TheComfortCorner | v.6

[christina.]

im in a really bad place and idk what to do. im basically at rock bottom and digging deeper lol. im failing a bunch of my classes and my mental and physical health are getting worse. what to do!

[stress]

my depression just got worse, I gave up a while ago, but this is just painful. I'm stuck in a pit, I don't know how to climb my way out of this pit of depression. it affects me so much, i kept this to myself for so long, too long. now I can't ask for help, I'm too scared of what will happen next. I can't bring myself to try to look on the brighter side, the only light I have left is my sister, she's so young though, she doesn't understand. ahh I really needed to get that out. my anxiety is killing me, I'm so scared of everything. I can't sleep. oh well, at lest I feel a bit better. I don't need any pms or anything, just needed to get that out.

[Vincent Van Goat]

i would like a pm if any of you don't mind, i'm on the verge of tears

[rutilant]

Just venting.. no need to respond, but help is always appreciated.

Alright, I'm in advanced math courses. My family expects nothing less from me. But I swear, I SWEAR my teacher hates me for some reason. I'm not sure what it is, but I'm positive I'm one of her least favorite students.
Okay, maybe my grades haven't been the absolute best lately?? I have a B in the class and I had a B last quarter.. so for mid second quarter we got our progress reports. I didn't even look at it because crap disgust me, but I'm really slow at math.. everything else I'm good at, As in everything but advanced math. You need to maintain a B average to stay in the advanced classes right? And I'm maintaining one, there should be no complaints. However my dad told me that my math teacher actually wrote that I dont take math seriously.
Um.. WHAT?
Math is the class I take the most seriously, I have no idea what she means. I actually study really hard for this class but I don't get the best grades I guess.. I had an 89 and she wrote that for me.. my friend told me he had a 92 in her class and she wrote that he's an excellent kid and she had no complaints.
..are you kidding me?
That got me really mad. This isn't fair whatsoever. I have no idea why the teacher wouldn't like me either? You know, I'm a pretty good kid. I rarely get in trouble and it's not like I'm super chit-chatty in that class because I'm not and I prefer to be quiet unless I wish to be killed by the teacher.
Yes I'm aware advanced teachers are more harder on the kids but... seriously?? I don't get what could make the teacher act this ways towards me. I really don't think I did anything wrong?
Not to mention I have her next semester too. Boy am I suffering.
Also my dad and Mom are pretty strict themselves. But they KNOW I take all my classes very seriously and I work my hardest. As long as I'm on highest honors - they're happy! And so am I, really. My dad and I even shared a laugh about what she said since it's so pathetic in our opinions.

I've been meaning to talk about this for quite a bit. Really, ever since I heard the news from my dad. I really didn't mind the teacher and she says she's super strict and all, but after that - sorry but no. I no longer like you. (:

[Opalide]

Just venting.. no need to respond, but help is always appreciated.

Alright, I'm in advanced math courses. My family expects nothing less from me. But I swear, I SWEAR my teacher hates me for some reason. I'm not sure what it is, but I'm positive I'm one of her least favorite students.
Okay, maybe my grades haven't been the absolute best lately?? I have a B in the class and I had a B last quarter.. so for mid second quarter we got our progress reports. I didn't even look at it because crap disgust me, but I'm really slow at math.. everything else I'm good at, As in everything but advanced math. You need to maintain a B average to stay in the advanced classes right? And I'm maintaining one, there should be no complaints. However my dad told me that my math teacher actually wrote that I dont take math seriously.
Um.. WHAT?
Math is the class I take the most seriously, I have no idea what she means. I actually study really hard for this class but I don't get the best grades I guess.. I had an 89 and she wrote that for me.. my friend told me he had a 92 in her class and she wrote that he's an excellent kid and she had no complaints.
..are you kidding me?
That got me really mad. This isn't fair whatsoever. I have no idea why the teacher wouldn't like me either? You know, I'm a pretty good kid. I rarely get in trouble and it's not like I'm super chit-chatty in that class because I'm not and I prefer to be quiet unless I wish to be killed by the teacher.
Yes I'm aware advanced teachers are more harder on the kids but... seriously?? I don't get what could make the teacher act this ways towards me. I really don't think I did anything wrong?
Not to mention I have her next semester too. Boy am I suffering.
Also my dad and Mom are pretty strict themselves. But they KNOW I take all my classes very seriously and I work my hardest. As long as I'm on highest honors - they're happy! And so am I, really. My dad and I even shared a laugh about what she said since it's so pathetic in our opinions.

I've been meaning to talk about this for quite a bit. Really, ever since I heard the news from my dad. I really didn't mind the teacher and she says she's super strict and all, but after that - sorry but no. I no longer like you. (:

See if you cant speak to a guidance Councillor or the principal/dean about it. They can probably move you - or get better answers out of her.

I had something similar happen - though in my case, I didn't know until I was too late - in English, regarding my level 1s. More than likely, if it's happened to you, it's happened to others as well.

I was on the opposite side of the spectrum however. Moved me from a E8 to M5 because he didn't think I was working hard enough - but also would not tell me how to improve my marks. Long story short, I've been writing for 8 or so years now, so it's not surprising my level 1s were a brease. The type of thing expected is the type of thing I write all the time.

[Thalassic]

I'm sick. Like really really sick. Coughing my lungs out, my head feels like a hundred tons or dizzy mass and my mom literally just told me "oh you're just stressed".

Stress never made anyone cough, mom.

It's been 4-5 days now and I'm not feeling better and I don't think we can afford a doctor..

[atnruen]

Anyone who needs to talk, feel free to PM me! I will try to help you sort it out in any way I can!
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[calliopë]

christmas time is always so difficult for me. its always around this
date that i have the darkest day of the year. today will be hard.

[Flannels]

god i really need help right now,,
for the last three months, ive been sexually harassed everyday on my bus ride to and from school and i finally spoke up after he threatened me multiple times with a knife last week.. but i feel horrible. i've got his record ruined and... i don't know, i shouldn't feel like i should feel bad, because not only did he harass me but assault me... and i got him jailed before christmas. i'm a minor, and he's an adult so of course everyone's telling me i did the right thing, but... everytime i look at my bruises, i think is it really that bad? did he need 7 charges put against him...? if i hadn't said anything, he would be happy right now. i know he doesn't deserve it... but i just wish i could've done things differently. maybe if i asked my mom to drive me to school? i just can't... think straight out of guilt. he's getting released very soon and i can't handle this on my own but i have no friends that understand. my best friend said i should feel bad about speaking up because i got him in trouble before the holidays and expelled from school but i was constantly getting bruised and hurt and i was honestly afraid.. he said he wishes he wasn't expelled from school because he was a cool guy, but he wasn't a cool guy to me.

[LLHBBB]

god i really need help right now,,
for the last three months, ive been sexually harassed everyday on my bus ride to and from school and i finally spoke up after he threatened me multiple times with a knife last week.. but i feel horrible. i've got his record ruined and... i don't know, i shouldn't feel like i should feel bad, because not only did he harass me but assault me... and i got him jailed before christmas. i'm a minor, and he's an adult so of course everyone's telling me i did the right thing, but... everytime i look at my bruises, i think is it really that bad? did he need 7 charges put against him...? if i hadn't said anything, he would be happy right now. i know he doesn't deserve it... but i just wish i could've done things differently. maybe if i asked my mom to drive me to school? i just can't... think straight out of guilt. he's getting released very soon and i can't handle this on my own but i have no friends that understand. my best friend said i should feel bad about speaking up because i got him in trouble before the holidays and expelled from school but i was constantly getting bruised and hurt and i was honestly afraid.. he said he wishes he wasn't expelled from school because he was a cool guy, but he wasn't a cool guy to me.

You really did do the right thing. If it was going on for 3 months it wasn't going to stop until it went even further. Also he may have already done this to someone else in the past who was to afraid to say anything. Also he most likely wouldn't have stopped and moved on to someone else and maybe even accelerated what he was doing. Going to jail might be just what he needs to make him realize how bad what it was he was doing and hopefully he'll learn from it and you or anyone else will have to be afraid of him again.