TheComfortCorner | v.6

[rainbowwrowell]

Last week I had a fight with my boyfriend. He told everyone about it. I try move on from it. He broke up with me as there's "" Too much" publicty and blamed Me! I can't help but cry daily. I fell behind in school and I stopped eating. My ribs poke through my chest now. I don't know how to feel. Angry? Sad? Happy? Free? Lonely? Help me please. I broke down writing this. He made his brother bully my sister with him and now a have a black eye and bleeding nose. I fought for my sis as I love her. She's helping me through this.


Sorry if they bully part was too much....

Last week I had a fight with my boyfriend. He told everyone about it. I try move on from it. He broke up with me as there's "" Too much" publicty and blamed Me! I can't help but cry daily. I fell behind in school and I stopped eating. My ribs poke through my chest now. I don't know how to feel. Angry? Sad? Happy? Free? Lonely? Help me please. I broke down writing this. He made his brother bully my sister with him and now a have a black eye and bleeding nose. I fought for my sis as I love her. She's helping me through this.


Sorry if they bully part was too much....

You need to tell an adult about the bullying. If they are beating someone up, that is REALLY serious and he deserves to get in trouble for it.

As for the breakup, as much as yoiu might hate hearing this, time heals all wounds. It might take days, weeks, months, but eventually it will start to hurt less and you'll get over it. Just try to distract yourself for the time being. Watch a nice movie, grab some of your favorite snacks or even a meal, and drink some hot tea to get some liquid in your body.

I saw that but I was told by my counseler it didn't help

[.zombie]

im so tired of being used.
well it is my fault anyway. when people make fun of me i just laugh it off and dont confront them. when people push me around i dont defend myself.
i mean fine i can get you a napkin if you ask nicely but really?? what??
theres some kid who used to be nice to me but now hes making fun of me for playing chicken smoothie cause im on it all the time. every time i ask him something he says "shut up and go play chicken smoothie", it isnt really offensive but its so annoying. hes a terrible kid. hes already doing terrible things to himself and his body and i feel so bad for him because we were close once.
basically he was moving from one class to the next and he was in the class i was transitioning to. and i was going to plug in my headphones to my laptop to listen to some music but hen i stepped out to use the bathroom.
i came back and my headphones were gone.
i left them on the table i was sitting at, cause i was stupid enough to oh my god.
i mean its not a big deal but grrrrr i love music and i cant work without it??? it helps me work and filter out all the crap inside of me :c
and i mean who else wouldve taken it but him or his stupid friend?
and those pair of headphones were a gift from my brother aghh we fight all the time so i was so happy when he was nice enough to lend them to me.

i know getting your headphones stolen isnt the worse thing in life but i mean it shows how everyone takes advantage of me.
they think im stupid. like kindergarten level stupid. and i mean i know i dont show it, but i am smart thank you very much. they think im some crappy excuse for a human but i mean lol theyre doing terrible things for their age like??
i am happy though because i told myself i would put my foot down, after the incident with this one dude who wouldnt stop turning my laptop on everytime i opened it which resulted in it crashing. all of my essay work was gone, and was thankfully made up thank god.


but i mean,, my headphones??

[Planet Karma]

So I had this BIG crush for a loooong time. He was my best friend. I really believed I loved him and he felt the same way. He made gestures and everything. Then my best friend asked him how he felt about me and he said no. Now he ignores me and frowns when he sees me at school. He's also my neighbor so it's hard to avoid him. I could use some cheering up if it's not too much trouble!

He sounds like a brat. Sorry but he does..
If he can't appreciate you then why care for him?
Move on from him because he ain't worth the trouble. He will come crawling back but don't let him. He sounds toxic. Find someone who treats you extra special. You deserve nothing less.

[Unleashed Squiid]

So I had this BIG crush for a loooong time. He was my best friend. I really believed I loved him and he felt the same way. He made gestures and everything. Then my best friend asked him how he felt about me and he said no. Now he ignores me and frowns when he sees me at school. He's also my neighbor so it's hard to avoid him. I could use some cheering up if it's not too much trouble!

To be honest he doesn't sound like a good friend. A healthy friendship is where you're comfortable and happy with each other no matter what. Just because someone likes someone else, something completely natural and inevitable-something you shouldn't be ashamed of (honestly who cares) your friendship should be no different. If he truely were your friend he wouldn't care nor look at you any different. I'd say find a new friend-move on. If he is so easily moved away from you over a simple crush he will not be there during you're more important obstacles. There are many amazing people out there and even if it's sucks, people come and go. Put yourself out there and find somebody who's worth it. Real friends exist and you'll know when you find one.

You're amazing and incredibly brave for doing that even if it lead downhill. At least now you know his true colors. Stay strong. <3

[korok]

I don't get any satisfaction from doing the things I love anymore.
I just feel so miserable all the time.

[.zombie]

does anyone possibly have any study tips? i need to memorize so much material for the midterms next week, i dont know how ill do it. ill be forever grateful, thank you <33

[critter]

I don't get any satisfaction from doing the things I love anymore.
I just feel so miserable all the time.

Hmmm, maybe you need a you day. Try going out to an arcade, watch your fave movies/youtubers, snack yourself to death, and PM people you want to know more, try making lots of friends on here, you wont every get bored.

[Thalassic]

does anyone possibly have any study tips? i need to memorize so much material for the midterms next week, i dont know how ill do it. ill be forever grateful, thank you <33

Turn off your computer. Seriously, you won't get anything done if you keep getting distracted.
Put on some music in the background. Personally I love ambient mixes, or like, fantasy movie soundtracks. Just make sure it's not too distracting.
Get comfortable, make sure to eat before you start so you don't crave snacks, and keep some tea/water near to stay hydrated.
Read trough the material and write down small summaries about the important stuff. Go trough all of the material and then put it away and only look at the notes you've written. Look at the summaries and try to remember what each topic was about. If you're struggling with something, read trough it again and maybe make a mind map or something similar. Try to explain it to yourself as if you were trying to explain the topic to a 5-year old kid.

[Vincent Van Goat]

My mom just found out that she's severely allergic to wheat and shrimp. I'm worried that I might have those allergies too (she won't get me tested) and now we can't eat those things at home. Plus she's having bad health issues now too.


Yay.

[SilentMelody]

i've been crying so much and so many times all day, i'm really surprised i haven't run out of tears yet to be honest.