♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[Karia]

Why does A keep making weird jokes with me?

Not that I'm uncomfortable, but it's weird.

[appi]

AHH. i'm so frustrated with myself. there's this guy i like
and like i know from experience that is totally 100% out of
my league but my brain is like NOPE screw you we're gonna
have a huge gigantic crush on him anyways! i can't even
talk to him because i'm a socially awkward pile of mess
and i get really nervous when i'm around him. he's in only
one of my classes but i always see him around when we
walk past each other in the halls and i can't stop myself
from looking for him whenever i can. he's one of those
"popular" guys, i guess, and he's friends with a lot of
people. there's no way he'd even consider me, at all.
i'd be surprised if he even knew my name to be honest. xD
whenever i look at him i always see him staring back
at me but that's probably just my mind playing tricks
on me. i have noo idea how to deal with this. sobs

[stxrdog]

lowkey really happy because these 2 rlly hot guys like me
I started talking to one of them and hes really nice :')
but the other guy i was talking about on my other post in my foods class is friends with this girl and today she told me that he likes me and couldn't stop talking about how he wants my number. Good news?

[witchypuppy]

my friends keep "shipping" me with my best friend and it makes me really uncomfortable
i get anxious whenever i try to tell them to stop and i chicken out
ugh

[nikiforovv.]

So.... I happen to like this guy at my school. Let's call him J. My friend told her friend to tell J I liked him, and I'm pretty sure J knows now. Today he sat conveniently right behind me or across from me, and kept glancing my way. My friend told me I should put a note in his locker telling him I like him, is that a good idea?
Please PM me so I can find it again, thanks.

I'm in middle school/jr high if that affects anything.

If he already knows, he should say something about it. If he's showing signs of interest, you should act on it. A note may or may not help you.

AHH. i'm so frustrated with myself. there's this guy i like
and like i know from experience that is totally 100% out of
my league but my brain is like NOPE screw you we're gonna
have a huge gigantic crush on him anyways! i can't even
talk to him because i'm a socially awkward pile of mess
and i get really nervous when i'm around him. he's in only
one of my classes but i always see him around when we
walk past each other in the halls and i can't stop myself
from looking for him whenever i can. he's one of those
"popular" guys, i guess, and he's friends with a lot of
people. there's no way he'd even consider me, at all.
i'd be surprised if he even knew my name to be honest. xD
whenever i look at him i always see him staring back
at me but that's probably just my mind playing tricks
on me. i have noo idea how to deal with this. sobs

Trust me, in junior high I felt the exact same way, man. I had so many crushes on popular people, and tbh, I still get those every now and then. If you sit near him, then I suggest talking to him. My teachers at my junior high had this thing where you pass papers back to the end of the row while taking one for yourself, so I sat behind my boyfriend [current one whom i did not date in junior high] and he'd pass the papers back to me, while teasing me and dropping the papers on purpose. I'd always tease him back, and that's when we started talking and stuff like that. If you don't sit near him, then I suggest trying to find a way to find him where you can tell him. I swear to you, I had some horrible problems with doing this. I could never do it. I was so scared, man. I don't know why, it's just literal 3 words. I don't know why. I just suggest doing that, but it's just way easier to say than do.

Why does A keep making weird jokes with me?

Not that I'm uncomfortable, but it's weird.

I know, right? I get those form my boyfriend every day, practically. I seriously get freak jokes, man. Like, dude jokes. I think they're weird, but also hilarious.

[appi]

AHH. i'm so frustrated with myself. there's this guy i like
and like i know from experience that is totally 100% out of
my league but my brain is like NOPE screw you we're gonna
have a huge gigantic crush on him anyways! i can't even
talk to him because i'm a socially awkward pile of mess
and i get really nervous when i'm around him. he's in only
one of my classes but i always see him around when we
walk past each other in the halls and i can't stop myself
from looking for him whenever i can. he's one of those
"popular" guys, i guess, and he's friends with a lot of
people. there's no way he'd even consider me, at all.
i'd be surprised if he even knew my name to be honest. xD
whenever i look at him i always see him staring back
at me but that's probably just my mind playing tricks
on me. i have noo idea how to deal with this. sobs

Trust me, in junior high I felt the exact same way, man. I had so many crushes on popular people, and tbh, I still get those every now and then. If you sit near him, then I suggest talking to him. My teachers at my junior high had this thing where you pass papers back to the end of the row while taking one for yourself, so I sat behind my boyfriend [current one whom i did not date in junior high] and he'd pass the papers back to me, while teasing me and dropping the papers on purpose. I'd always tease him back, and that's when we started talking and stuff like that. If you don't sit near him, then I suggest trying to find a way to find him where you can tell him. I swear to you, I had some horrible problems with doing this. I could never do it. I was so scared, man. I don't know why, it's just literal 3 words. I don't know why. I just suggest doing that, but it's just way easier to say than do.

yeah i know what you mean!! i feel like it would be so weird
though if i just say hi to him in the hallway like?? he probably
doesn't know i exist?? xD and i hate myself for liking him because
i know it's going to be such a struggle talking to him and
i get so nervous ahh. it would be such a blessing to be able
to talk to him normally ugh that would be the most amazing
thing ever. maybe i will try saying hi to him. but one of my
friends knows i have a huge crush on him and would tease
me to the moon and back, i just know. xD

[nikiforovv.]

yeah i know what you mean!! i feel like it would be so weird
though if i just say hi to him in the hallway like?? he probably
doesn't know i exist?? xD and i hate myself for liking him because
i know it's going to be such a struggle talking to him and
i get so nervous ahh. it would be such a blessing to be able
to talk to him normally ugh that would be the most amazing
thing ever. maybe i will try saying hi to him. but one of my
friends knows i have a huge crush on him and would tease
me to the moon and back, i just know. xD

YES. I had so many friends tease me for liking my neighbor at this one time. I told 1 person, and she told her mom and her friends and it was just widespread panic for everyone. They kept calling him a jerk, but only to them he was. To me, he was a gentle and loving soul who was good to me. I never fessed up, though. Whatever.

Anyway, I get it! I had those, too. Like, not talking to him makes you feel horrible and talking to him is just one of those little floaty things in your head that you don't want to pay attention to ;-; I seriously understand your fear for that because I seriously get those when talking to random people. I guess it's just all in our heads, right? [Hopefully?]
Or maybe you won't be the first one to talk. Maybe it'll be him.

I'm using a dramatic element here, so sorry :'D

[appi]

yeah i know what you mean!! i feel like it would be so weird
though if i just say hi to him in the hallway like?? he probably
doesn't know i exist?? xD and i hate myself for liking him because
i know it's going to be such a struggle talking to him and
i get so nervous ahh. it would be such a blessing to be able
to talk to him normally ugh that would be the most amazing
thing ever. maybe i will try saying hi to him. but one of my
friends knows i have a huge crush on him and would tease
me to the moon and back, i just know. xD

YES. I had so many friends tease me for liking my neighbor at this one time. I told 1 person, and she told her mom and her friends and it was just widespread panic for everyone. They kept calling him a jerk, but only to them he was. To me, he was a gentle and loving soul who was good to me. I never fessed up, though. Whatever.

Anyway, I get it! I had those, too. Like, not talking to him makes you feel horrible and talking to him is just one of those little floaty things in your head that you don't want to pay attention to ;-; I seriously understand your fear for that because I seriously get those when talking to random people. I guess it's just all in our heads, right? [Hopefully?]
Or maybe you won't be the first one to talk. Maybe it'll be him.

I'm using a dramatic element here, so sorry :'D

hahaha wow, him talking to me. what a far away dream
anyway, thanks a lot xD he did talk to me once actually,
but i was so nervous i had no idea what to say. :P i don't
really sit close to him in class so i'm not sure how i'd pull
it off but i'll try to talk to him! pray for me guys ugh thanks
again! i'll stare at him until he notices me huehuehue èwé

[chaney]

ive been getting mixed signs from my best friend.. i have a small crush on her and would like a bit of advice. please pm <3

[ghostie✞]

Alright so I need some new advice :c

currently, I don't have any classes or lunches with my crush. so i can't talk to them, right? well they ride my bus (both afternoon and morning so far) and i want to approach them and talk. They sit all alone up in the front, and I feel like they're lonely, but I don't know how to ask them to sit in the back with my friends and i ,because I'm a nervous, awkward, wreck tbh. how should I talk to them? (I'm also not the best conversation starter)

i would just say smth like "hey, do u wanna sit with us?" and see where it goes

if they say yeah then just be urself!! if ur friends know u like them u can ask beforehand if they
avoid bringing it up (the topic of crushes)

or u could sit w/ them one day and tell ur friends beforehand!
i hope this helped a little bit ;v;

Soooo... Theres this guy. I get the butterflies when I see him. Ughhhh he is so sweet and perfect! I don't know what to do about it. He is a skater and he is really funny and nice but I don't talk to him. I am friends with all his friends but not him. All his friends tell me to get to know him and he might like me but everytime I want to talk to him I chicken out.. We both have 1st lunch (Thank god) And he sat by me a few days ago but i didn't say anything to him, in fact i stopped eating because i didn't want him to see me eating. But here is where it turns bad. He got a girlfriend! I don't know her but she goes to a different school far away. I don't know how long they will last and i think he knows i like him. Guys any help? ( Oh to imagine what he looks like.....) He is tall with black hair and pretty green and blue eyes, Always wears a jacket and smells really good!

Well, for now you've lost your chance to date him. So now might be a good time to figure out how to actually talk with him. If you do get another chance with him, you're going to need to be able to talk to him. Maybe try some breathing exercises to calm yourself so you can actually speak to him and be his friend.

Also, please don't starve yourself for any reason, but especially not a guy. You're human. You're alive. You eat. If he can't deal with that, then he's a jerk. So eat. You need food. So eat.

Alright so I need some new advice :c

currently, I don't have any classes or lunches with my crush. so i can't talk to them, right? well they ride my bus (both afternoon and morning so far) and i want to approach them and talk. They sit all alone up in the front, and I feel like they're lonely, but I don't know how to ask them to sit in the back with my friends and i ,because I'm a nervous, awkward, wreck tbh. how should I talk to them? (I'm also not the best conversation starter)

A good start would be to sit with them for a ride. Before they/you get off, you can mention they're welcome to join you and the rest of your friends in the back. Then the next few times, sit with your friends and see if they join you.

thank you you both! I'll try it out soon hopefully if I don't chicken out, and also, my friend's boyfriend just recently broke up with her, she is feeling better, but she still needs some help. Does anyone know good ways of dealing with a breakup?