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[Fox,]

ok so, I'm kindof confused and hopeful rn about a possible relationship, but I need some advice /,\

there's this guy named a. we only met a week ago, and he's in two or three of my classes. he's kindof cute, really nice, and he's got a decent sense of humor. all in all, I think he's pretty awesome, and id like to get to know him more. a moved next to me in one of my classes, and his friend already teased us about going to homecoming together. he was talking to my brother the other day, and I have no idea what about, but he glanced over at me. also, after my practice was done, me and a friend of mine [friend 3] walked out of the gym, and she heard someone say, "my friend likes you." I have two classes with a on Monday, so hopefully I can talk to him more ;w;

the problem is, two of my other friends like him. one of them is boy crazy, and scoped out like three guys on orientation day. the other one is kindof boy crazy, and has liked 3 guys in the past year. [she's also really moody about stuff, but she's okay] friend 1 thinks that he likes her, because he kept looking at her and turning around to talk to her. she wears quite a bit of makeup, talks a whole lot, and is very boy crazy. the thing is, the same situation happened last year, where she desperately liked a guy, and he ended liking me. friend 2 was veryyy obvious about it, as she read something aloud in class, then he was like "what?" and she read it in a calmer, quiter, and tried to look 'cooler'. she also said something about liking him to me over a group chat, so I'm kindof stuck. I like him, and I haven't told anyone, just because I don't usually. he's really cute, and I can imagine us together because we are both atheltic, and have similar intrests. so, my main question is, what do I do? I won't be depressed or out of it if he does end up liking someone else, but I will be disappointed. and what do i do about my friends? I don't want to tell them, just because they'll try harder, and only few guys like that. I'm just kindof... stuck atm. anything is appreciated c:

[Felicidae]

So... I have a really big crush on this one girl who's a grade higer then me, and we're really good friends. And one day as a joke, we were like "oh haha, we're married now, we're wives!" As a joke. And then... It sorta got to the point where we cuddle and stuff and people actually think we're together but we're not??? And she's dating someone else overseas so I just???? Aaaah??? I don't wanna ruin what they have bc last time she dated someone overseas they cheated on her so??? I'm scared I'd might pull the same thing with her???

And I also have a really big crush on another one of my friends, in the same grade as me, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me like that. Or even like girls... She says she's pan, like me, but I've never seen her date a girl or any other gender then boy so I'm getting this sneaking suspicion that she's just playing it up to get attention.

heLP THE LADY WITH THE LESBIAN CRUSHES IS CONFUSED???

[aceofspades]

My best guy friend I know has a thing for me. He shows it a lot. I met him in the beginning of the year through one of my friends. He always messes with me. Like he always sits behind me. He plays and pulls my hair, he kicks and pulls back my chair, and he always makes me embarrassed ( in a teasing way not like it makes me want to punch him). The thing is is that I am so.. I don't know how to explain it. I feel like sometimes I cant talk when I really want to it just comes out with some lisp and stutter. I know I like him. But I hate it when I start to have my lisp and stutter. especially around his friends. He wants me to go to his baseball games ( I play travel softball) and I feel bad because I never have time to with my schedule. Another problem is not my dad but my older cousin. He is super protective of me, since I'm the only girl in this gen. of the family. He lives near me to and he knows when I hide stuff from him. Idk I feel like its just gonna be that way. My cousin is like my brother to me, so he is not scared to do anything for me. He took my phone last time a guy did a little thing to me, he let him know who he was and basically let him have it.

[eff]

ok so, I'm kindof confused and hopeful rn about a possible relationship, but I need some advice /,\

there's this guy named a. we only met a week ago, and he's in two or three of my classes. he's kindof cute, really nice, and he's got a decent sense of humor. all in all, I think he's pretty awesome, and id like to get to know him more. a moved next to me in one of my classes, and his friend already teased us about going to homecoming together. he was talking to my brother the other day, and I have no idea what about, but he glanced over at me. also, after my practice was done, me and a friend of mine [friend 3] walked out of the gym, and she heard someone say, "my friend likes you." I have two classes with a on Monday, so hopefully I can talk to him more ;w;

the problem is, two of my other friends like him. one of them is boy crazy, and scoped out like three guys on orientation day. the other one is kindof boy crazy, and has liked 3 guys in the past year. [she's also really moody about stuff, but she's okay] friend 1 thinks that he likes her, because he kept looking at her and turning around to talk to her. she wears quite a bit of makeup, talks a whole lot, and is very boy crazy. the thing is, the same situation happened last year, where she desperately liked a guy, and he ended liking me. friend 2 was veryyy obvious about it, as she read something aloud in class, then he was like "what?" and she read it in a calmer, quiter, and tried to look 'cooler'. she also said something about liking him to me over a group chat, so I'm kindof stuck. I like him, and I haven't told anyone, just because I don't usually. he's really cute, and I can imagine us together because we are both atheltic, and have similar intrests. so, my main question is, what do I do? I won't be depressed or out of it if he does end up liking someone else, but I will be disappointed. and what do i do about my friends? I don't want to tell them, just because they'll try harder, and only few guys like that. I'm just kindof... stuck atm. anything is appreciated c:

if you met him a week ago, i'd suggest let things go the way nature wants them to. he has three options on girls, and it's important for you not to shove that onto him and make him feel enforced to go out with a certain girl. he sounds like he really likes you, and sharing interests is a good start - but sometimes, a boys signals could just mean a friendship in creation.
as you met him a week ago, i suggest you do let nature take its way. one week isn't enough to get to know someone enough to feel like you're ready to commit to them. letting nature take its path, you'll get to know him better before considering going out with them. having a friendship first will help him understand you (girls are such hard creatures lel), and he may think of you as he already has a friendship with you.
overall, don't let your crushes take over your friendships. your friends might understand, but due to them all liking one boy, problems could occur. some of my friends once crushed on the same boy, and due to them all knowing they wouldn't forgive the one to date him, everyone of them decided they wouldn't crush on him anymore - and the friendship remained fairly solid. do what you think is best, i haven't met him and don't know who he is, but do as what you think would be natural



So... I have a really big crush on this one girl who's a grade higer then me, and we're really good friends. And one day as a joke, we were like "oh haha, we're married now, we're wives!" As a joke. And then... It sorta got to the point where we cuddle and stuff and people actually think we're together but we're not??? And she's dating someone else overseas so I just???? Aaaah??? I don't wanna ruin what they have bc last time she dated someone overseas they cheated on her so??? I'm scared I'd might pull the same thing with her???

And I also have a really big crush on another one of my friends, in the same grade as me, but I'm pretty sure she doesn't like me like that. Or even like girls... She says she's pan, like me, but I've never seen her date a girl or any other gender then boy so I'm getting this sneaking suspicion that she's just playing it up to get attention.

heLP THE LADY WITH THE LESBIAN CRUSHES IS CONFUSED???



sounds like a hassle! haha. this crush of yours, is already dating someone. in that case, it's best to keep everything friendly, and not so flirty. it's the girls choice to end the fling with her current partner, so by being flirty, you may confuse her and make her feel forced to end what she currently ends with her partner, or make her feel as if she already is cheating, even if it's not.
if your other friend is pansexual, then you might consider that she is just waiting for the right person. or, she is too shy to talk to this person, as she has never done it before. as she has only dated boys, there is a good chance she feels uncomfortable talking to girls in that way.



My best guy friend I know has a thing for me. He shows it a lot. I met him in the beginning of the year through one of my friends. He always messes with me. Like he always sits behind me. He plays and pulls my hair, he kicks and pulls back my chair, and he always makes me embarrassed ( in a teasing way not like it makes me want to punch him). The thing is is that I am so.. I don't know how to explain it. I feel like sometimes I cant talk when I really want to it just comes out with some lisp and stutter. I know I like him. But I hate it when I start to have my lisp and stutter. especially around his friends. He wants me to go to his baseball games ( I play travel softball) and I feel bad because I never have time to with my schedule. Another problem is not my dad but my older cousin. He is super protective of me, since I'm the only girl in this gen. of the family. He lives near me to and he knows when I hide stuff from him. Idk I feel like its just gonna be that way. My cousin is like my brother to me, so he is not scared to do anything for me. He took my phone last time a guy did a little thing to me, he let him know who he was and basically let him have it.



your cousin cares a lot for you - and that isn't anything to feel annoyed about, as annoying as it is. maybe just tell him to cool it off a bit as you are growing older and need to experience the world on your own for a bit. your cousin will always have your back. don't feel bad for having a busy schedule, it's very common, and he'll probably understand. you could always try clearing or shifting your schedule around to show him you care for him.

[Kainé]

Dont know who's read my previous posts but it turns out he did like me, and I liked him back..
He asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and I said yes.. I've never been so nervous or happy in my entire life.

[witchypuppy]

urgh i'm really anxious rn

so me and my ex are friends. lets call them L

here are the messages between me and L one night:
me: i was at wegmans today with my mom and i was bored so i tried to find cute girls that looked my age but no luck ;-; i cry
L: OH MY GOD I FOUND SO MANY CUTE GAY GIRLS MY AGE RANGE AT CAMPING
me: WHERE DID YOU GO I MUST KNOW
L: I DON'T KNOW
me: dammit GET ME A damn GIRLFRIEND NEXT TIME YOU GO CAMPING (i'm kidding please dont [insert laughing emoji])
L: I will
Me: no wait don't
me: i will be awkward as hell
L: I will
me: S t. O p
L:no i got asked out twice
L: TWICE IN ONE NIGHT
me: NICE
L: AND I WAS WEARING SWEAT PANTS AND A SWEAT SHIRT AND I HAD MESSY HAIR
L: I CAN HOOK YOU UP
me:i'm tempted to say yes but thinking about it makes me really anxious lol
and then the rest is us arguing about weather i am awkward or not.

here is the thing. im demi-romantic
i like to know a person before we date
i'm worried shes actually going to hook me up bc if they do i will scream
what do i do

[skunkiii]

i love my ex. I thought i moved on, but no..

i saw him the other day. he was walking and looked lonely, so instinctively, i ran outside to greet him so we chatted a bit, and oh my goodness, i didn't realize that i missed him so much..

now the problem is.. i don't know what to do. should i stop talking to him, should we only be friends?

[eff]

i love my ex. I thought i moved on, but no..

i saw him the other day. he was walking and looked lonely, so instinctively, i ran outside to greet him so we chatted a bit, and oh my goodness, i didn't realize that i missed him so much..

now the problem is.. i don't know what to do. should i stop talking to him, should we only be friends?

i think that bases from your experiences with someone. as far as i can tell,
a majority of people still love there ex, and the long term they were with
them for is what they remember - not the reason why they broke up in the
first place. my experiences won't match yours as far as i am reading. i
would say just be friends.
do you or your ex currently have a partner? it may be that they aren't treating
you the same as what your previous partner did, hence you missing the small
things that they did. the small feelings would gather and your thoughts are
planting this seed of all the tiny things you loved about him - then you really
miss him.
if you don't have a partner, then you might be just missing the latest person
that did the things you would do in a romantic relationship. however, since
you are saying that you missed him individually, you probably are missing
him as a person due to your relationship being so close at one time.
like i said, this all bases from the experiences you had that had caused the
break up. i can't make the choice of you only being friends, but maybe if
you are, you'll lower that missing urge, and realise that you just want to be
friends.



urgh i'm really anxious rn

so me and my ex are friends. lets call them L

here are the messages between me and L one night:
me: i was at wegmans today with my mom and i was bored so i tried to find cute girls that looked my age but no luck ;-; i cry
L: OH MY GOD I FOUND SO MANY CUTE GAY GIRLS MY AGE RANGE AT CAMPING
me: WHERE DID YOU GO I MUST KNOW
L: I DON'T KNOW
me: dammit GET ME A damn GIRLFRIEND NEXT TIME YOU GO CAMPING (i'm kidding please dont [insert laughing emoji])
L: I will
Me: no wait don't
me: i will be awkward as hell
L: I will
me: S t. O p
L:no i got asked out twice
L: TWICE IN ONE NIGHT
me: NICE
L: AND I WAS WEARING SWEAT PANTS AND A SWEAT SHIRT AND I HAD MESSY HAIR
L: I CAN HOOK YOU UP
me:i'm tempted to say yes but thinking about it makes me really anxious lol
and then the rest is us arguing about weather i am awkward or not.

here is the thing. im demi-romantic
i like to know a person before we date
i'm worried shes actually going to hook me up bc if they do i will scream
what do i do



he's probably just teasing, so i would personally just let it go.
if you are worried though, it's best speak to him and tell him
that you don't want a partner - just to be clear.



Dont know who's read my previous posts but it turns out he did like me, and I liked him back..
He asked me to be his girlfriend yesterday and I said yes.. I've never been so nervous or happy in my entire life.



aw! good luck in the relationship! well done x

[WastedSpace]

urgh i'm really anxious rn

so me and my ex are friends. lets call them L

here are the messages between me and L one night:
me: i was at wegmans today with my mom and i was bored so i tried to find cute girls that looked my age but no luck ;-; i cry
L: OH MY GOD I FOUND SO MANY CUTE GAY GIRLS MY AGE RANGE AT CAMPING
me: WHERE DID YOU GO I MUST KNOW
L: I DON'T KNOW
me: dammit GET ME A damn GIRLFRIEND NEXT TIME YOU GO CAMPING (i'm kidding please dont [insert laughing emoji])
L: I will
Me: no wait don't
me: i will be awkward as hell
L: I will
me: S t. O p
L:no i got asked out twice
L: TWICE IN ONE NIGHT
me: NICE
L: AND I WAS WEARING SWEAT PANTS AND A SWEAT SHIRT AND I HAD MESSY HAIR
L: I CAN HOOK YOU UP
me:i'm tempted to say yes but thinking about it makes me really anxious lol
and then the rest is us arguing about weather i am awkward or not.

here is the thing. im demi-romantic
i like to know a person before we date
i'm worried shes actually going to hook me up bc if they do i will scream
what do i do

It sounds like she's just teasing you to me, but if you're really worried, then get serious. Send her an honest text about how you're feeling.

[ĸιndle]

i might be sick to my stomach. a guy(who apparently just sucked up the courage to ask me out) has been texting me and just now told me what he'd like to "do to me". i told him i felt like that wasn't something i should be doing, especially with someone i don't really know, and i feel like he's going to take it personally. maybe he should. that's messed up.

why are there so many guys in my life?? :l

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