's difficult for you to show your emotions, and some people just think that is who you are. of course, everyone is much more than that. my advice is to open up to your most trusted person, whether that is a friend, a parent, a teacher or even going to therapy. if you never thought of that as an option, it is one! therapy is a great place for you to say confidential information and it is also a good place to vent, and they're not allowed to judge you. letting it out to one person makes it one step easier to trusting another.

the worst thing you're doing is thinking you can't help; but the best thing you can do is just being there for them. be a shoulder to cry on, be the one who offers to get them things or to offer advice/help.

you're not alone, and there is a point to everything. some people just need to see the real you, and it'll happen soon. please keep holding on. good luck!<3

um, well I'm lonely.
Recently made the transition into high school and none of my friends are there. I've been there since school started and I know everyone, but I still feel a bit alienated because everyone knew each other from elem and middle school and they share stories I have no clue about all the time.
My two closest friends that I've had for years and I have kind of been arguing via text and I've been so busy I haven't really gotten a chance to call them and bond.
Honestly I've been a jerk lately because I'm stressed about the feeling that I'm losing my friends and such. I miss everyone.
But I went to one of my new friend's house today (and maybe my crush shhh) for a birthday party and it was p fun. Didn't feel too left out, but there were parts that were just bleh.
I need someone to talk to, someone who's online a lot so we can chat. uvu
Help me

hi!
i'm basically online all day everyday (not chickensmoothie that much tho). if you ever need to talk, i'm here! anyways; get to know your crush ; ))))))) a bit more! get to know the people at that party! I just recently joined college, and all my old friends have forgotten about me tbh so I've had to make new ones. the thing is, they also know everyone previously. so I just join in with them. I try to join in conversation when I can. it's hard, but definitely doable! talk to people in your lessons and outside of school, ask for their social media and just chat. it's such a daunting and scary thing, but I promise you it is one-hundred percent worth it. good luck!<3

i live in such misery that ive become numb to the pain i endure

this has been induced by one person

i dont even notice any pain. its not okay;

can i just have a hug?

I am so so sorry you feel like this. it isn't fair, no one deserves to feel like this. can you talk to anyone you trust? I promise you don't have to go through this alone. i'm no professional, but I can be a friend. of course i'm not there physically for you, but mentally and online I am. can you talk to your parents / a trusted adult about how you feel? maybe a doctor? it's so hard to feel numb, I feel it too often. what I do is do things to distract me (make music playlists, read, watch movies, bake). it's hard, but if you force yourself to do something that requires minimal effort (e.g. lying in bed but making your playlist full of your all time favourite songs) can even boost your mood up the smallest bit. good luck!<3

[deathbell]

I'm just sick of being around people. All they ever do is brag and make me feel like absolute worthless garbage. Literally everyone I know has been in a relationship or is in one, and not that I care that I haven't, but the fact that all these people constantly rub it in my face makes me feel sick because all these people have someone who actually loves and cares about them while I've never even had parents who would support me in anything. It just makes me feel absolutely terrible to see everyone I know with someone who loves them, whereas I have been alone my entire life. Another thing is that I try to talk to people so I can try to get over my loneliness and they just end up never replying. Ever. To anything. But then I look on some social website and see they've been actively talking to other people or hanging out with others and they've just decided I'm not important enough to bother with. I want to know what's wrong with me and why I have such an incompatible personality. Why does everyone hate me? I just want to be done with everything at this point.