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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Firedancer77 » Fri Dec 09, 2016 1:25 pm

Ahhhh maybe I'm getting all my hopes up, but the guy I like has been exhibiting more signs that he might like me back ahhh. Can anyone tell me if these are generally good signs?

Sometimes I'll catch him glancing at me during our study hall or when we sit near each other in class. I sometimes won't do anything, but sometimes I'll look back and/or make a face at him. He shows up at my first period class before school starts all the time, and sometimes acts offended if I don't say hi to him. We talk about a YouTube channel we both watch, and he'll casually slip compliments into conversations we're having. I always find myself laughing/smiling around him. He's such a dork and is pretty much a low key fanboy about some things. He claims he's going to read a book series I love and was lending me some of his books when I needed them, and at lunch sometimes he'll wait by my locker and walk with me. He'll steal my stuff (so I'll steal his back) and he teases me sometimes, but never in a mean way. He'll ask me for help on stuff sometimes, and is always super willing to help me (even though my problems can be really pathetic).

The biggest thing is something his older sister said. We're friends, and we are in an activity period together. While we were playing a game, she said that she always seemed funnier around me. I said I did generally just find people funny, She then said, "That must be why (brother's name) likes," and she awkwardly paused before finishing, "being your friend." She then added after an awkward pause, "Because you laugh at his stupid jokes."

Ahhhh I just I don't know if I'm over analyzing things. He's one of my best friends and I've liked him since last year, so I'm scared I am misinterpreting thing. Am I?
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby arabella !! » Fri Dec 09, 2016 2:16 pm

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okayokay there's this girl I really like and she's gay too and I wanna tell her that I like her and sometimes she lowkey flirts with me so idk?? ahhhh

racing thoughts and ongoing sentences oops

Tell her, there's a likely chance that she'll like you back. c:
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby L.V.L » Fri Dec 09, 2016 2:45 pm

SilentMelody wrote:
okayokay there's this girl I really like and she's gay too and I wanna tell her that I like her and sometimes she lowkey flirts with me so idk?? ahhhh
racing thoughts and ongoing sentences oops

I agree with the others - go after her. You would rather know what happened if you told her then if you didn't tell her. Maybe you'll both go out or maybe you'll make a new best friend that could possibly later develop. Just do it and have fun and good luck! <3

















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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby Shiny Sylveon » Fri Dec 09, 2016 3:22 pm

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Shiny Sylveon wrote:Being in love with my best friend can be a real disaster...he was having a bad day, and I just wanted to let him cry on my shoulder until he felt better. It hurts me to see him sad or mad as his best friend, but as a crush, it just breaks my heart. Then there's the fact that during some times, I get hopeful that he might like me back, but at other times, I feel that I'm not even deserving to be with him as a friend. He's sweet, dorky, and fun to be around, but I'm a total opposite.


Today was his birthday...he seemed so happy, so it really made my day. Too bad I didn't get to talk to him for long.


I so know where you are coming from, I guess you could say I fell in love with my best friend. Luckily none of my friends (and some of his) aren't idiots and they realized something:
I liked him and he liked me.
Sometimes, you have to wait to see the signs, sometimes, your friends will say "I caught him looking at you during .... today" and your heat will give a little leap.
Trust your instinct. The mind is better at reading people than you think. Watch his body language, how he speaks to people. It can hint a lot.

I'm sorry if this doesn't help, but it is what I did to get into a relationship with my best friend.


Thanks, but my best friend and I have 2 classes together, and only one mutual friend in one of those classes, who always does his own thing. It's not like I mind just being his best friend, but sometimes it hurts more than others. I swear, there are times I'm almost positive he likes me, but at other moment, I feel like a complete stranger.

"I swear, there are times I'm almost positive he likes me, but at other moment, I feel like a complete stranger. " That's my life in a nutshell. XD
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby chaeminqq » Fri Dec 09, 2016 4:11 pm

M. Hot, Cute, Funny, Caring
A. Cute, Funny, Sweet, Caring
There both bffs and both my friends, and they both have a crush on me. A really isn't my type though, M is so hot and they both do sweet things. A is sweet and stuff but doesn't always show much concern. M is always sweet but can say really hurtful things without meaning it and is way too concerned about me. He always thinks I'm sad and easy to read but I'm not sad. Once he called me anorexic because I'm thin like most of the girls in my school. I think M is amazing and all the girls have a crush on him. A is great but he doesn't really flirt like M even know he's admitted to liking me and I'm not as attracted.

I'm wondering..
Which one would be the best choice?
They both asked me to the dance in the most romantic way..and it's just Ahh. If only m had the personality of a or a had the looks as m.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby allu » Fri Dec 09, 2016 4:51 pm

So this is my first post here but here goes nothing.

I'm extremely shy, after a move from my hometown i was left with no friends and I'm home-schooled so that makes things worse, but you can go to classes at a campus, and so i do that in hopes of making friends. Well recently I developed a crush on a guy in one of my classes, we haven't really talked but he's really nice and shy like me, and i don't know what to do? I had to sit next to him during class today and i was blushing the whole time because he kept looking over at me.. I just need some advice. I really can't go walk up to someone and say 'hey i like you' because I'm way too shy and I'd get really embarrassed if he said he doesn't like me back (It's dumb i know..)

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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby redhorizon » Fri Dec 09, 2016 10:18 pm

holibombinq wrote:M. Hot, Cute, Funny, Caring
A. Cute, Funny, Sweet, Caring
There both bffs and both my friends, and they both have a crush on me. A really isn't my type though, M is so hot and they both do sweet things. A is sweet and stuff but doesn't always show much concern. M is always sweet but can say really hurtful things without meaning it and is way too concerned about me. He always thinks I'm sad and easy to read but I'm not sad. Once he called me anorexic because I'm thin like most of the girls in my school. I think M is amazing and all the girls have a crush on him. A is great but he doesn't really flirt like M even know he's admitted to liking me and I'm not as attracted.

I'm wondering..
Which one would be the best choice?
They both asked me to the dance in the most romantic way..and it's just Ahh. If only m had the personality of a or a had the looks as m.


Honestly, I'd go for A. Looks are less important than personalities. I'd prefer someone who doesn't call me anorexic and easy to read.

Of course, you don't have to choose either of them. If you don't want to hurt their feelings or if you just aren't interested, you could just tell them both no.

Just a few ideas of what I'd do. Sorry if this wasn't helpful.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby WastedSpace » Fri Dec 09, 2016 10:22 pm

holibombinq wrote:M. Hot, Cute, Funny, Caring
A. Cute, Funny, Sweet, Caring
There both bffs and both my friends, and they both have a crush on me. A really isn't my type though, M is so hot and they both do sweet things. A is sweet and stuff but doesn't always show much concern. M is always sweet but can say really hurtful things without meaning it and is way too concerned about me. He always thinks I'm sad and easy to read but I'm not sad. Once he called me anorexic because I'm thin like most of the girls in my school. I think M is amazing and all the girls have a crush on him. A is great but he doesn't really flirt like M even know he's admitted to liking me and I'm not as attracted.

I'm wondering..
Which one would be the best choice?
They both asked me to the dance in the most romantic way..and it's just Ahh. If only m had the personality of a or a had the looks as m.


Are you actually romantically interested in either M or A?

Firedancer77 wrote:Ahhhh maybe I'm getting all my hopes up, but the guy I like has been exhibiting more signs that he might like me back ahhh. Can anyone tell me if these are generally good signs?

Sometimes I'll catch him glancing at me during our study hall or when we sit near each other in class. I sometimes won't do anything, but sometimes I'll look back and/or make a face at him. He shows up at my first period class before school starts all the time, and sometimes acts offended if I don't say hi to him. We talk about a YouTube channel we both watch, and he'll casually slip compliments into conversations we're having. I always find myself laughing/smiling around him. He's such a dork and is pretty much a low key fanboy about some things. He claims he's going to read a book series I love and was lending me some of his books when I needed them, and at lunch sometimes he'll wait by my locker and walk with me. He'll steal my stuff (so I'll steal his back) and he teases me sometimes, but never in a mean way. He'll ask me for help on stuff sometimes, and is always super willing to help me (even though my problems can be really pathetic).

The biggest thing is something his older sister said. We're friends, and we are in an activity period together. While we were playing a game, she said that she always seemed funnier around me. I said I did generally just find people funny, She then said, "That must be why (brother's name) likes," and she awkwardly paused before finishing, "being your friend." She then added after an awkward pause, "Because you laugh at his stupid jokes."

Ahhhh I just I don't know if I'm over analyzing things. He's one of my best friends and I've liked him since last year, so I'm scared I am misinterpreting thing. Am I?


Honestly, if you're getting the idea that someone likes you, it's a pretty good chance that your instincts are correct. The best way to know is to ask, though.
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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby pandapanda_ » Sat Dec 10, 2016 2:19 am

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Re: ♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

Postby .zombie » Sat Dec 10, 2016 4:25 am

How do i manage loving a bad boy? Anything will help <3
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