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[Roadhog]

I'm really upset as I have to go to the orthodontist and so my mom is being kinda mean to me about it- like just because I thought I was getting braces (since I am most likely going to get the expanders or spacers first u.u) and I told her and she got mad

and I am really nervous- could someone who has gotten expanders maybe chat/relieve me??

[northy.]

just stressed/upset i guess


so for a few weeks now i've been doing online school since i can't attend a normal public school due to my heart condition.
since i started i've only been doing tuesday and wednesdays lessons, science and art. we "broke up" the week before christmas and today was my first day back online. it did go well but at the end of the lesson i had to stick around because the teacher was gonna call my mum. when she did call i get told i have to do monday, tuesday and wednesdays lessons. i've never been in mondays (english) class before and i know this is way too much for me to take on right now since i'm just going to end up falling asleep, handing in stuff late and being stressed in general.

plus it only leaves 2 days of free time for me to relax/hang out with my best friend. i can't start this presentation thats supposed to be in soon. i don't remember what we're supposed to be doing either i just aaahhhhh.

i just need a hug i guess? i'm just so stressed, my health isn't great at all right now

and for the record i have memory loss.

I think that whatever you're doing you're strong to power on with it! If its making you feel uncomfortable though, just say so, I'm sure they won't mind and if they do, then tell them what you've said here, because its not worth you getting stressed.

[Bingpuppy]

Thank you for the reply blink 182! You seem so nice, and i'll be sure to PM you if I ever need more virtual hugs <3 :3

[groenii]

I want to thank everyone here who replied.
Even though I submitted the essay yesterday I already got my grade (fast o.o)
I passed!
It was the minimum grade I needed to get. Close call but I'm really relieved. Thank you!

Also people, don't feel sorry for having problems.
Just because you're not starving, very ill or in a warzone does not mean your problems are those of whiny people.
Your problems are real as so are your feelings. It doesn’t matter what it is, if you need comfort you need it.
You are all amazing people and I'm so very sorry that you feel sad. No-one should have to go through something like that. Take care lovelies! You are stronger than you think! You can do this!

[fika.]

just stressed/upset i guess


so for a few weeks now i've been doing online school since i can't attend a normal public school due to my heart condition.
since i started i've only been doing tuesday and wednesdays lessons, science and art. we "broke up" the week before christmas and today was my first day back online. it did go well but at the end of the lesson i had to stick around because the teacher was gonna call my mum. when she did call i get told i have to do monday, tuesday and wednesdays lessons. i've never been in mondays (english) class before and i know this is way too much for me to take on right now since i'm just going to end up falling asleep, handing in stuff late and being stressed in general.

plus it only leaves 2 days of free time for me to relax/hang out with my best friend. i can't start this presentation thats supposed to be in soon. i don't remember what we're supposed to be doing either i just aaahhhhh.

i just need a hug i guess? i'm just so stressed, my health isn't great at all right now

and for the record i have memory loss.

it's okay!
are you able to message the teacher to explain this?
work thirty minutes to an hour on the presentation, and take a small break,
then repeat. also make sure you reward yourself to encourage
your brain and yourself to study and work.
at least you have thursday and friday off still, right?
i'm sure you're doing amazing, and i'm positive
your presentation will be out of this world.
good luck <3
(ps. i'm very proud of you^^)

I'm really upset as I have to go to the orthodontist and so my mom is being kinda mean to me about it- like just because I thought I was getting braces (since I am most likely going to get the expanders or spacers first u.u) and I told her and she got mad

and I am really nervous- could someone who has gotten expanders maybe chat/relieve me??

i've never had them, so i can't help you out there but
i'm sure you'll be fine!
it's your teeth anyway, why is she so mad about it? ;v;
it's for the better, too!
just think, your teeth will have the best outcome
and you'll love them
good luck <3

@Bingpuppy

omg thank you!! my inbox (as i stated) is always open <3

[shim]

I just really miss my dog.
She left for a 3 week training school on the 2nd and it feels weird without her. I hate walking into my living room and not seeing her. Not watching TV with her, not drawing with her resting on my leg. Not going for walks with her. The trainer posted a few videos of her, saying how she's a great dog. But even in a certified dog trainers hands I get scared for what might happen. I'm so worried she might accidentally hurt another dog or the trainer, or have a seizure and accidentally hurt herself (she has minor epilepsy). I just feel so bad for my dog. Being passed around 5 homes including my own, I hope she doesn't think shes permanently living there, or that she did something wrong. I dont know. I just really miss her I suppose. This is only day 3, I hope she does well, and that this worried feeling leaves.

[fika.]

I just really miss my dog.
She left for a 3 week training school on the 2nd and it feels weird without her. I hate walking into my living room and not seeing her. Not watching TV with her, not drawing with her resting on my leg. Not going for walks with her. The trainer posted a few videos of her, saying how she's a great dog. But even in a certified dog trainers hands I get scared for what might happen. I'm so worried she might accidentally hurt another dog or the trainer, or have a seizure and accidentally hurt herself (she has minor epilepsy). I just feel so bad for my dog. Being passed around 5 homes including my own, I hope she doesn't think shes permanently living there, or that she did something wrong. I dont know. I just really miss her I suppose. This is only day 3, I hope she does well, and that this worried feeling leaves.

heyy,
you'll be okay!
it's a bit of a struggle at first,
but if she looks happy there i'm sure she's doing fine!
if she hurts herself, the trainer will
take her to the vets and should contact you straight away.
you should ask for pictures/updates everyday to help
you c:.
you're a lovely owner and i'm sure she'll be happy to be back!
try and spoil her rotten with toys and treats
good luck getting through these next few weeks <3

[incarnate]

Just stressed and kind of down today..

Last February I was in the middle of getting my Nursing degree when my spine literally gave out on me one weekend and I woke up unable to walk or even sit up on my own. Found out I had spinal stenosis, scoliosis, degenerative disc disease, and five herniated discs in my lower back. Had to go for emergency surgery and Nursing school was over for me. I thought my dreams of becoming a nurse where over for me then and there.. I mean.. There's even this joke that goes: What do you call a nurse with a bad back? Unemployed.

But I really fought hard to come back after the surgery and get back into school.. And, surprisingly enough, I made it and I've been physically cleared to enter back into the Nursing program. I start back on Monday.
I guess I'm just terrified that my spine won't hold out for me. My neurosurgeon wasn't exactly optimistic with my outlook. He'd never seen a spine that looked that bad in someone who was my age. He told me I was going to need many more surgeries over my lifetime. He wanted to talk to me about the possibility about going on disability.. But I'm young! I just can't.. I need to live a life worth living..

I'm just scared because I want so badly to make it through this program and get into this career that I've been dreaming of for years now. And It's been a year and I'm already tired of dealing with this chronic pain that's going to follow me for the rest of my life. I feel life I've dealt with this okay so far but right now I just feel the weight of it.. Of how unfair it all is.. And I know life is unfair. I know it..

And it doesn't help that the person I would normally talk to about this stuff is deployed overseas right now. He's been gone four months so there's also the worrying about him that's consistently on my mind. Where he is I can't contact him to even know if he's okay.. That's messing with me.

Sorry.. That's a lot longer than I planned it to be..
TL;DR: I'm just a bit of a mess at the moment. But I'll get through it.

you know what i say?
live your life!
so many times someone has proved doctors wrong abot
their health, and there was this one girl who had half her brain removed.
look at this video.
most inspiring and motivational thing i've ever seen if i'm honest.
but go easy!
go slow, take your time.
i am sure people will understand why you're moving slowly or not bending down,
it puts your health at risk.
i honestly hope you don't have to go through loads of surgeries,
no one deserves that.
i hope your back heals as quick as possible.
i am proud of you <3

Thank you for your kind words <3

[Montgomery Gator]

I don't want to go to school again. All they do is humiliate me. and hurt me.

[Ara.]

I don't want to go to school again. All they do is humiliate me. and hurt me.

Yeah, I know that feel. Went through it for a really long time.
But it really does get better. As you grow up people grow into themselves more, and so will you. Skin thickens and it becomes less of a bullet. And as you go on you'll find people that share similarities with yourself, and you'll form bonds. Real ones.
Once you get out of public school and have the freedom to choose your own way, you can make them go away. For now, just stay strong and don't let them see you, they don't deserve to. Just focus on your studies and know your future is bright.