TheComfortCorner | v.6

[hellebore]

I haven't seen my crappy therapist in about two and a half months. She was becoming unbearable, so I simply stopped visiting without any notice-- never gave an explanation or warning.
When I was doing well, she'd start to create problems-- come up with things that either didn't bother me but were apparently supposed to, or that didn't bother me before but now pressed on my mind. I came to the conclusion that she was getting concerned that I wasn't needing her anymore (which was true) and I would leave, therefore she would be getting less money from having one fewer patient. Indeed, I realized that life was pretty good until I'd visit her office. Of course, I decided to leave.
Now, all those problems that she contrived for me-- those problems that didn't exist or that she didn't need to make me worry about because they were easily conquered-- I've proved many of them so. I really want to get back in touch with her just for a moment, in order to boast my easy accomplishments.
Though I can have really harsh downs, I am doing fine more often than not. I want her to know that ever since I was smart enough to get rid of her, I've been doing as fine as I said I was/would be, even though she tried to pull crap!
I've been harboring so much anger over this, though. I don't think I could actually contact her just to boast. It just infuriates me so much, to have been doubted and questioned and underestimated and overestimated all at once!

[brindle.]

i think i just failed my midterm

[eff]

going (unwillingly) to germany + leaving all my friends and girlfriend behind for at least 1 1/2 years. this includes my dog, who helps me cope.. she's probably going to forget me. im going to miss all of them growing and i dont want to leave them, i dont want to be the new kid, especially the one that speaks a completely different language! lmao im going to shrivel up and be forgotten, alone in the freezing cold european weather.

your dog will remember you. many people go off to war and when they come back, years later, they record themselves seeing there dogs again. look it up on youtube c:
and germany is a seriously beautiful country!
i learnt german for a year, once a week for half an hour. it's seriously like english...
im actually a new kid it's not entirely fun, but you can cope.

[equin0x]

I am so mad right now,I just came back from my friends house(and her fake name will be smiley) and she told me she wants to get a husky now this wouldn't be a problem if she didn't have a dog but she has one and I really feel bad for the little puppy because smiley would constantly yell at the dog for being to playful or to hyper,she also slapped the dog when it bit her in a playful no harm is done way and it didn't even hurt or when the dog would start chewing on something that wasn't a toy!But the dog didn't have any toys because smiley didn't bother to go and spend like 2 dollars on a cheap toy and didn't want to give one of her old toys that she played with when she was 6 I mean she doesn't even use them anymore!Sometimes she forgets to feed the dog and when she does feed her most of the time its just something that's in her fridge,her poor dog doesn't even get walks and this puppy has allot of energy.So when smiley wanted to play video games instead of i don't know taking care of her dog she begged her mother and siblings to walk and or freed the dog,and smiley even said "I don't want a dog anymore" and after some time her mother say that there is no hope left for this dog with smiley so she send the dog to smiles grandma.It hasn't even been a week and smiley wants another dog and if she couldn't handle a mutt how will she handle a flipping husky!

This is another thing she does she constantly makes fun of me and my crush I haven't told her my crush she just assumes and I've tried to hide the truth and say that he isn't my crush but she doesn't believe me,and in art class she drew me with a shirt that says my crushes name x my name,after she showed me it I took the drawing and then destroyed it because well I mean its the only option if you don't want to get teased.Then she got mad for some reason I mean come on you don't have a reason to be mad your making fun of me not the other way around then she made this angry my head is about to explode face and she said"WHY DID YOU DO THAT GIVE IT BACK!I WISH YOU NEVER CAME TO MY HOUSE WHEN MY DOG WAS AROUND BECAUSE ITS YOUR FAULT MY DOG IS GONE!!!!!!!" I was left speechless I mean how was it my fault if it wasn't for me her dog would have been gone a long time ago if I wasn't helping her improve her grades.Its gotten even worse now I can't even talk to my crush last time I did she told me not to talk to him anymore and when I do talk to him she looks at me weird and then whispers something to the nearest person I can only imagine its something along the line of "She likes him",and when he wants to talk to me smiley grabs be and literally pulls me as far as she can away from him.I have told her once that if she makes fun of me one more time I wont be her friend anymore and you know what she said,she said"I don't care,its only better for me" so now I don't know what to do because if I say that I don't want o be friends anymore she will spread rumors about me and everyone will know who I like and if there's a rumor like that in this school you can't go a day without someone making fun of you and I don't know if my crush will talk to me after that

ugh that sounds like an awful situation to be in! i understand not wanting your friend to have a new dog (especially a husky) after you've seen how irresponsible she is. however, that situation is out of your control and there isn't really a whole lot you can do about it. i know it's frustrating, but that's just the way life is. if you are really concerned about the dog's wellbeing, though, you could explain your concerns to a parent or other adult. (i'm assuming you live with your parents/are school aged, i'm sorry if i'm wrong!)

that friend really sounds like a piece of work, and not a healthy relationship for you to be in. it sounds like you want to get away from her, but you are afraid she will spread rumors about you. a good way to break a relationship like this (without just saying "i don't want to be friends anymore") is just to gradually reduce contact. don't hang out as much, keep your distance. you can still be nice to her, but you don't have to be friends. i hope this helps!

in the meantime, here is a gif of baby pandas to make you feel better.

[snubbulls]

All of my friends have dates to formal but no one has bothered to ask me.
I don't know what to do because everyone is pressuring me to go but I don't want to go alone.
And the only people I like would never say yes.
I don't know, I'm relatively upset about this.
It's just reassuring my fear that no one likes me or ever will.
It kinda feels awful. I'm shaking because I know that I'll just be alone on formal night.
God I'm a loser

[.zombie]

im such a bad student. im so stupid. i dont understand anything on the biology midterm review. why did i even sign up for honors bio. i need other students my age to explain thing to me. they make me feel terribly dumb. im going to fail. im going to fail. im going to fail. i hate myself so much.

[kiwikweenie]

im such a bad student. im so stupid. i dont understand anything on the biology midterm review. why did i even sign up for honors bio. i need other students my age to explain thing to me. they make me feel terribly dumb. im going to fail. im going to fail. im going to fail

hey! it's going to be alright!
you're not stupid, honors classes are very difficult and can be hard to keep up with all the work. maybe you should talk to your teacher or make an appointment after/before school to go over the review with him or her to take some ease off. it's great that you're not afraid to ask help from other students, but talking with the teacher may be better and make you feel less dumb.
next trimester, if honors bio is too much for you, maybe you should take a tri off from it and try again when you feel like you can handle it. i have personal experience with this and it takes a load off, and it may help you too. your wellbeing comes first. just try your best this trimester.

im really wishing you the best of luck, and please send me a pm if you'd like to talk/vent!!

[cambion]

I know I need to, because I'm part of the club, but I don't wanna go to the rowing camp I have to attend. I just want to get the most out of the biggest bunch of holidays i'll ever get. Yeah, I'm feeling guilty as flip for feeling this way too. I'm such a bad person.

[cloud cover]

im so busy with school next week is full of presentations where i have to memorize lines and im so scared i'll forget important things
the week after my exams start and im feeling so overwhelmed and stressed

[Blueberry]

I know its not true but I feel like I need to lose weight. For the past 5 months my weight has been fluctuating from 100-125. The thing is I'm super tall, like 5'9 so I'm naturally skinny. The problem is I HATE working out so my stomach, thighs, arms etc aren't very toned. Its not a matter of me not loving my body it's that I feel really unhealthy...