Lion blaze wrote:Another question..;;
If you(a staff member) create a pet, are you guaranteed to own that pet..? Or is it random for you guys too?
Cause, I mean, you'd probably like to have the pet you created?
GOSH I WISH. I'd make the UR EVERY year if that was the case :'D
Nope, it's just as random for us as it is for you. Otherwise it would be totally unfair.
actuallypunny wrote:to; anyone
what do you think would happen to the cs economy if the raven dog suddenly became omg so common?
Anarchy. Especially from the users who bought it with real money.
tardisonameter wrote:To: Anyone with the time to answer.
I don't have any faith in myself. I have a really hard time seeing worth in myself for more than a day or so. Sometimes I'll see it and feel content and okay and comfortable with myself, but it never lasts long.
I don't know how to be comfortable in my own skin. I need to be reminded that I matter or it's really easy for me to doubt it.
I don't want to be one of those people that needs constant reassurance or validation, that's exhausting and emotionally draining for the people around me. But if I just stay quiet and don't seek that comfort, I start to feel pointless.
How can I be comfortable with myself?
You guys all seem really knowing about everything. ^^"
Imma answer this one because when I was in my early/mid teens, this was a problem I really had. And to be honest, I don't have a quick fix for you. But I'll tell you what helped me.
Teenage was awkward for me. I got chubby, I was introverted, high school was big and I was separated from my best friend. After a miserable first few months, two kind of amazing things happened to me:
1. I moved horse-riding barns
and
2. My parents forced me to join the school debating club.
I wanna tell you why each of those things helped me see my own worth, because they did in entirely different ways. I have always loved horses and have been riding since I was young. But it was only when I moved to my current barn and met my current coach that I thought I could actually be GOOD at it. She saw something in me that I couldn't, and she kept pushing me to join in. She made me ride difficult young horses and do things I thought were impossible. She invited me to camps and asked me to help. And I went to camps, and I did help, and I started getting good at it. Not just at riding, but knowing horses and being around them. I started making friends there, and ever since I've never stopped helping. No job is too small and annoying. And I got better and better, and people recognised it. Sometimes it just takes one person to realise your worth, for you to see it too. But I had to work at it as well.
Debating didn't go as well at first. My parents forced me to do it, and I am super shy and non-confrontational (ask the staff; I'm basically a puppy that types). So I kind of sulked at the back of the class for the first year, and read a book. Until the debating coach, a mad woman with brightly-dyed hair and tattoos, snapped. She pulled the book out of my hands one day and basically said,
'Listen, either join in or get out.'
Kind of similar to the last story, I started speaking. And I made a lot of mistakes. And I sucked. And at first I only spoke a quarter of the required time, and sat down in defeat. But I got tougher and braver and more confident, and I sucked less. I made a team. I made a different team. I went on a national competition camp and spoke so much every day that I fell asleep at the dinner table one night. I hate speaking. I hate arguing with people. But I got good at it because I tried hard, and because a crazy lady pushed me to be good.
Long story short, I saw my own worth because two people saw it in me first, and made me work at it until I saw it too. But I guess the point is, I had to find something I liked, and work at it until I saw worth in myself. And this turned into a bit of a rant, but I hope it helped you. It sort of helped remind me about some stuff too.
naki, wrote:to anyone;; have you ever made any... rather odd food combinations?
Gosh I am the queen of weird food. Here are some of my all-time favourites:
1. Cheese and jam
2. Vanilla ice cream and balsamic vinegar.
3. Basically, anything and balsamic vinegar can't go wrong.
4. Chocolate-covered raisins in oatmeal.
5. Chips (french fries) in iced coffee.
paws00001 wrote:To anyone:
What is your favorite animal? (IRL)
MONGOOSE. Right now. It changes.