TheComfortCorner | v.6

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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby deadlyscorpion » Sat Jan 07, 2017 1:48 pm

♥kittyfaith2210♥ wrote:Feel like I'm not like a pperson who peoplle like.

Why is that so? It's fine if you don't wish to tell me ;b


_flower.child_ wrote:sometimes i wonder why people have the heart to tell someone they are "frkin disgusting"
i never understood how they can say something like that and not feel the slightest bit of guilt or sadness
do they know how i feel?

I've been in your same exact position, besides the fact that it was my best friends that started to bully me with words.
In this case, the victim is the better person, because they have tolerated the perpetrator's sick attitude for this long, while the bullies feel the need to chew out someone for something that they're not, and unfortunately, this can get out of hand. If you wish to talk to me more about this, feel free to ask here or send me a pm ;)
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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby .zombie » Sat Jan 07, 2017 2:41 pm

_flower.child_ wrote:sometimes i wonder why people have the heart to tell someone they are "frkin disgusting"
i never understood how they can say something like that and not feel the slightest bit of guilt or sadness
do they know how i feel?



Youre not alone. My supposed "friends" love to toy around with my emotions. I always low key get called fat or ugly, and I don't understand how these people think it's funny. They don't know how hard criticism is to bear. I usually brush the rude comments off, I know they're joking around and dont actually want to hurt me but like?? Come on?? Other people opinions are the key to all of my insecurities.
*sigh* some people think they have it all. But they don't. They don't know what it could be like at home for some people, what their rude comments could lead to. I've lost all faith in humanity tbh
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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby Frozenfirefly » Sat Jan 07, 2017 3:28 pm

OrcaLover9 wrote:What is my talent?

I can't sing, or dance, or play sports. I canthink swim or run well.

I have an incredible life story, but that's not a talent.

I wish life wasn't all about it.

But it is. That's why I'm most likely in ensemble again.

Or was it favoritism?

No. He likes me as a student.

I guess I can act all right, but acting only does so much.

Writing and drawing do nothing. Nobody wants a wordsmith in a theatre who can't sing or dance very well.

I know I'm at a disadvantage, but I'm still sad.

Why do I try?

Where did my fire go?



Van Gogh didn't get a lot of love in his life, but he was amazing! In career choices, there is about as much places for writers and artists to go as sports and dance people. There is plenty of things you can do! A wordsmith makes the play, or rephrases it to make it more enjoyable. Authors can change worlds. And there is more to life than social skills, but you even said you could act; thats something, right? Your fire is still there; just fan the flame a little. You ask for a talent; well, if you can use words, if you can act, if you can draw, you have talent. Stand up already! Smile, even when it hurts. If you always frown, you forget to laugh, to love, to live!

Sorry if this sounds like a motivation poster. :lol:
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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby idiosyncrasy » Sat Jan 07, 2017 3:41 pm

♥kittyfaith2210♥ wrote:Feel like I'm not like a pperson who peoplle like.


I feel like that sometimes, too.
But whether people like you or not,
you are still a good person.
We all have our differences,
and that's what makes us special.
No one is the same!
And a lot of other people feel that way, too.
Yes, there may be people who don't like you,
but that's okay, It's not your fault!
Just be you, that's what people like!
Maybe you feel this way because people don't reach out to you?
But, it doesn't work that way, you have to reach out to them.
It's like; "If you want something done your way, you have to do it yourself."
So, go observe people! Maybe they like things that you like?
I've met many people who like the things I do, and I sent them a PM.
And when they responded, they treated me like an old friend!
Don't be shy, I am absolutely positive you will make friends this way!
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I hope all goes well, and that you have a great day! <3


_flower.child_ wrote:sometimes i wonder why people have the heart to tell someone they are "frkin disgusting"
i never understood how they can say something like that and not feel the slightest bit of guilt or sadness
do they know how i feel?


I never understood, either.
Some people just don't get it.
Just ignore them, and remember,
what goes around comes around.
And I'm sure they're just joking anyways,
even I do that sometimes...
But, it's just a harmless joke if I do,
and I always apologize if they didn't know that.
Tell them how you feel, and they might understand?
It's worth a try, and if not, just ignore them.
Oh, and it its repetitive or bullying, tell an adult!
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I hope all goes well, and that you have a better day! <3


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i keep waking up at around one in the afternoon, and then im late for my classes. any tips on getting a better night's sleep and waking up? ive been having trouble because i cant sleep in silence, and my usual asmr doesnt seem to be helping.

edit;; and my glasses just snapped in half from cleaning them. thANKS WORLD


{Ooh, sorry about your glasses,
those can be quite expensive...
Not too much you can do, though...}
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Yeah, I've been having sleep problems, too.
Try some of these methods, they really helped me!
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I hope all goes well, and that you have a great day!
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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby Rose Love~ » Sat Jan 07, 2017 4:01 pm

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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby Scottish9 » Sat Jan 07, 2017 4:11 pm

Frozenfirefly wrote:
OrcaLover9 wrote:What is my talent?

I can't sing, or dance, or play sports. I canthink swim or run well.

I have an incredible life story, but that's not a talent.

I wish life wasn't all about it.

But it is. That's why I'm most likely in ensemble again.

Or was it favoritism?

No. He likes me as a student.

I guess I can act all right, but acting only does so much.

Writing and drawing do nothing. Nobody wants a wordsmith in a theatre who can't sing or dance very well.

I know I'm at a disadvantage, but I'm still sad.

Why do I try?

Where did my fire go?



Van Gogh didn't get a lot of love in his life, but he was amazing! In career choices, there is about as much places for writers and artists to go as sports and dance people. There is plenty of things you can do! A wordsmith makes the play, or rephrases it to make it more enjoyable. Authors can change worlds. And there is more to life than social skills, but you even said you could act; thats something, right? Your fire is still there; just fan the flame a little. You ask for a talent; well, if you can use words, if you can act, if you can draw, you have talent. Stand up already! Smile, even when it hurts. If you always frown, you forget to laugh, to love, to live!

Sorry if this sounds like a motivation poster. :lol:


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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby seventh scripture » Sat Jan 07, 2017 4:45 pm

z.ombie wrote:
_flower.child_ wrote:sometimes i wonder why people have the heart to tell someone they are "frkin disgusting"
i never understood how they can say something like that and not feel the slightest bit of guilt or sadness
do they know how i feel?



Youre not alone. My supposed "friends" love to toy around with my emotions. I always low key get called fat or ugly, and I don't understand how these people think it's funny. They don't know how hard criticism is to bear. I usually brush the rude comments off, I know they're joking around and dont actually want to hurt me but like?? Come on?? Other people opinions are the key to all of my insecurities.
*sigh* some people think they have it all. But they don't. They don't know what it could be like at home for some people, what their rude comments could lead to. I've lost all faith in humanity tbh



thanks everyone who replied to this.
but I'm just dumbfounded

how does a human have the heart to tell someone they are fat, ugly, stupid, etc.
It just, outstanding on how someone has the heart to do that and not regret it at all
I've been bullied before. I remember one of my "friends" coming up to me, pushing me against the floor, and slapping my face and saying that I would never be good.
I ran into the bathroom and dug my nails into my forehead because I believed I was a terrible friend and it was my fault
people do things to you, and I feel like sometimes the only people I can trust are my parents because they would never hurt me
i just can't even explain ??? It's just so unbelievable that people can actually do this and not think about the feelings of someone else
everyone has feelings man, I just can't explain even when I try how I feel about this stuff
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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby Vincent Van Goat » Sat Jan 07, 2017 6:29 pm

Rem. wrote:
Vincent Van Goat wrote:I hate school so much.


We all do, dw.
May I ask what's making to frustrated tho?


Well, in my English class I have to sit next to the kid that's been bullying me since I was five years old. He laughs at me for my interests and stuff, and his friend teases me too. It hurts me so much, as I'm pretty sensitive when it comes to emotions. I can't tell the teacher, because then the teacher will tell my parents, and my parents won't believe me because they think I'm always lying even when I'm telling the truth, and then they'll punish me and take away all of my stuff. The kid was screaming into my ear yesterday, and then both he and his friend were laughing at me because of my Pokemon book that I bring to read, and I'm just tired of it.

Sorry for rambling.
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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby spookysponge » Sat Jan 07, 2017 6:49 pm

Okay im sorry if i am annoying but i kinda need to talk/rant

Okay so first of all.. Why does everyone in the school have to go and tell you what is wrong with your body/face? Like yes i know I do not have a big butt yes i know that i need to get my eyebrows done again and yes i know that personality isnt like all of yours. Sorry i just had to get that out :c
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Re: TheComfortCorner | v.6

Postby Korriander » Sat Jan 07, 2017 6:55 pm

This is a bit ranty, but I guess I feel a little bit better after letting it out?






I feel guilty.

I want to leave, but I also don't want to put anybody into the situation I am in; however, I just can't handle continuing it anymore. I've worked on the site for almost 3 years now. I'm the only admin currently. All the others have since left. I feel bad for trying to promote and transition at least two new admins in from our team. I don't want them to get overwhelmed like I did. I've been balancing a lot of heavy real-life responsibilities (both professionally and personally), and I feel like I can't put as much time into the job as I used to. It isn't fair to our users or staff, and I've been drifting away from the site for a while now because I get stressed almost as soon as I start to work.

It feels like a Catch-22: if I leave, I get rid of that stress; however, that stress goes to another person, and if I don't leave, then I continued to be stressed out. I thought about just promoting the new admins and staying on to oversee things, but I've been struggling to push myself to even open the site in fear of how many tasks I have to do each day. I'm not sure how the others even did this in the past. I didn't even have all of our log-in information until very recently. The staff seems to be doing fine right now. I still check our chats and give feedback as needed, but will I ever feel ready to step away?

I had only planned to stay until after the Christmas rush until the other admin surprised me by letting me know she was stepping down. I had meant my return to only be temporary; it wasn't meant to be long-term. They have just had one founder officially step down, and another privately step back. I was only going to help out until we had the new staff recruited and get them transitioned in. There still would have been at least two admins, and now there is only me.

I don't know. I want to leave, but I want to make sure things are in good hands. I want the new admins to feel like they feel ready for their task and that they do not have to carry the weight alone on their shoulders like I have recently, but I also feel like I'm just passing on my own problem to somebody else.

Man, I feel like I could probably make some good poetry out of this, but this is so stressful.
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