The Love Doctors <3 Advice for Your Love Life! (V.2)

[botdfislife]

Okay, new situation. So there's these 3 guys, let's call them Mark, Sam, and Conor. They're all weird n "messed up" and I do not wish to deal with them at all but they all like me. Now this fourth boy, let's call him Mike, goes out of his way to be nice to me and get my attention and he acts really nice and polite to my mom when he sees her. Also, he's started trying to be nice to my close friends. My mom thinks he likes me but I think he might just want to go back to being friends. Two years ago, we were best friends and we told each other everything and he always stood up for me and we always covered up for each other if we were going to get in trouble. One more thing, the boys in my grade, everyone of them, one by one, is asking out girls until they get a gf. I think it might just be a huge dare but if "Mike" asks me out I might say yes. Is that a good idea? The other three boys will be really mad though and start telling people more lies about me.... Help!

[wolfamorph]

Okay, new situation. So there's these 3 guys, let's call them Mark, Sam, and Conor. They're all weird n "messed up" and I do not wish to deal with them at all but they all like me. Now this fourth boy, let's call him Mike, goes out of his way to be nice to me and get my attention and he acts really nice and polite to my mom when he sees her. Also, he's started trying to be nice to my close friends. My mom thinks he likes me but I think he might just want to go back to being friends. Two years ago, we were best friends and we told each other everything and he always stood up for me and we always covered up for each other if we were going to get in trouble. One more thing, the boys in my grade, everyone of them, one by one, is asking out girls until they get a gf. I think it might just be a huge dare but if "Mike" asks me out I might say yes. Is that a good idea? The other three boys will be really mad though and start telling people more lies about me.... Help!

Sorry if I'm 'not supposed to post', but I like to help people.

If you told him everything two years ago, I'm sure he'll be honest with you if you ask him if it's all a dare... If he hesitates, then I'd assume yes. Hell, I'm in love with someone 16 years older than me, and that's illegal, but I still love him.
I think if you still love him, talk to him. Be with him, go for what you think is best.
And, who cares what people say about you? It's not what they think, it's about what you think of yourself as a person, not those stupid lies and rumors.
People are mean, and that's apart of life, but people are also nice and kind. You just have to be careful which side you choose. Of course you're bound to make a mistake, have a hard breakup or have a bad day. But the thing you need to do is pick yourself up again and keep going.
You sound like you're very confused right now... Maybe not only about boys, but about life and yourself in general. I think you should hold off on trying to find a boyfriend until you've managed to find yourself, and who you really are, and be able to just let the lies and rumors at school blow over your head like you just don't care.
Be strong, it'll all turn out well.

[WolfWhisperer]

Ask Mysterious to be a part of the team. I am sure that there should at least be another person in this.

I don't think you should get into trouble for giving out this info. I think it is quite good info to be honest

[livingdeadhorror]

Hai

What does it mean if a boy winks at you, then smiles?

Im confuzzled

Thank-choo
Rainy~Pancake (shortend version of mah name XD )

[jacketgirl]

I laughed when I saw this, I just have to say. But I do have a question! What should I do if I have the most amazing guy friend in the world and we like each other. I don't want things to get awkward between us if we date and things don't work out. Should I just stay his friend or not?

[Mysterious_Viking]

Sorry if I'm 'not supposed to post', but I like to help people.

If you told him everything two years ago, I'm sure he'll be honest with you if you ask him if it's all a dare... If he hesitates, then I'd assume yes. Hell, I'm in love with someone 16 years older than me, and that's illegal, but I still love him.
I think if you still love him, talk to him. Be with him, go for what you think is best.
And, who cares what people say about you? It's not what they think, it's about what you think of yourself as a person, not those stupid lies and rumors.
People are mean, and that's apart of life, but people are also nice and kind. You just have to be careful which side you choose. Of course you're bound to make a mistake, have a hard breakup or have a bad day. But the thing you need to do is pick yourself up again and keep going.
You sound like you're very confused right now... Maybe not only about boys, but about life and yourself in general. I think you should hold off on trying to find a boyfriend until you've managed to find yourself, and who you really are, and be able to just let the lies and rumors at school blow over your head like you just don't care.
Be strong, it'll all turn out well.

Yes, the rules state you aren't allowed to give advice unless you're a staff member. As WolfWhisperer said, this is good advice, but the rules do state you aren't allowed to give advice unless you're a staff member, so you'll be receiving one strike.

Ask Mysterious to be a part of the team. I am sure that there should at least be another person in this.

Yes, we do need one more person. I've been looking for another staff member on other threads based on the advice they give.

Hai

What does it mean if a boy winks at you, then smiles?

Im confuzzled

Thank-choo
Rainy~Pancake (shortend version of mah name XD )

It could be flirting, but it might just be just to be funny or a dare.

I laughed when I saw this, I just have to say. But I do have a question! What should I do if I have the most amazing guy friend in the world and we like each other. I don't want things to get awkward between us if we date and things don't work out. Should I just stay his friend or not?

If you two both like each other, then go for it! You two get along as friends for a reason, and the only reason it might not work as a couple would be because you're not used to being a couple. If you two do break up, then just ask if you two could stay friends like you two used to be before you went out.

[wolfamorph]

Well, Can I, then?

[Mysterious_Viking]

Well, Can I, then?

No, you can't give advice because you aren't a staff member.

[wolfamorph]

I was asking if I could become 'a staff member.' I got the memo that I 'can't give advice if I'm not a staff member'.

Heck, I might start my own thread anyway. Nevermind.

[Mysterious_Viking]

I was asking if I could become 'a staff member.' I got the memo that I 'can't give advice if I'm not a staff member'.

Heck, I might start my own thread anyway. Nevermind.

Go ahead, but the mods will just delete it since there's already a thread for giving dating advice. Also, asking to be a staff member is against the rules, so that will count as your second strike.