TheComfortCorner | v.6

[spooks.]

i don't really need comfort right now, i just need encouragement.

''m gonna start saving money, and once i have enough i am going to open my own etsy shop and sell the dresses and skirts i make.
i've been thinking about it a lot, and i have decided that i' going to go for it.
and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. no big deal. that's all that happens.
i'm gonna take some deep breathes and i'm gonna do it.
wish me luck,dudes ^-^

[IQuit;;]

i don't really need comfort right now, i just need encouragement.

''m gonna start saving money, and once i have enough i am going to open my own etsy shop and sell the dresses and skirts i make.
i've been thinking about it a lot, and i have decided that i' going to go for it.
and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. no big deal. that's all that happens.
i'm gonna take some deep breathes and i'm gonna do it.
wish me luck,dudes ^-^

good luck, i believe in you!

[-------]

as if things weren't bad enough :^)
had an absolutely awful ride today that's making me wonder if i'm really cut out to be working with horses at all. my mental illness makes me such a volatile and unpredictable person...i don't even know if i'm even meant to be around people, at this point.
i thought sleeping would make it better but i didn't sleep at all. at this point i don't know how else to escape how everything's affecting me so fully and so violently right now.

I don't know what you're going through, but I have the exact same problems when it comes to temper and the like. If I were you I would speak to someone about it and definitely get a doctor's appointment booked in, since they can help remarkably (more than what people make them out to tbh).

Same with riding, and I can promise this as an equestrian myself -- you will have bad days and bad times, but that's what happens with horses. They're unpredictable and you are too, especially with mental illness, but we need to work with it and move past it. You will have bad rides and you will reconsider-- I almost turned my back on the sport countless times-- but you'll get there if you stick to it. Keep your head up and stay close to it and push through it, and make what you can of the bad days. If a horse you're riding picks up on your loss of confidence (they will, too! They are very smart animals) you're basically done in for that ride. You need to get on with confidence, be 100% sure of what you want to do, and make it happen. If you carry on as best you can and try to push through it as best you can (giving way for mental reasons obviously) you will eventually get to a better place.

Copy-pasting here too.

If you ever feel close to dropping something or think you aren't cut out, just keep trying! See if you really are or aren't made for it. People have bad days -- they're inevitable. You need to push through and keep trying. You'll get there in the end, and even if you realise it isn't made for you, you learnt that it isn't. It isn't the end of the world.

Similarly, there are ways to cope with temper problems and things like depression! We're all human and it happens. It is not the end of the road. You can find ways to manage your anger and better yourself in the mean time. A healthy lifestyle and organised environment and situation is also important if you want to really better your mental health and minimise stress.

Do not be discouraged from visiting a doctor about your symptoms!
Not enough people do this at all and seeing a doctor is so much better than confiding in Google or in internet friends, and even family. Find a way to cope yourself and get plenty of rest, and book a doctor's appointment as soon as you are able.

i don't really need comfort right now, i just need encouragement.

''m gonna start saving money, and once i have enough i am going to open my own etsy shop and sell the dresses and skirts i make.
i've been thinking about it a lot, and i have decided that i' going to go for it.
and if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out. no big deal. that's all that happens.
i'm gonna take some deep breathes and i'm gonna do it.
wish me luck,dudes ^-^

Good luck!

[Kaname]

why is it bad if i don't want to talk with people? why is everyone always complaining, always questioning why i don't want to talk to relatives, what's the problem? i don't understand... i just want to be respectful and sink into the background, is that too much to ask? i'm sorry that i'm not fun at parties, sorry that i somehow ruin the image by not being outgoing and happy-go-lucky.

[Light Bringer]

To everyone that needs something to make them feel better.

Hey sweetheart,
I know life throws a whole load of bullcrap and sometimes all you want to do is give up.

But I want you to know, there's a light at the end of the tunnel. Even if it takes days, months or even years, I promise I will make damn sure you get everything you deserve.

Don't stop fighting. Because you're a Winchester. And you know us, we never give up. We kick ass and move foward.

Sammy and I love you. And we will always be here for you. Keep your head up kiddo.

~ Dean Winchester

I've never watched Supernatural but this is making even me say "thanks, Dean". I needed this. Thank you <3

I'm always open to PMs if anyone needs advice or just needs to rant. <3 (Let me know which it is though... I've a tendency to give my opinion and advice unless you tell me explicitly that you don't want it!)

No problem,it made me feel better and i though it would be nice for other people to read it.

[víolet]

i've had my baby, lucy, for eight years. she's precious to me and she's a chiweenie beagle mix. i just found out that she is going to pass away soon and i don't know what to do. she's a rescue and we never knew her real age for a while until now. she has always been so healthy and she's lived a great life, but i'm going to miss her so much. i love her with all of my heart. again, eight years is a long time and i've bonded with her so much. the vet couldn't tell me how long i have left with my baby lucy but i know it isn't long. i just really need some comfort.

** VENT **
my ex boyfriend won't leave me alone. he keeps posting things on his social media with phrases like "i miss you" and "why did i have to lose you" and "this is going to be better for you but it's tearing me apart" but he dumped me. not the other way around. he said at the time he was tired of me and now he won't leave me alone. i'm really upset about my dog and now this is happening, not to mention his friend keeps talking to me about how much he supposedly misses me. i really don't know what to do.

[chatot]

i've had my baby, lucy, for eight years. she's precious to me and she's a chiweenie beagle mix. i just found out that she is going to pass away soon and i don't know what to do. she's a rescue and we never knew her real age for a while until now. she has always been so healthy and she's lived a great life, but i'm going to miss her so much. i love her with all of my heart. again, eight years is a long time and i've bonded with her so much. the vet couldn't tell me how long i have left with my baby lucy but i know it isn't long. i just really need some comfort.

** VENT **
my ex boyfriend won't leave me alone. he keeps posting things on his social media with phrases like "i miss you" and "why did i have to lose you" and "this is going to be better for you but it's tearing me apart" but he dumped me. not the other way around. he said at the time he was tired of me and now he won't leave me alone. i'm really upset about my dog and now this is happening, not to mention his friend keeps talking to me about how much he supposedly misses me. i really don't know what to do.

First of all, I'm so sorry to hear about your dog. My grandmother recently lost one of her two dogs very suddenly and she was fairly young, so it was shocking and very sad. I basically picked her out as a puppy so I loved her like my own.
There's probably not much I can say to make you feel better- The pain will heal over time, so please don't ever feel obligated to suddenly "feel better". Grieving is healthy. You've given your dog a wonderful eight years and she was lucky to have such a loving family for the time she was on earth. For the time she has left cherish her, take lots of pictures, spoil her. I know that I wish I had done so with my dog.
Just know that I personally know exactly what it's like and if you ever just feel like venting my PM's are completely open.

So, about your ex, I'll be very honest and say that he sounds very manipulative. I have a close friend going through literally the exact same thing right now. It's not right that he broke up with you, and then tempts you with those kinds of messages. I believe it's best if you try to cut off most forms of contact with him. If he truly felt that it would be healthier for you he wouldn't be selfish enough to send you such guilt-tripping messages. How can he be tired of you if he suddenly wont leave you alone?
And about his friend, I don't have a good feeling about that either. I don't know if his friend had been messaging you that he missed you before or after the breakup, but either way it sounds a little fishy. All I can say is try to be careful.
As I said above, my PM's are always open. Don't be afraid if you need advice or if you just want to vent.

[arbor fray stain]

i've had my baby, lucy, for eight years. she's precious to me and she's a chiweenie beagle mix. i just found out that she is going to pass away soon and i don't know what to do. she's a rescue and we never knew her real age for a while until now. she has always been so healthy and she's lived a great life, but i'm going to miss her so much. i love her with all of my heart. again, eight years is a long time and i've bonded with her so much. the vet couldn't tell me how long i have left with my baby lucy but i know it isn't long. i just really need some comfort.

** VENT **
my ex boyfriend won't leave me alone. he keeps posting things on his social media with phrases like "i miss you" and "why did i have to lose you" and "this is going to be better for you but it's tearing me apart" but he dumped me. not the other way around. he said at the time he was tired of me and now he won't leave me alone. i'm really upset about my dog and now this is happening, not to mention his friend keeps talking to me about how much he supposedly misses me. i really don't know what to do.

First of all, I'm so sorry to hear about your dog. My grandmother recently lost one of her two dogs very suddenly and she was fairly young, so it was shocking and very sad. I basically picked her out as a puppy so I loved her like my own.
There's probably not much I can say to make you feel better- The pain will heal over time, so please don't ever feel obligated to suddenly "feel better". Grieving is healthy. You've given your dog a wonderful eight years and she was lucky to have such a loving family for the time she was on earth. For the time she has left cherish her, take lots of pictures, spoil her. I know that I wish I had done so with my dog.
Just know that I personally know exactly what it's like and if you ever just feel like venting my PM's are completely open.

So, about your ex, I'll be very honest and say that he sounds very manipulative. I have a close friend going through literally the exact same thing right now. It's not right that he broke up with you, and then tempts you with those kinds of messages. I believe it's best if you try to cut off most forms of contact with him. If he truly felt that it would be healthier for you he wouldn't be selfish enough to send you such guilt-tripping messages. How can he be tired of you if he suddenly wont leave you alone?
And about his friend, I don't have a good feeling about that either. I don't know if his friend had been messaging you that he missed you before or after the breakup, but either way it sounds a little fishy. All I can say is try to be careful.
As I said above, my PM's are always open. Don't be afraid if you need advice or if you just want to vent.

i also went through basically the exact same thing. i got dumped by my boyfriend of over a year, and then found out that while we were together, he cheated on me constantly and was also heavily involved in...certain recreational activities (you get what i mean). so i'm much better off without that loser. but now that all the stuff he left me for is gone- he was fired after he was tested for substances at his job, and no girls want to be with him since they heard what he did to me- he's texting me, lying to me saying he never did those things (his friends told me he did and showed me pics tho), trying to get me back. he literally tried to convince me he wasn't suspended for having substances at school but my mom is a teacher and she can pull his records. he knows that, it's like he physically can't stop lying even when he knows i know the truth. he's very manipulative. my advice would be to block his number, block him on social media, and block anyone who keeps talking to you about him after you've asked them to stop. the best thing you can do is to just try to cut him out completely. it's his loss, not yours, and chances are he's realized that. and as everyone else said, my pm's are always open

[spookysponge]

So about a two years ago my mom was Diagnosed with stage 4 kidney cancer. It was a very heartbreaking moment in my life. Besides that point whal it was happening my mom and dad got devorced. I had never felt anything so heart breaking in my life.
A year and a half later in my life my mom past away. She was my everything, she was more than my mom she was the bestest friend i had ever had.
To this day i miss her more and more. Its hard to cope with this but i try my hardest to put a smile on my face everyday..
But i am happy that she is no longer in pain and that she is happy up in heaven

[tonio]

This is incredibly stupid, but I guess I'll post this anyway. . So I was doing a Chicken Smoothie auction for my UR Pineapple. Somebody offered me a Nontag for him, and I auto'd it. A minute later they asked for a tradeback. I was saddened, probably more than a normal person would be, but I did it anyway. I'd just never had a pet that valuable before...I'd already even dressed him up and given him his own group.

I'm dumb