TheComfortCorner | V.7

[Cruxich]

I wish I hadn't had that anxiety attack a few days ago. Now, whenever I make a single mistake or do something wrong in public and someone witnesses it and confronts me about it, I feel nervous and like another one will somehow surface.

At work this morning, I asked someone who worked at the place I work at if they were ashamed of me after I did something wrong. She said no, but deep down I knew she was lying even though she definitely wasn't.

Sigh, I wish I didn't have social anxiety and I don't know any good ways to divert my attention or calm me down whenever I feel like an attack is gonna come anytime

[snubbulls]

i feel so useless but there's no one who cares enough to talk.
wouldn't want to bother them anyway.
lately it's been feeling like i don't deserve to be here anymore.
like on earth, that is.
i've never done any real good, and i don't think i will.
i'm just a waste of space.
garbage.

[rainbowwrowell]

Just because... I like to play with boys. Does NOT mean I'm a player!!

Would you say that to a boy who non stopped play with girls! No you wouldn't! You'd be afraid He would hurt you! I can do as much as anybody. I do what I can. I can do what I do! So ''blankie'' Shut up! Because your a bully! La''' and ''m Are some of my friends! ''M cant hurt a fly and la''' would treat everyone respectively. If you dared hurt them!!! This is aimed to my neighbor and ppl who are overally rude to me for playing with bois.


I wanna hug... Anyone? I also need advice...

[Thalassic]

Is it selfish to want a best friend? Not just multiple close friends, one best friend who is above all?

I want one too :')

[hellebore]

I'm sorry I keep posting here. It will be the last one in a while, I promise.

The covering was ripped off the extent of my mom's lifelong victimization in a two day span. I feel such anger, such hatred, such defensiveness over her, but it's terribly selfish to say that it's driving me crazy. She's the one who has had to and continues to go through it. However, she's my mom. Everyone in our family has been mistreating her, my brother and my grandfather worst of all. I don't know the deepest roots of their cruel behavior, but I do know that mom is the most emotional-- more like, the only emotional person in the family (save for my sister who is very young. I am sure she is seen as weak for it, so they know they can easily hurt her and get away with it.
I can't stand it now that I know. I feel like I'm now carrying it as well. She shouldn't go it alone, and now I'm so burdened. It doesn't matter, though. It's selfish for me to treat it like my own burden too.
I hate going about life, now knowing how dysfunctional my family actually is.

[crabodile]

I feel dumb for feeling this way but...

I lost these headphones that were black & fuzzy & had cat ears on them sometime between the gym locker room and the science room

Now I can't stop the guilt that is raging, so I asked my friends were the lost and found was.

What. Kind. Of. School. Has. At. Least. Six. Lost. And. Founds.

I literally groaned and hit my head on the bus seat (note to self: ouch that hurts never do it again).

Our bus was late so I had no time to go around the school and try to find a lost and found.

I just... the guilt. I am so mad at myself for losing them

My aunt (she lives with me now due to some stuff, along with my two cousins ) scraped her money together to get them me for Chistmas, and she was so happy I liked them

They... they reminded me of my first cat, the fat thing. His name was Shadow, and he couldn't use his legs much anymore. I lost him in first grade, a year afer my great grandma died. Even of it was so long ago.. I still remember the way his eyes lit up and how if you scratched right before his tail he would start licking something and whip his head around.. he was my baby, I loved him so much.

Loosing these headphones.. it is like loosing Shadow all over again.

[*Infinity*]

i have a school assembly on friday, and they have all of the kids screaming and stuff (you're supposed to be screaming, they actually encourage it). the last assembly (which was in december) was so loud that i couldn't hear for like two minutes after it. we also have bleachers to sit on for them, and if my class has to sit in the top bleacher i will be so scared. the bleachers at my school have those things in the middle of the bleachers where you have to talk on them where you go up and down, and there's no rails. i have an extreme fear of heights, and i had sit on the VERY top for the last assembly..... yeah, things did not go well. i can't stay home to miss the assembly and just fghjmnbvfcdertyujki,mnbvfdertyuj why.....

For the loudness, get a cheap pair of earplugs. The nurses office might have a pair, if not any sporting goods store or department should have a pair. I usually keep a pair buried in my pocket because although they say disposable, you can wash and reuse them.

For heights, either request a lower seat (you can always say you are feeling ill, which from what you say is not a lie) and need to be closer to the restroom, or straight up go to the nurses office. A panic attack is definitely cause to go.

Have a friend stick close to you for the whole deal. Yeah, they miss out on the nonsense, but they will also be your support for if things go really bad, and will be able to help get you out of there if need be. Make sure you explain to them everything, though. A good friend will want to do everything they can to help.

Good luck! I hope it works out for you!!

[Unleashed Squiid]

I'm so scared right now. Some jerk on my bus was bragging because he killed a cat and the stray that I like to feed and pet has been missing from his regular spot recently.

I hope to God my feline friend is alright. He is the closest I've come to my own pet and I have given him blankets and food so he's comfortable as I can't actually keep him in my house. :c

He likes to roam the neighborhood and is very, very friendly to people. He goes up to anybody he sees and follows them, purring and meowing until they pet him. I am panicking so hard. It would be very easy to hurt him and I'm so scared.

[rainbowwrowell]

Just because... I like to play with boys. Does NOT mean I'm a player!!

Would you say that to a boy who non stopped play with girls! No you wouldn't! You'd be afraid He would hurt you! I can do as much as anybody. I do what I can. I can do what I do! So ''blankie'' Shut up! Because your a bully! La''' and ''m Are some of my friends! ''M cant hurt a fly and la''' would treat everyone respectively. If you dared hurt them!!! This is aimed to my neighbor and ppl who are overally rude to me for playing with bois.


I wanna hug... Anyone? I also need advice...

Posted three times already. Please advice?

[hayakawa]

so 2 of my "friends" came out as unsupportive of my gender identity, and called me an sjw+started an entire argument about it, and it made me feel so awful
my dysphoria spiked and it's so bad right now, and i honestly wish it would just go away
im just a mess rn;;

Aw, I'm sorry. I've had similar things happen to me when I came out about my sexuality to my friends.
The best advice I can give is to just ignore what they say. Maybe they aren't the right friends for you if they are going to treat you like that? ;-;
I hope everything goes well with all of you!

i have a school assembly on friday, and they have all of the kids screaming and stuff (you're supposed to be screaming, they actually encourage it). the last assembly (which was in december) was so loud that i couldn't hear for like two minutes after it. we also have bleachers to sit on for them, and if my class has to sit in the top bleacher i will be so scared. the bleachers at my school have those things in the middle of the bleachers where you have to talk on them where you go up and down, and there's no rails. i have an extreme fear of heights, and i had sit on the VERY top for the last assembly..... yeah, things did not go well. i can't stay home to miss the assembly and just fghjmnbvfcdertyujki,mnbvfdertyuj why.....

I know how you feel! I hate school assemblies because they're so loud and I'm very sensitive to loud noises. Are you allowed to wear ear plugs or ear buds and listen to music? That's what I would always do.
You might be able to request to sit somewhere lower, like the other person said. c:
Hope all goes well~

I wish I hadn't had that anxiety attack a few days ago. Now, whenever I make a single mistake or do something wrong in public and someone witnesses it and confronts me about it, I feel nervous and like another one will somehow surface.

At work this morning, I asked someone who worked at the place I work at if they were ashamed of me after I did something wrong. She said no, but deep down I knew she was lying even though she definitely wasn't.

Sigh, I wish I didn't have social anxiety and I don't know any good ways to divert my attention or calm me down whenever I feel like an attack is gonna come anytime

If you feel like you're going to have an attack, just breathe. Focus on things that you hear, smell, see, or feel. Try counting or singing a song in your head to distract you. c: Picture something relaxing in your mind like a beach or a walk through nature.

Don't have enough time to respond to a lot of things, sorry!