TheComfortCorner | v.6

[Herlock Sholmes]

I'M DROWINING IN EXAM STUDYING STUFF AGH.

[chanel]

my life has been a mess this past week,,, I just really need a hug..

[Herlock Sholmes]

my life has been a mess this past week,,, I just really need a hug..

[leverage]

I'm so tired of my face blindness.
It manifests itself as awkwardness around new people, because I honestly cannot recognize a lot of people unless I've had conversations with them, and even then I tend to just vaguely recognize them- names and any personal info is really difficult for me, no matter how hard I try.'
That's making life very miserable right now. I feel like all I do is offend people because I literally cannot recognize them because I have a slight neurological disorder. But I can't explain it to every single person, nor do I want to sound like I'm just passing the blame onto something else. It just makes me sound as if I don't care.
I just keep messing up thanks to it, and it's really wearing me down today. It's never good, but right now it's just insane; I keeping getting into situations where it gets in the way.

That, on top of a really busy day and endless hours of studies has me pretty near to crying from all this stress.
But, there's no time to break down- it may be eleven at night, but does that mean I get to settle down? Nope, time to start studying the next subject, though thankfully I only have a little bit more that I imperatively need to do tonight ;;

[Eagle's Eye]

a little rant
I'm tired of people treating "where are you from" so seriously. So what if I don't tell you? If I'm not Chinese are you going to treat me worse or something? and what if I am??? It's not like it matters. It's a game stop caring so much where people are from. I'm tired of people who are friendly to only people of the same culture and treats 'foreigners' with a completely different attitude. For goodness's sake this is the 21st century and there is the internet, start getting used to seeing different people


i'm tired of the stupid mistakes I made as a newbie. i can't even get my '12 rereleases back. my PM got ignored, my trade got rejected and I don't even know/remember what my third pet was since i already have more than 100 pages in my trading centers. hahaha what a great day
i wish something could be done to the ninjas

[Painful Affinity]

I'm so scared.
So scared about the tiniest things.
Why can't i just be chill about them?
It's really frustrating and it might be getting worse or maybe that's just my imagination??

[Thalassic]

Since I'm an artist, I have huge fears of something going wrong with my hands

Today, ever since I woke up, my hands and arms have been going numb and then going back to normal, back and forth, and its kinda just freaking me out? Usually numbness fades away quickly and does't come back so what if there is something wrong with me??

[saturnz barz]

okay so nobody needs to read this or respond I'm just being super petty and need to get it off my chest

me and my boyfriend are young adults, met 16 months ago but been dating 15 months and we couldn't be happier! I adore him and I like to think he feels the same way about me..
We both have dated (long term) in the past and I accept that. When he was with his now ex, he told me that she gave him a small stick and poke tattoo of his favourite lyrics at the top of his thigh and I've seen it and it's actually pretty rad.
They dated when they were 14/15 and back then my s/o was a striking image of a character from Final Destination 3 called Ian McKinley and that's what everyone called him, "Ian". In the movie Ian's girlfriends nickname is pip.
Now this is where I start to feel a bit off.
Not so long ago I noticed that on the opposite thigh, he has another small tattoo that he never mentioned that says "pip". I didn't realise the whole Pip/Ian thing at this point so laughed and asked what pip stood for and he kinda aggressively brushed it off as "an old friend" and when I asked if I knew them he got quite upset with me unnecessarily telling me to stop going on about it because it's easily covered up when he can afford it.. I was kinda hurt at how he needlessly snapped at me but I brushed it off.

Now I've realised the whole Ian/pip thing, I'm realising that he has his ex's nickname tattoo'd on him and he never thought to mention it to me?
I know it might seem pretty insignificant to him and maybe everyone reading this but we don't keep secrets and idk it just really hurt me that he never thought to mention it

[ryuunosuke]

i just want to physically combust rn. heck. maybe you "awesome great meme xd" salt bloggers are reading this at the moment, waiting for a chance to strike, pounce, spread hatred and poison from your keyboards, hastily tacked up onto an anonymous salt blog, laughing and chiding me. go ahead, do it. you dont know what im facing in real life but thats ok, thats fine, shove me into an unending abyss of hatred and spite. i have been given councelling because of this. i have been given medications because of this because im too paranoid that you all read everything i say, even private conversations; im too scared of trying to befriend everyone. call me a wimp, call me things that are too henious to state on this website itself so you resort by going incognito on a tumblr blog that does nothing but hurt others.

"what a loser! ishida is calling us out on cs because theyre too scared to." then get off anon, talk to me face to face. if you'll call me a wimp, then those anonymous masks are just as terrible. "just get over it already, you whiny..." or "lol im glad ishida is hurt" is no better than beating up a kid at school and being glad they are hurt because of you. maybe you're submitting this to the blog right now, typing up "what a selfish drama loving ...!". perhaps there will always be a fault in everything i do that makes you want to point it out and broadcast it to the world. i want to draw, code, talk, make species entries, but there will always be a fault in me doing what i like. heck, i literally complimented someone's art, yet somebody thought that i was bigoted and didnt have the skill to compliment it, then went on to personally insult my art.

you wanted to ruin my life?
well... good job.
you've done it.

congrats.

EDIT: hello from the salt blog! i do have the blog blocked. its just that some people like telling me about what others do, like stabbing me repeatedly through words!

[*Infinity*]

okay so nobody needs to read this or respond I'm just being super petty and need to get it off my chest

me and my boyfriend are young adults, met 16 months ago but been dating 15 months and we couldn't be happier! I adore him and I like to think he feels the same way about me..
We both have dated (long term) in the past and I accept that. When he was with his now ex, he told me that she gave him a small stick and poke tattoo of his favourite lyrics at the top of his thigh and I've seen it and it's actually pretty rad.
They dated when they were 14/15 and back then my s/o was a striking image of a character from Final Destination 3 called Ian McKinley and that's what everyone called him, "Ian". In the movie Ian's girlfriends nickname is pip.
Now this is where I start to feel a bit off.
Not so long ago I noticed that on the opposite thigh, he has another small tattoo that he never mentioned that says "pip". I didn't realise the whole Pip/Ian thing at this point so laughed and asked what pip stood for and he kinda aggressively brushed it off as "an old friend" and when I asked if I knew them he got quite upset with me unnecessarily telling me to stop going on about it because it's easily covered up when he can afford it.. I was kinda hurt at how he needlessly snapped at me but I brushed it off.

Now I've realised the whole Ian/pip thing, I'm realising that he has his ex's nickname tattoo'd on him and he never thought to mention it to me?
I know it might seem pretty insignificant to him and maybe everyone reading this but we don't keep secrets and idk it just really hurt me that he never thought to mention it

Having a partner with secrets is always concerning, because you never fully trust them. Even worse, because they keep secrets from you, they start getting suspicious thinking that you obviously are keeping secrets too, simply because they are.

Lasting relationships are built on trust. Those annoying stupid commercials at least get that part right.

Having had a few real relationships, I know two paths that you can take, but neither will be easy.

1) You agree to never bring up your past, and they never bring up theirs.

2) You both sit down in a comfortable, safe setting and let each other ask questions, no holds barred.

My current relationship is with someone who had an ex for something like 7 years. And even referred to their breakup as a "divorce" (air quotes are mine), though wasn't married. I barely know the ex's name, though my partner knows all kinds about my ex.

I guess this is a long, drawn out way of saying if it's bugging you, don't let it go. If you are serious, sit him down, explain why you are feeling stressed or upset about it, and ask for an explanation to put your mind at ease.

Besides, if it's your old nickname, own it! It may not have started out as intended for you, but it can wind up that way!! Good luck with your partner, and I hope everything works out for the both of you!!