kandria wrote:chooky wrote:People who cancel rudely. No matter how stupid the trade is, or suggestion, or even if it's fair but you don't 'like' it, is it really necessary to rant like someone shoved a stick up... you get the point
I never cancel trades rudely if possible. Unless a person is driving me up the wall and talking nonsense, I atleast TRY to explain why I cancel. >:C I mean if you wouldn't do it in real life, why do it now? People like that won't get many takers in future, so good luck to them
Most of the problem has to do, in my opinion, with what exactly someone considers to be 'rude'. I often cancel trades with very simple messages or no message at all, and while I would never think I'm being nasty, I get the feeling that if it's not a 'happy butterflies and rainbows' reply, people will be annoyed and automatically label it as rude.
Of course that's just my two cents, and I can wholeheartedly agree that it's difficult to swallow when you send a trade for a pet you'd love and have it canceled for whatever reason. Even if you cancel without a message, it doesn't mean you are being rude either, not in my book.
