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[ghostie✞]

so I'm kind in need of some advice..

a few months back I gave my crush a note that said I liked them (probably wasn't the best idea) and I've been kind of lost ever since. not too long ago, we used to hang out often, but we necessarily never talked (because my rude "friend" decided they would flirt with them in my face, the whole time). so basically my crush is a complete stranger now, however, we used to be pretty close a few years ago. I don't really know what to do next, I'm really socially awkward so I literally cannot talk to them without making a fool of myself. so if anyone can give me some tips, that would be really helpful and feel free to pm me or something

[arabella !!]

so I'm kind in need of some advice..

a few months back I gave my crush a note that said I liked them (probably wasn't the best idea) and I've been kind of lost ever since. not too long ago, we used to hang out often, but we necessarily never talked (because my rude "friend" decided they would flirt with them in my face, the whole time). so basically my crush is a complete stranger now, however, we used to be pretty close a few years ago. I don't really know what to do next, I'm really socially awkward so I literally cannot talk to them without making a fool of myself. so if anyone can give me some tips, that would be really helpful and feel free to pm me or something

If you want to communicate with them, the best thing to do is talk to them. We all get embarrassed sometimes, but if you want them to notice you then you should just talk to your crush. You can always give them a note too, but I'm sure you can start off saying "we used to hang out a few years ago", or something along those lines. Good luck!

[Rising]

so I'm kind in need of some advice..

a few months back I gave my crush a note that said I liked them (probably wasn't the best idea) and I've been kind of lost ever since. not too long ago, we used to hang out often, but we necessarily never talked (because my rude "friend" decided they would flirt with them in my face, the whole time). so basically my crush is a complete stranger now, however, we used to be pretty close a few years ago. I don't really know what to do next, I'm really socially awkward so I literally cannot talk to them without making a fool of myself. so if anyone can give me some tips, that would be really helpful and feel free to pm me or something

If you want to communicate with them, the best thing to do is talk to them. We all get embarrassed sometimes, but if you want them to notice you then you should just talk to your crush. You can always give them a note too, but I'm sure you can start off saying "we used to hang out a few years ago", or something along those lines. Good luck!

I agree and as for what you should actually say, tell them that you understand if they don't like you back in that way. Then say that you don't want to lose your friendship alltogether and you're prepared to move on from seeing them as a crush and just take it back to how it used to be.
I'm not an expert though so get a second opinion please.

[♛sʜᴀʏ♛]

So, I have a crush on this boy from the school near mine, literally right across from mine. My best friend and another friend of mine like him, and his sister is at the same school as me and we do football together. So, HELP! And, I treat him like a friend.

Oh, and I forgot to say, My friend kissed him at the last disco and asked me to ask him if he liked her and he said not really he just kissed her and then I started saying, 'Well, let's see if I can find you someone.' And named people and he said no to every single one, so I have a feeling he likes me and a boy 1 year younger than me said I should kiss him and before my Best friend liked him she would send him snap chats saying I liked him, but I didn't at this point so it got awkward. But, we have started to get closer after my friend (the one who kissed him) asked me to snap chat him to see what he thought of her and it started from there... So, could he like me? Is it a possibility?

[WastedSpace]

So I recently got a girlfriend (yay me!) and I LOOOVE her, but one thing, we don't talk much. Basically, since we're a lesbian couple in a generally homophobic environment and rumours have already went around, we can't hang out much in case we raise suspicion, and we talk over facebook sometimes, but it's always a little awkward and one-sided.

We also went to the movies and attempted to go see Suicide Squad, but we weren't allowed in, so we went to see the BFG but I lost my ticket and we had to get a reprint - it was REALLY awkward after that and we barely spoke.

TL;DR - Things are a bit awkward with my girlfriend after failing to see a movie and me losing my ticket, and we can't hang out much during school and I suck at conversations, so I need conversation advice.

Wow, I'm so sorry. That sounds rough. :<

Have you tried facetime, video chatting, or snap chat to talk with each other? Maybe it will be better/seem more natural if you're seeing her face rather than just typing/texting.
As for what to talk about, what are you interested in? Talk about that. Share it with her. Be interested when she does the same thing.

[Alpen]

I'm gonna go see him for my birthday next year, and hopefully the northern lights toooooo since it's just a few hours drive from where he is u v u.

[eff]

So, I have this girlfriend who I've been dating for a while now, were almost at our year anniversary. But now, her best friend, who is also a guy, has asked her out and she's mad at me for falling asleep during a movie we were watching. I'm sort of scared to lose her. Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't really know what to do now, since she's mad at me and she has a chance to be with someone else. Should I even worry about it?

If she leaves you because she got mad at you once, it doesn't sound like a very stable relationship.

Has she said she wants to leave you? Did she hide the fact that this friend asked her out? Did she tell this friend yes or maybe or even that she'd think about it? Is she using you - she just wants to be in a relationship no matter with who? Tbh, I'm not sure why this is something you're worried about.

I'm worried because they are extremely close. My girlfriend is basically all I've got, since I lost my ex girlfriend a year ago. She dumped me for a guy, which broke my heart, so I'm scared to lose her, too. She said he asked her out, and when I asked her if she was going to, she looked at the ground and didn't say anything. When I tried to question her, she brought more things up, which made me mad. Finally, she convinced me to watch the movie and I fell asleep because I had barely slept the previous night. So that's the story behind that, and why I'm worried about it.

as a tomboy, I know that I can date one boy ans hang out with his best mate, without it being weird or fishy.

A part of relationships is trust, and you should trust her, but also know that you are amazing, and that if you doubt her for being untrustworthy, you get it sorted.

You should talk to her about things and get to know her best friend. Invite him round for meals and such.

If you are worried tell her. Anxiety in a relationship doesn't work out. Trust someone with experience.

[JustDucky]

While i couldnt see my bf he started hanging out with this other chick. He told me a friend of his asked him to walk with his girlfriend to make sure she is safe. I asked his friend and he said there is nothing going on with them, because people have been asking me if we had broke up because they seen him with her. My aunt said they were calling her his girlfriend at his moms. He told me he wouldnt hurt me and he wouldnt cheat. I met her today when i seen him, and now she has some other boyfriend. Should I be worried? I do trust him, but i have been cheated on before and i cant help but wonder.

[WastedSpace]

While i couldnt see my bf he started hanging out with this other chick. He told me a friend of his asked him to walk with his girlfriend to make sure she is safe. I asked his friend and he said there is nothing going on with them, because people have been asking me if we had broke up because they seen him with her. My aunt said they were calling her his girlfriend at his moms. He told me he wouldnt hurt me and he wouldnt cheat. I met her today when i seen him, and now she has some other boyfriend. Should I be worried? I do trust him, but i have been cheated on before and i cant help but wonder.

I think that's something you're going to have to decide on your own. I do suggest opening up to him about how you feel. Be honest about that you trust him but that you've been cheated on in the past, so the situation is causing you some doubt. Talk to him and see how he feels and how you feel. Then make a decision. Can you trust him and let it go? Or is it something that's going to keep bothering you? Because if this is something that keeps bothering you, it is going to inevitably impact your relationship. So open up and talk to your boyfriend. =)

None of us were there, so we can't give any advice on if he was cheating or not. I will say that it could be hard to trust others' words here. (Your boyfriend's friend might lie for him but on the other hand what your aunt say may have been joking and teasing that meant nothing.) So I would trust how you feel. You've been cheated on before, so you probably know some of the warning signs if someone is cheating on you and/or lying about it. So trust that - trust you and what you know.

[J-Hope]

So I'm going to try & sum this up without writing a whole essay aaaa :>
So basically, this cute boy that didn't go to my school started flirting with me back in May & I fell for him pretty hard.
He showered me in compliments like how I was pretty & beautiful & all that cheesy stuff. But then things went
downhill & he basically just left me in the dark & got back together with his ex without even telling me. My life
took a sudden turn & I found myself crying about my weight & looks. It took me about 3 months to get over him
& realize how much he had wronged me.

A few weeks ago, he had broken up with his ex & he basically came running back. I tried to ignore him at first but
I finally opened up to him when he had apologized. So etc etc we went out on a date & everything just clicked, I mean
we're both loud & we make each other laugh easily. The only problem is; he likes to leave me on read & close up on me.
Idk how to explain it, but hes the type of guy who only likes a girl if they're "pretty or skinny." I know its very bad & that
he's a very bad guy for thinking that way, but I just can't seem to get over him. I'm also getting this feeling that he only
wants me for my physical appearance, since he doesn't seem to care about how I feel at all. I'm very afraid to introduce
him to my friends bc they're all prettier than me.
Now, I'm finding myself back at that low point in my life where I'm crying bc I hate everything about me. I can't even
stand to look at a mirror anymore, I'm just so disgusted by myself. This toxic thought that everything would be so much
easier if I were prettier has come back & I'm not strong enough to fight it anymore. Some people find me cute & pretty,
but I honestly don't see it anymore. My appearance is rather rough, & I wish I looked like those cutesy adorable girls.

To sum it up, he messages a lot of girls, & although I'm not the type to be overprotective or get jealous, (I'm actually v
chill since i have a lot of guy friends) he seems to be flirting with them also, & he likes to ignore me for days & come
back when he feels like it. I don't want to be annoying, so I don't spam or double text. Even if I do, he'll probably just leave
me on read. I just know on the inside that when he starts college, he's gonna find someone prettier &
better than me.

I'm made up of flaws, & I'm afraid he'll leave once he realizes one of them. I know that I really do need to drop him out
of my life, but I can't seem to get rid of my feelings for him. I'm also very afraid that he's the best I'll ever get, since the
other people that have confessed to me basically treated me the same. I just need advice to get over him, since I seem
to have trouble with that. Maybe I should confront him? Or should I just ignore him? I know that I can't let him hurt me
like this any longer. There's a lot of details I have left out,
but he's not a horrible person either. He showers me in compliments at times & just makes me feel very loved at times,
but right now, I just feel worthless. The even bigger problem is that I can't push him out of my life no matter how
hard I try. I always hand my happiness to him & he always drops it.