Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[Picanco]

@Kimmy: Just talk to him. :3 The worst that can happen is that you realize you don't like him and then you can leave him in the dust! Never waste your precious time on someone that doesn't deserve you. If you talk and you guys hit it off, then age doesn't matter. The only weird part may be if you're under 18 and he's over. At the same time though, it may be fine.

[-Firesong-]

Well, I just found out A's new girlfriend (who seriously is a wannabe-slut) is going to give him a kiss for his birthday tomorrow. Don't really know how to deal with this or what to do, A's I know it won't end well for A, his girlfriend, or me. It's obvious he's only going out with her for her looks, and I honestly feel bad for her. Any advice on what to do?

He's trying to make you jealous. When me and my boyfriend broke up, he started hanging around girls similar to the one you described. The best thing you can do here is just ignore A. He's doing it to make you jealous, and if it's getting to you, don't show it. Just try to act like you don't care. If he's like my boyfriend is, he'll come to his senses and come back.

[Official-Enjolras]

I got back together with my ex

[dizzy hurricane.]

Sam - my best friend's crush's nickname. And no, his name is not Samuel or anything. d:
Brunee - my crush, who's super cute<33
H - my best guyfriend, he's always there for me <3
F - my best friend for epochs and on. <3

In class today, the desks were grouped in groups of three for a group activity we were to do. As I always do, I put my book in the chair next to me so that H would be able to sit next to me. And then, because Sam and him are friends, I saved Sam a seat too. Well, Sam and H got to class at about the same time, and I was disappointed when H passed up my desk I had saved for him. As if they'd talked about it, Sam sits down in the one next to me, and H on the other side of him. Recently Sam and I have been doing partner work together and sitting next to each other [or close] at lunch. It really unnerves me, because F has a very well-known crush on him. So, he sat next to me and tried to crack jokes and be funny. I couldn't help but laugh, although with the stress of trying not to it probably sounded weird. I ... I can't.
On our way to lunch, he always says "Save me a seat!" while he goes and gets his food.
In our last period class, he also sits next to me, but not exactly by choice - but it is his choice to talk to me. He talks to me - and blushes?! - and again tries to make me laugh.

Oh, what do I do?! I can't betray F!

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And Brunee. He was wearing another tight-fitting shirt today, and I couldn't help stare. He's amazing and funny and talkative and cute. <3 I can't stop liking him, but he's a year older than me and only in one class with me. I see him in the hall every day on the way to my first period class, and I can't help but hurry my walk while I think hurry, you'll be able to see Brunee! Hurry! He's always cutest when he has his locker open talking about cross country to his friends! Hurry!! And I always see him. And I always blush and run into my classroom like a child afraid of the dark. D:
I'm too bashful, but too outgoing. Sometimes, I'm too shy to talk to boys [in this case]; other times, with my old crush and now best guyfriend H, I'm way too friendly. After a while with H we were such friends that it'd be like going out with a brother. D:

[nikilynn12]

Hi ok SOOOO we have been in school for like hmm ten days now and there is this guy that sits in front of me in English He is really cute (well to me anyway although my friend laughed at me lol) well we had only ever really talked once, and today we had to pass up papers and i had set it on his shoulder because he hadnt grabbed them and he laughed and said "your names "Insert name here" right? and i was like yeah and he said it was an awesome name and gave me this REALLY cute smile and then he kept turning his head back and kind of glancing at me. And then he kind of kept up with me in the hallway and was talking to me and then i turned a different way, but the point is..... (thats my point) lol although i am not that pretty (in my opinion) so i am not sure what he thinks of me lol what should i do? oh and i am not assertive in anyway so going up and saying anything like that is not wanted as advise lol thanks

[Cirque]

Elly - My best friend [she's in my history and P.E. class]
D - My guyfriend that I really, really like [he sits next to me in my enlgish and science classes]
B - This guy I have a crush on [he's in my P.E. class]
R - My old crush, who I'm [mostly] over [he's in none of my classes, but I pass him on my way to classes]
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So, today in P.E., we had to do redlaps [which is basically just running two miles around our grass field], and after we ran, we had to sit on the curb by the volleyball courts. Well, I sat down with Elly and we were just talking and stuff, when I saw B and his friend heading over to the curb. I saw him glance at me and say to his friend, "Let's sit over there." and then he sat down right next to me. We've never actually talked to each other, but I always catch him staring at me, and last week, my P.E. class did weight room, and everytime we passed each other in the weight room, he brushed against me.
Now, R and I have a very complicated history between us, and now it's pretty awkward whenever we're around each other, even though we've never actually talked to each other [yeah, it's a long story]. Well, a few weeks ago, I tried to get over him because I didn't see any reason to like him anymore, and I successfully stopped liking him. On the other hand, I often see him staring at me. Whenever Elly and I go to cafeteria to buy snacks or lunch or something, either R is in there and he sort of moves over by us once he sees me, or after Elly and I get to the cafeteria, R goes to the cafeteria. Or if Elly and I go to the cafeteria, R and his friends move towards the doors to the cafeteria, so that when Elly and I walk out, R is right there. Recently, I've been running into R a lot more often than I'd like to. Yesterday, while Elly and I were walking to History, I almost ran straight into him. Normally, when we pass eachother when I'm walking to history, he goes to the left and I go to the right. Well, yesterday, he went to the right. I had just been talking to Elly, and then I looked up, saw R, and had to dodge him. I'm not sure why he went to the right, seeing how his next class is on the left, but either way, it was weird. I'm scared that he'll start liking me, since I don't like him.

With D, I'm not sure whther he likes me or not. In science and english, he talks to me and all, and he's always trying to show off when I'm around, but I'm not sure. A couple weeks ago, I had to go home early before my first class even started because my side was hurting so badly I almost passed out, but Elly didn't know I had gone home. I would've had science before break, so Elly asked D where I was since he would've seen me in science if I had been there. According to her, D looked away sadly and mumbled "Not here." when she asked him. And she also said that he looked sad all day and wasn't really talking to anyone. Which is exactly what I do when the guy I like isn't at school. Elly thinks he likes me, since she apparently sees him staring at me.

[kimmy1479]

Hi ok SOOOO we have been in school for like hmm ten days now and there is this guy that sits in front of me in English He is really cute (well to me anyway although my friend laughed at me lol) well we had only ever really talked once, and today we had to pass up papers and i had set it on his shoulder because he hadnt grabbed them and he laughed and said "your names "Insert name here" right? and i was like yeah and he said it was an awesome name and gave me this REALLY cute smile and then he kept turning his head back and kind of glancing at me. And then he kind of kept up with me in the hallway and was talking to me and then i turned a different way, but the point is..... (thats my point) lol although i am not that pretty (in my opinion) so i am not sure what he thinks of me lol what should i do? oh and i am not assertive in anyway so going up and saying anything like that is not wanted as advise lol thanks

Haha! Why don't you think your pretty? I used to kinda think that, and then I found out 3 people had a crush on me. I was like Yousaywhatnow?!?! And when I did that my friend was like, "Why are you surprised?" And I was like, "Because I'm not all that attracive. Plus I can't pronounce the letter R!" I really can't. Example- Bored and bird sound the same when I speak.Then she said, "Are you kidding me?! Your like 85 pounds, have long hair, you are hilarious and buetiful!" Again, Then we kinda got into a half arguement me saying that she was lying, and her saying she wasn't. But after that, I never had low self esteem. I mean, I'm not like, "I'm so pretty! Who couldn't love me?" but I don't think of myelf of ugly or anything anymore. My advice is don't look down on yourself. Whether this particular guy likes you or not, don't think that your not pretty, or aren't good at anything. Be proud of who you are!

[spaceferrari]

Haha! Why don't you think your pretty? I used to kinda think that, and then I found out 3 people had a crush on me. I was like Yousaywhatnow?!?! And when I did that my friend was like, "Why are you surprised?" And I was like, "Because I'm not all that attracive. Plus I can't pronounce the letter R!" I really can't. Example- Bored and bird sound the same when I speak.Then she said, "Are you kidding me?! Your like 85 pounds, have long hair, you are hilarious and buetiful!" Again, Then we kinda got into a half arguement me saying that she was lying, and her saying she wasn't. But after that, I never had low self esteem. I mean, I'm not like, "I'm so pretty! Who couldn't love me?" but I don't think of myelf of ugly or anything anymore. My advice is don't look down on yourself. Whether this particular guy likes you or not, don't think that your not pretty, or aren't good at anything. Be proud of who you are!

I'm kind of the same way, I've never considered myself any good looking, at all, but Wednesday when I dressed up for picture day Glasses told me I looked beautiful. I still don't totally believe him, but it was an amazing feeling. C:
Anyway yes, you're correct- just because someone you think is attractive doesn't feel the same about you doesn't mean you're not good-looking too. People are just attracted to different things in others. It might be their hair, or the way they smile, or how they can finish each other's thoughts.

[Linsang]

Turns out M really has a sweet side. I was in a bad mood and kinda...snapped at him today. For the rest of the day, I was embarrasingly rude to him. I realised how bad I was, so at the end of the day (our lockers are right near each-others) I went up to and apoligised to him. He smiled and said he understood, and that we all have days like that. We even chatted a little, mainly about environmental club. It felt really good. I just wish he liked me back. >.< I mean, I don't know that he doesn't but I'm pretty sure of it.
But still, people are more easygoing here. I'm thinking he'll forgive me if he finds out. Which he won't.

[Official-Enjolras]

Hi ok SOOOO we have been in school for like hmm ten days now and there is this guy that sits in front of me in English He is really cute (well to me anyway although my friend laughed at me lol) well we had only ever really talked once, and today we had to pass up papers and i had set it on his shoulder because he hadnt grabbed them and he laughed and said "your names "Insert name here" right? and i was like yeah and he said it was an awesome name and gave me this REALLY cute smile and then he kept turning his head back and kind of glancing at me. And then he kind of kept up with me in the hallway and was talking to me and then i turned a different way, but the point is..... (thats my point) lol although i am not that pretty (in my opinion) so i am not sure what he thinks of me lol what should i do? oh and i am not assertive in anyway so going up and saying anything like that is not wanted as advise lol thanks

Haha! Why don't you think your pretty? I used to kinda think that, and then I found out 3 people had a crush on me. I was like Yousaywhatnow?!?! And when I did that my friend was like, "Why are you surprised?" And I was like, "Because I'm not all that attracive. Plus I can't pronounce the letter R!" I really can't. Example- Bored and bird sound the same when I speak.Then she said, "Are you kidding me?! Your like 85 pounds, have long hair, you are hilarious and buetiful!" Again, Then we kinda got into a half arguement me saying that she was lying, and her saying she wasn't. But after that, I never had low self esteem. I mean, I'm not like, "I'm so pretty! Who couldn't love me?" but I don't think of myelf of ugly or anything anymore. My advice is don't look down on yourself. Whether this particular guy likes you or not, don't think that your not pretty, or aren't good at anything. Be proud of who you are!

Haha I thought I was just plain and my mom told me a I was beautiful, I never thought about it like that until I was eye candy for every guy in every class -_- its like that guy that slipped me the note telling me I was pretty.
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