♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V5♥

[maninkari]

I just switched back to my crushes school. She's the primary reason I went back, but she always has a boyfriend. I like her current boyfriend a lot, we're good friends and he's definitely better than the last guy, but it's kind of heart breaking watching her get cuddly with a guy all day. I'm happy that she's happy though, and like I said I like her boyfriend. I'll just stay the third wheel and roll away into the sunset.

[lextopia]

Its been a while, [sighs] alot happened and Im just going to give you a short summary- kind of..
So I used to come on these threads and post about my 2yr crush and how I was so bubbly about him and that we were finally talking & he said he liked me and i told him i liked him back. This was way back in like June? Anyways, yeah that happened but after our whole convo ( which lasted till 7am & it was really nice :C ) he acted like we never talked and he just never initiated the convo at all, I HAD TO! We had some casual convos but I was just so hooked on this boy that I was hurting, so i removed him ( i know, stupid ). He never noticed even when he messaged me when I was at his town, he said he saw me so he wanted to say hi- but the convos, again were kept casual and short. After that I did infact add him back but slowly I started getting so obsessed and so highkey in love with him and with that, especially when his posts where always about not having someone and stuff, brought me so much depression and pain and I'd always ask myself why Im not good enough. My friends finally had enough of it- including me so they decided to "expose" him for being a player, which by the way he isnt... hes just lonely and overall a jerk, but with feelings. So my friend asked him for tips on how to get me to like her and he asked me if i was gay and stuff and he said he couldnt help her, but GET THIS he wanted to keep talking to her and "get to know her" and when I saw his texts i was so shattered and heart broken even though he was never mine I felt betrayed and so stupid.. I was crying and I was mad so I told my friend to tell him everything and, like the amazing friend she is, sent him one of those paragraphs saying that she is a lesbian and she only did that to show me that he was a player and ya know basically telling him how he missed someone so great ( i love my friends <3 ) and that I cared for him so deeply- you get the point. And then he said something like "I cant love anyone when i cant even love myself", and then i told my best friend and she raged on him and cursed him out- gave him the same paragraph but with much more hatred ( she really hates him ) and he said "I thought she was with the other dude so i backed off" but the thing is at the time we were talking there was nobody else in the picture and i never made it seem like there was so it was just a bad bad excuse. And then my friend Luke talked to him and they "bro bonded" and he gave him a talk about how "special" i am ( okay yeah ) and he responded with "I still really like her i just dont want to hurt her again. ever" which I found sweet but i knew it was just a cover up for lightly rejecting me. I always thought he was "in love" or liked someone else, anyways he ended up texted me and apologizing and told me that he still likes me, i told him i still like him too but i dont think we should be friends- he said its up to me but obviously that just confused me even more. Anyways the last convo we had was about the truth.. August 27th. I was mad and I had pure rage in me and i was so sick of him confusing me and being on my mind 24/7 when i knew i wasnt on his, this boy was doing something to me and it just had to stop. So I texted him, i was sassy and slightly rude but he didnt take offense to anything and he said "I love someone else". He apologized & said it was a weight lifted off his shoulders but on my side i was upset, laughing hysterically but also relieved.. I dont know why but i felt like i was set free by those words. Things are better now, we dont talk anymore but still I know that he never wanted to be with me, he quote "thinks im cool" and wants to be my friend but never really makes an effort to do so, he cant even ask if im okay and take a hint. Literally after we had this convo we started talking like normal people and then he just made some excuse along with his dry texts that he had to go to bed- which in reality he stayed on till 3am ( i know because i saw him online and he posted ) which made me think he was talking to someone better and truly didnt want anything to do with me. So here how im feeling now, im doing good. I dont think my feelings will ever go away but i dont need him as much as i used to, hes not on my mind anymore, and honestly i kind of hate him and want to scream at him for hurting me and not caring. Me and my friends still make fun of him It feels really good to be out of his grasp. ( Also a week ago i saw him at the gas station talking to my step mom and my heart was POUNDING, he looked so good and his face just ugh. I know i seem pathetic but honestly im not going to ever hide the fact that in my world hes so attractive and adorable, but that also will NEVER change the fact that I hate him with a passion. The end ;-;

[~IronRose~]

So, she wasn't at class yesterday which raises a lot of questions, especially for me because I have anxiety so I worry about everything.
This sucks because I was going to ask her for her number yesterday, which now I have to wait until tomorrow, I hate playing the waiting game.
I really really hope she is okay and that nothing major caused her to miss class and I really hope she is here tomorrow. 

[MyGoldfish]

I found out that my crush likes me back a few months ago, but I'm absolutely TERRIFIED of asking him out. What should I do to solve this problem?

[storm coming.]

MyGoldfish ahh congratulations! do you want to ask him out? if so, i'd say go for it! or you could always have a friend ask him for you. whatever you decide to do, i wish you the best. <3

~DoNotTouchMe10~ i can relate. i have really bad anxiety too. yes whenever my friend or my crush isn't at school i worry so much, but i think you are very caring for worrying for her. that's really nice, and i'm sure she will realize you're nice and she'll ask you for your number c; but good luck, and she's most likely alright. probably just sick, which is alright since humans get sick from time to time. focus your mind on something else for now to stop worrying, though i'd be worrying too. good luck! :D

[witchypuppy]

being a demi-romantic is so hard i want to have a crush but i just can't y'know
also my ex told me she wishes she had thought through more before she broke up with me and that makes me feel weird. idk
also on my ThisCrush two people said they have a crush on me (may be the same person) and i just don't know who wrote either of them and idk why but its freaking me out

[stxrdog]

I'm a freshmen and there's this really cute guy in my foods class
and it seems like he really draws attention to himself when I'm there
like today when i walked in he shouted "there she is!" and then came up and said hi :')
but it seems like the girls in the class hate me because he talks to me. They try so hard to get his attention but they get too caught up in it and get annoying you know?
I'm really new to there area so I'm not familiar with him or who he hangs around but any suggestions on how to become friends with him?

[Pugs!]

Soooo... Theres this guy. I get the butterflies when I see him. Ughhhh he is so sweet and perfect! I don't know what to do about it. He is a skater and he is really funny and nice but I don't talk to him. I am friends with all his friends but not him. All his friends tell me to get to know him and he might like me but everytime I want to talk to him I chicken out.. We both have 1st lunch (Thank god) And he sat by me a few days ago but i didn't say anything to him, in fact i stopped eating because i didn't want him to see me eating. But here is where it turns bad. He got a girlfriend! I don't know her but she goes to a different school far away. I don't know how long they will last and i think he knows i like him. Guys any help? ( Oh to imagine what he looks like.....) He is tall with black hair and pretty green and blue eyes, Always wears a jacket and smells really good!

[ghostie✞]

Alright so I need some new advice :c

currently, I don't have any classes or lunches with my crush. so i can't talk to them, right? well they ride my bus (both afternoon and morning so far) and i want to approach them and talk. They sit all alone up in the front, and I feel like they're lonely, but I don't know how to ask them to sit in the back with my friends and i ,because I'm a nervous, awkward, wreck tbh. how should I talk to them? (I'm also not the best conversation starter)

[Rising]

I found out that my crush likes me back a few months ago, but I'm absolutely TERRIFIED of asking him out. What should I do to solve this problem?

While I've never asked someone out, when I'm faced with something terrifying I usually motivate myself by thinking about how much I'll regret not doing it. I imagine how I'll feel going home that day having missed my chance, then how I'll feel in the more long-term future if I was to never get another chance. If the regret will be more painful than the action itself, that's usually enough to propell me into doing it. Have you tried this approach?
Good luck! You can do this!