Roadhog wrote:Roadhog wrote:I honestly feel so sad today- like I came back to school and my teacher gets mad at me for not even a good reason, and we started gym today, and I hate it. TBH I might change my schedule bc I hate gym, and I'll do it next year? idk
I feel really sad because it's like I have no friends. I also have been wanting to ask this guy if he wants to go to this local comic con with me, but I know he'll say no. I have no friends on CS or FR either, and when I talk about it people pm me about being friends, and then never pm again lmao. I just feel so er uh 'lonely?'
I just wish I had friends and stuff. I feel so awkward, and even worse I don't do anything. Band, sports, and I quit the musical. I try joining things but it never works.
The thing I'm good at is art, but lately I haven't been doing it, and all the other people are good at art too, and they are more popular/have friends/better at art than me.
The only great thing that happened to me today was I aced (All As) on my mid-terms. yay.
Hmm...I see. Yeah, loneliness is hard to subdue. I myself have been pretty lonely lately. The thing that I have found best to do is to show that you actually want friends! Find some people who you think look/seem friendly and just shoot them a PM! It can say something as simple as just a warm "Hello!"! I find that using this strategy on CS works rather effectively. But it also works in RL! If you show that you want friends and you act like you want friends, I'm pretty sure someone will notice you and wanna know ya! If you want to, you can send me a PM if you wanna talk to me!
Vincent Van Goat wrote:thanks for the responses guys, but it's time for a vent now. you can skip over this post.
i've been so stressed to the point where i've been literally crying now.
report cards haven't come out yet, and my mom keeps on yelling at me
for it. it's not my fault that the grades haven't come out yet, mom. the
only thing that really calms me down is a jarcast or a ihe video, and
now when she's driving me to school (i would drive myself if i could
but i'm not of driving age yet) and she keeps on talking about how
i've been being "rude" because i haven't been talking to her and s-
he wants to take away my electronics now (the reason why i hav-
en't been talking to her is because i just like peace and quiet).
she's now yelling and stuff and it's making me even more st-
ressed. now i actually like being at school better than being at
home because at school nobody yells at me, my teachers actu-
ally like me and i get to see my friends and spend six hours a
day away from my family. my family's not abusive or anythi-
ng, they're just making me really stressed and annoyed. i j-
ust wish that there was someone here to just comfort me r-
ight now. the last time i cried in front of my family is when i
was five, and they didn't really care then.
i can't take it anymore.
Oh my! Looks like you've got quite the situation! I would recommend telling your mom in a friendly and peaceful attitude that the report cards have yet to be released and that you'll let her know when they are available. In this kind of situation, your the one who needs to act. (Sorry if that sounds really pressuring or harsh) Your mom loves you, just, at times, things can be annoying and stressful. I think she's upset because she wants to be hearing more from you. She just wants to know what's happening in your life more often (the thing that all good mothers want to know). I think the best thing you can do is to apologize to her that you haven't been talking to her as much as you should be. Explain to her why you feel stressed. And I'm pretty sure she'll forgive you! We all can get frazzled and stressed, but an apology is something no one can turn down.
I know that this sounds like a scary maneuver, but I think it's the best one to do. Have courage, and when you have a moment, ask your mom if it's okay if you can sit down with her to talk things over. Try to tell her that the report card's grades haven't been announced yet and that once they are, that you will be sure to tell her. Another healthy thing you might want to do is to ask for an apology. Tell her that your sorry for not telling her things more often and that your sorry for spending more time with electronics than her. I'm quite certain she'll be quite surprised by this act and will most definitely forgive you! If you can do this, and all in a friendly manner, you should be on a road to success! If things get worse, or you just need someone to talk to, please PM me! I would be honored to help you if things become difficult!
