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by i<3 wolves678 » Thu Jan 26, 2017 9:17 am
I've been having a lot of self doubts lately, and everything is just hitting me so hard...
My friends get angry because I 'can't take a joke' or that I just want someone to talk to about my problems. They don't understand how much I've been hurting lately..
Not to mention a teacher, whom, I might adds, entire job is based on talking to students with mental disabilities, told me that I'm "not important" and that I "don't matter."
Way to make me feel better about myself
Totally don't hate you anymore than I did before
I just wish I was normal..
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by Pyjaks » Thu Jan 26, 2017 9:19 am
madness, wrote:yesterday at around 4:30/5:00 pm my cat got hit by a car. at first we thought he was dead, but he wasn't. after taking him to the vet we found out he had a broken jaw and maybe a few cracked ribs and was temporarily(?) blind but that they wouldn't know if we'd have to put him down until morning.
around 2:45 am my parents got a call from the vet saying that he had brain trauma and was throwing up and wouldn't have had a good life at all if we kept him living, so they had to put him down.
i loved this cat so much, i don't really even think it's hit me yet that he's gone but i already miss him so much. i'll miss the way he woke me up 20 minutes before school and how he'd lay on my lap and purr while i pet him... i just
i really didn't want him to die..
i've cried a lot today and i just really need a hug..
/hugs/ I'm so sorry. I know how hard that is. I lost a dog in a similar way- it was very abrupt and unexpected. My only advice is just to really take care of yourself for the next few days. Let yourself cry and grieve as much as you need to. If you need to rant or anything, I'm here <3
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by forestfolke » Thu Jan 26, 2017 9:24 am
sorry for the rant, i can't keep holding these feelings inside me hoping that a couple happy songs and a good night's sleep will make them go away.
i don't want to hear her crying anymore
i wish there was something i could do
just being nice and standing up for women will not change anything no matter how much i wish it would
my teenage years will be spent under the leadership of someone who wants to destroy the earth. great.
we'll never get to move from this horrible house, i'll never get a good education, and a decent income? i can only hope.
i can only hope that in my adulthood i'll be able to support not only myself but my family because a house by the beach is only the start of what my mom and dad deserve
if i were just born a boy, maybe she wouldn't have to worry as much.
because just acting boyish and deepening my voice won't make people think i'm any more respectable, i'm sad to say.
maybe if my mom just didn't marry my dad she wouldn't be stuck here in this horrible house and could be travelling to mexico and australia and all those other places she wanted to visit, but she couldn't.
because of me. and my dad. and my sister.
and maybe my dad could've married a girl with the same hardworking mindset as him
and my mom could've married a guy who was funny and adventurous and didn't want to stay in a horrible house for the rest of his life.
i don't know. people say i'm smart but i'm really not.
i don't know how i'm gonna get into college or get a job, or afford a pretty house by the beach for my family to live their old age out in.
i'm really young and i don't know why i'm thinking about all this stuff, i guess i'm just 'growing up'.
i don't know what i'm gonna do for the next 4 years *curls up into a ball and dies*
and my life isn't even half as bad as it could be!
just imagine how worse it'll get!
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by storm coming. » Thu Jan 26, 2017 10:45 am
midnight the wolf wrote:midnight the wolf wrote:Is it so wrong to not like a guy for the way he looks but rather the way he acts or his personality?
no, it's the contrary. to like a guy only for his looks is horrible. you shouldn't like someone because of their appearance. after all, people don't stay young and beautiful forever, as much as they might want to believe so. personalities are things that stick and what truly matter. i think it's amazing you like him for the way he acts, don't let anyone tell you that you have to like someone for their looks or popularity. would you rather drink out of a beautiful cup with foul water? or would you rather drink out of a not so beautiful cup with the most refreshing water in the entire world? it's what on the inside that actually counts. to me, i like people for their personalities much rather than their looks. to be beautiful is not to be pretty, it's to be intelligent, generous, and thoughtful <3
rose boy wrote:All of my friends ditched me
Again
And now I'm out getting burritos and stuff alone
And it hurts
They said we'd go together
hey, at least you have friends! it doesn't seem like they know how much you are hurting. have you tried telling them? you should try to make more of an effort of hanging with them and speaking your mind more often. or even, making new friends that will give you just the right amount of company you need. but hey, at least you have money to get burritos. there are people in the world starving. it could be worse. you don't necessarily need friends in order to have fun, sometimes a little alone time is necessary.
i<3 wolves678 wrote:I've been having a lot of self doubts lately, and everything is just hitting me so hard...
My friends get angry because I 'can't take a joke' or that I just want someone to talk to about my problems. They don't understand how much I've been hurting lately..
Not to mention a teacher, whom, I might adds, entire job is based on talking to students with mental disabilities, told me that I'm "not important" and that I "don't matter."
Way to make me feel better about myself
Totally don't hate you anymore than I did before
I just wish I was normal..
if you're having self-doubts why don't you stop keeping those feelings to yourself and try talking to a counselor or friend? emotional support can really build up your self-esteem. try joining new clubs to make friends. once you make some friends you can feel much happier about yourself and your life. you can't control your friends anger, but keep in mind you can control your friends. if they are upsetting you leave them alone and give yourself a break, you deserve it. meet new people even! what your teacher said is just plain wrong, tell the principle and they will handle the situation from there. that isn't true and you know that. EVERYONE is important. EVERYONE matters. don't let anyone tell you otherwise, for you, and if not you, for me <3 there is no such thing as normal. everyone is unique and different which is amazing in my opinion. keep on being you and don't let anyone stop you from being different. people get scared by the thought of it, people being different, and they fail to realize the beauty of unique people. they really do catch the attention of the crowd, instead of following it c:
usamagnol_ wrote:sorry for the rant, i can't keep holding these feelings inside me hoping that a couple happy songs and a good night's sleep will make them go away.
i don't want to hear her crying anymore
i wish there was something i could do
just being nice and standing up for women will not change anything no matter how much i wish it would
my teenage years will be spent under the leadership of someone who wants to destroy the earth. great.
we'll never get to move from this horrible house, i'll never get a good education, and a decent income? i can only hope.
i can only hope that in my adulthood i'll be able to support not only myself but my family because a house by the beach is only the start of what my mom and dad deserve
if i were just born a boy, maybe she wouldn't have to worry as much.
because just acting boyish and deepening my voice won't make people think i'm any more respectable, i'm sad to say.
maybe if my mom just didn't marry my dad she wouldn't be stuck here in this horrible house and could be travelling to mexico and australia and all those other places she wanted to visit, but she couldn't.
because of me. and my dad. and my sister.
and maybe my dad could've married a girl with the same hardworking mindset as him
and my mom could've married a guy who was funny and adventurous and didn't want to stay in a horrible house for the rest of his life.
i don't know. people say i'm smart but i'm really not.
i don't know how i'm gonna get into college or get a job, or afford a pretty house by the beach for my family to live their old age out in.
i'm really young and i don't know why i'm thinking about all this stuff, i guess i'm just 'growing up'.
i don't know what i'm gonna do for the next 4 years *curls up into a ball and dies*
and my life isn't even half as bad as it could be!
just imagine how worse it'll get!
hey, don't be sorry! we all want to hear your troubles and help you as much as we can offer. it's good to let out these feelings and share your thoughts once in awhile, no one will judge you, we all do it. i understand all of your thoughts. sometimes it's frightening thinking about the future and what it might hold. there is an endless list of possibilities. some bad, some good. don't think about how it could go wrong, think about how it could go right! seek out those goals and ambitions in your life and do whatever you can to reach them. don't let anyone stand in your way! you could talk to people about college and such, maybe join a program that helps with scholarships. there are usually much of those in high schools and throughout middle schools, you just need to seek out the opportunities and then, yes, hope. hope is very important. hope isn't for suckers, it's for anyone that dreams. i understand you wish there was something you could do, and there is in fact something! you could do small acts, and then eventually people will follow in your footsteps and join along with whatever you desire to be accomplished. do keep in mind that you aren't destined to make the entire world perfect, don't feel pressured about that. nothing is perfect, as much as we would like it to be, but we can sure try! don't let anyone or any thoughts keep you from trying your best.
madness, wrote:yesterday at around 4:30/5:00 pm my cat got hit by a car. at first we thought he was dead, but he wasn't. after taking him to the vet we found out he had a broken jaw and maybe a few cracked ribs and was temporarily(?) blind but that they wouldn't know if we'd have to put him down until morning.
around 2:45 am my parents got a call from the vet saying that he had brain trauma and was throwing up and wouldn't have had a good life at all if we kept him living, so they had to put him down.
i loved this cat so much, i don't really even think it's hit me yet that he's gone but i already miss him so much. i'll miss the way he woke me up 20 minutes before school and how he'd lay on my lap and purr while i pet him... i just
i really didn't want him to die..
i've cried a lot today and i just really need a hug..
oh dear i'm terribly sorry. i've experienced this so many times before. in fact, it seems like just recently did my precious kitten charlie pass away. she was adorable. she had a horrible case of worms and wouldn't make it. so, in short, i know what you're going through. unfortunately, death is part of life, and it's often inevitable. i hope things turn out alright for you. if needed, feel free to pm me, and we can further discuss this. i know how you feel and i'm so so so sorry </3 may he rest in peace and never ever be forgotten.
z.ombie wrote:my gradebook is online and i dotn want to look at it. im so scared help
just... look at it? things could turn out really well, or bad, but you will never know unless you actually look at it. anyways, i hope all of your hard effort really paid off. if it's below average perhaps you could try harder next time and exceeded your own ambitions and goals. maybe by getting a tutor or asking teachers/students for help. but if it's higher than average i would like to congratulate you in advance! <3 whatever happens, it will be okay.
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by UltimateKitty » Thu Jan 26, 2017 10:47 am
disappointed, angry, and sad.
wanted to log into one of my favorite games today, but i guess the person who gave me the account decided to just take the account back without even trying to give me a heads up about it. i know it was originally theirs, but who gives you the right to just snatch the account back up, force me to wait forever for the registrations to open, and take me away from my friends without any other way for me to contact them?
i should have quit that game when i had the chance.
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by Karamello » Thu Jan 26, 2017 11:06 am
so much is happening and i just have no idea what to do
mum and her boyfriend are arguing non stop, my piano teacher for the past 9 years passed
i have commissions i need to get to but my tablet isnt working properly and i cant tell them that there will be a delay because i already have when my laptop just malfunctioned and erased my files they'll just think im making excuses or am unable to be trusted or something
and i hardly have the motivation to do it anymore because of how upset i am about the stuff that's going on
fshdkj first world problems i guess
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by SilentMelody » Thu Jan 26, 2017 11:27 am
copycoffeecat wrote:he broke up with me
i dont knnnow why it would've lastee d
i'm so
heartbroken right now i fn i cant see i
i hate ymself so much
i'm so sorry, breakups can be really hard...but to help get over the breakup, it's best to think (or at least try to) about things other than love, do things that you love (which i know can be hard to do when you're sad), and talk about it with someone who understands that type of situation. i know you're sad, but please at least try these methods!
Lazy9248 wrote:I'm pathetic
you're not pathetic at all. although i've probably never met you in person or seen your face, you're beautiful and amazing in all different ways possible!
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by critter » Thu Jan 26, 2017 11:37 am
Why do I even try? I have school work to catch up on, I have to make my dad proud, I just thought I was happy a few minutes ago, but now I just feel sad and useless??? I love my family to bits, but it never seems they love me just as much I love them. My dad only loves me to make my future big enough for him to steal, that cheating rat. My mom favors my brother so much, she gives him what ever he wants, if I even look at something I want I'm called ungrateful and my mom loves to start fights and make me so upset to the point I can no longer create words to fit them. I just got out of a five year lingering hell, and I have five+ more years until me and my friends move and I can cut my ties with my family aside from a few that care.
God I hope these years go by quick.
I just wanted a normal life. But I can't even be able to see to run correctly I'm so messed up.
My vision is terrible, my legs are weak, and I have so many other medical problems that just tear me apart.
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