Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V4

[Pulsefire]

Um im not sure if this counts towards this thread (if not I will delete.)

So Im female and I have these two friends (both guys.) And this one girl is really making me uncomfortable by trying to subtlely get them to treat her like a princess, I have been trying to have quality time with them but I only see them at church and she is always there, is there any tip to surviving things like this. Also asking for their number would be awkward.

Try not to have it come to be a competition, as she may be jealous of the relationship you have with the guys. Dont alter how you treat them, just be yourself and stay true to that. You will do great

[pizzas and scream]

Grr, how do I tell if I have a crush on someone? Because, I've never had one in my entire life (and I'm **, but I think I might like one of my best friends? I think? It's just a feeling I get, it's not like my heart starts beating fast around him and I don't blush like, ever, but I still get the feeling that I wanna be more than friends with him...

wow such frustrate -///-"

I think it is when you cannot think of anyone or anything else, and the yearning is more than wanting food or sleep and it has emotional pain and fear of rejection and what they think of you to the point of shyness and feeling if anxiety to confess

[ohdeer]

Somebody might recognize me and my problem, but I need help again.

I've been secretly liking a guy for quite a while but there's another girl in my class who flirts with him and everything. Long story short, it's killing me. I can't find the guts to tell him how I feel because I'm positive he sees me nothing more than a cool classmate. It'd be pretty embarrassing if I already know that my confession will only make things awkward between us. That other girl's cuter and seems more "fun" to talk to than I am. I honestly feel miserable and this issue is destroying my self-esteem.

So, um. You guys know how to get over someone quick and as painless as possible? I can't find a way to contain jealousy.

[EclipticChaos]

Nope, sorry. Even I'm still working on my first one. And that was a year ago.

[Bluemare40]

Somebody might recognize me and my problem, but I need help again.

I've been secretly liking a guy for quite a while but there's another girl in my class who flirts with him and everything. Long story short, it's killing me. I can't find the guts to tell him how I feel because I'm positive he sees me nothing more than a cool classmate. It'd be pretty embarrassing if I already know that my confession will only make things awkward between us. That other girl's cuter and seems more "fun" to talk to than I am. I honestly feel miserable and this issue is destroying my self-esteem.

So, um. You guys know how to get over someone quick and as painless as possible? I can't find a way to contain jealousy.

Hmmm... this is a tough situation. I've actually been through this before (Two of my crushes liked the same girl, and she was actually really mean and annoying XD)
But yeah, what I did was that I just moved on, and started liking someone else! I know that it seems really hard, and it is. If you want you can talk to him and maybe try to flirt with him (if you're feeling brave!) Or you can just try to forget about him. But what I found out is that you can't make someone like you, so the best thing you can do is to just be yourself and move on if things don't work out! (Also, this may not be the best solution for you, as everyone is different, but this is what I did.) I wish you the best of luck! If you need any more support you can PM me or just reply on this forum!

[claws990p]

how do i explain to my parents the person i love is 3 yrs older then me and we both love each other ...why do they say were to young for love?

[kotalicious]

So I've had many crushes before, but this one is different. We used to go to school together, but I moved four years ago. We barely spoke in school and when we did it was usually very unpleasant. He was rude and continually bullied me and my friends. He friended me on Facebook a few months ago and we started talking. He apologized for all the mean things he had done and so did I. I gave him my number and we became friends quickly, but then I started to actually have feelings for him. A few days after I realized my feelings he told me about his. I told him mine as well, but we aren't dating. We are starting to hang out again to get to know each other more. I hung out with him for the first time on Halloween. We just walked around by his house and talked about our lives. It was simple but really nice. When he dropped me off at home he asked to hug me. It took me by surprise because no one had ever asked for a hug before. They usually just go for it. I found it really sweet and gentlemen like. I agreed and we hugged. It was a quick hug but it left me weak in the knees. No one has ever been able to effect me in such a way before. We talk almost every night, mostly on snapchat or texting. Tonight we were having a normal conversation and I asked him what he was doing. He replied with "watching tv and thinking about you." It made me smile, blush, and get butterflies in my stomach, something that's never happened to me before. I always thought I would hate the feeling of being in love. I've seen couples fighting constantly, ruining others lives with it and I never wanted to go through that. Now that I think I'm in love I like it. I love the feeling of my stomach twisting in knots at the thought of him. I love the weak feeling I get in my knees when I see him. it's such a strange yet wonderful feeling and I hope everyone gets to experience it once in their lives.

[Bluemare40]

So I've had many crushes before, but this one is different. We used to go to school together, but I moved four years ago. We barely spoke in school and when we did it was usually very unpleasant. He was rude and continually bullied me and my friends. He friended me on Facebook a few months ago and we started talking. He apologized for all the mean things he had done and so did I. I gave him my number and we became friends quickly, but then I started to actually have feelings for him. A few days after I realized my feelings he told me about his. I told him mine as well, but we aren't dating. We are starting to hang out again to get to know each other more. I hung out with him for the first time on Halloween. We just walked around by his house and talked about our lives. It was simple but really nice. When he dropped me off at home he asked to hug me. It took me by surprise because no one had ever asked for a hug before. They usually just go for it. I found it really sweet and gentlemen like. I agreed and we hugged. It was a quick hug but it left me weak in the knees. No one has ever been able to effect me in such a way before. We talk almost every night, mostly on snapchat or texting. Tonight we were having a normal conversation and I asked him what he was doing. He replied with "watching tv and thinking about you." It made me smile, blush, and get butterflies in my stomach, something that's never happened to me before. I always thought I would hate the feeling of being in love. I've seen couples fighting constantly, ruining others lives with it and I never wanted to go through that. Now that I think I'm in love I like it. I love the feeling of my stomach twisting in knots at the thought of him. I love the weak feeling I get in my knees when I see him. it's such a strange yet wonderful feeling and I hope everyone gets to experience it once in their lives.

Awwww, that is such a sweet story!!! You sound so happy ^^
You know, when a guy bullies a girl, they usually like them? Yeah, guys are so strange sometimes!
But seriously though, that is so cute!!! I hope you guys remain happy together! (Hope I can find something like that too one day hehe .)

[Nekko.bat ♥]

I've had the strangest, most confusing friendship for the last few months. My best friend treats me like a sister, or at least he did....sometimes he'll brag about the girls he's been hooking up with or flirting with, and sometimes he'll flirt with me and hint that he wants to be with me, but then he gets all upset and put off when I mention an ex or someone who flirted with me that day or something. He's kinda different every day, sometimes he'll change within the hour. It's a painful cycle of butterflies in my stomach and crashing glass in my heart when he talks about other girls.
This evening, about an hour or so ago, he told me I mean more than anything to him and he can't stop thinking about me. He called me babe o.o He kissed my nose. Gawsh, what in the world is even happening? Bleck. I'm so confused and just ugh.

[Smoogiepie]

I feel like I'm gonna be alone forever. Why's it so hard to find someone I can relate with.