TheComfortCorner | V.7

[marmoris]

can someone send me a pm? i just need to vent a bit.

[crucifying.]

why did i let myself think of this
listening to this song reminds me of him
the nights i'd stay at his house and it'd be rainy and cold and we'd sit up talking all night
4 months. it's not real.
it hurts so awful. every day.
you missed my birthday.
why did this happen to you?

[sillies]

So I'm really panicking, my ex, who tore me apart mentally, is calling me over and over.

I threw my phone so I could calm down but why is he calling me ???

He destroyed me !! What could he possibly want from me now ???

I'm just --

I can't --
Not now --



edit:

it's fine
im fine
its okay
im okay

this is all just a nightmare
ill wake up

... right??

[Spearow]

Woo just can’t breathe. I’m trying not to have another panic attack. I’m just feeling really anxious, and I’m not sure why but there isn’t always a reason. Just, todays been stressful. Though I got my insurance working again and got my medication, now I have a doctor appointment on Friday and I’m really nervous about it. I’m so tired of appointments all the time.

I’m okay without a pm, I just needed to talk to someone. Even if its just on a public forum.

[popping star]

Mmm, I'm just tired and stressed.
I'm sick of medical tests, and I'm not looking forward to the next ones I need to do.
I don't want to worry my friends either, haha.

[Vixem]

I fractured my ulna

It’s hurts like heck

[cribunni]

When your crush and really good friend breaks up with his girlfriend, gets another one the next week, then starts flirting (or just being friendly honestly idkkk) with his ex again.. hehhhah..
the first crush I have in 3 years and it’s someone who gets a lot of attention from other girls rip

Anyway~ I wanted everybody to know that they can pm me if they need to! I’m always here c:

[fika.]

i dont want to be sad again.

it's okay to feel sad! i think hiding away from emotions can just heighten them, but there are always ways to prevent it. for every little thing you do, accomplishment is needed to help keep you motivated. made a cup of tea? that's great! do things you love; where your favourite top out and take pictures of nature. stay hydrated and keep healthy. jogging is apparently meant to help?? haven't tried it (i'm too lazy) but if you're into exercises that's worth a shot! good luck <3

not in a great mental place right now. its hard battling with your own mind every single day.

i know it's hard boo :{ but you're so strong for surviving each day and not giving up. as i said to eden, accomplishments are needed for every small thing you to do help you see it's worthwhile and you can make it through the battle.
a lot of people in this community are here for you, and i am sure people are off-screen too. good luck <3

I feel unloved

in what way? we as a community care about you so much, and you're wanted to us. the person that sees you everyday loves and cares for you, i'm sure of it. it may not feel like it, but we all love and care for you so so much and i know it is hard to remind yourself of that but you're here for a reason. we love you. and you are enough.

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to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above

to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above

to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.

facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things

i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/

i am very very sorry to those i haven't replied to, i tried to reply to as many people as possible before college. i have also copied and pasted a few replies that i made for others a few days ago as it is all similar related topics. hope that's okay<3

[crucifying.]

spent all night crying about my best friend who recently passed away, and one of my male friends that i've known for a few years noticed i was upset and called to check on me, noticed i was sobbing and asked if i wanted to talk about it. i started talking about some really heavy stuff and expressing my views on things and he started crying, like full on bawling on the phone, and i just felt.. awful. my intentions weren't to make him upset too. he ended up falling asleep on the phone while i talked and i feel awful. i don't like people seeing that side of me, i'm generally very closed off when it comes to emotions irl so it's unusual for me to cry on the phone.

[sillies]

how do y'all recover from mental breakdowns?