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[starry palms]

☁ I know this is really really small
but I told one of my friends to use they/them
pronouns when referring to me and she tagged me
on Instagram and said she and then I corrected her and
I really on't want to bother her and she said she'd
try to remember but she didn't even edit the post
and I know I shouldn't be so emotional about this
but I'm on the verge of tears.

its not stupid or small that you got emotional about this
being misgendered can be a really uncomfortable experience
if you gently remind her or ask her to edit it, im sure she will
sometimes ppl who dont understand pronouns dont understand how affected someone is when they dont use the correct ones

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could i get a pm ??
its not that serious its just about bad sleep patterns and how to break them haha
its just a huge ramble that i dont wanna clog the thread with
thank you <3

[Lyren]

I think I'm becoming someone I don't want to be. Too many lies. They think I'm someone else. But stepping out of act means fights and that feels worse. But I don't wanna be emo, I don't want to be a rebel, I don't want to be loud, I don't want to be extremely violent, I don't wanna swear. I wanna be me again. The shy kid who liked animals and drawing. I liked being shy but my new self is far from shy. But people say I'm happier and they like me better. But I hate me. But who I was got so much hate. Who I was would make me loose all my friends. I doubt I matter to them anyways. No one like me is near me. At my school it's jocks, popular kids and the emos. Those are your 3 basic groups. Now of course they're divided into levels like extreme, somewhat and mild but no on seems to like what I like, I get teased for it a lot. I just want to know of a way to hide until I'm in college. I want to know how to survive.

surviving isn't fun. have you got a friend group?
try and slide in with one that makes you comfortable. i've recently
joined a new school and i never thought i would find any friends;
i'm always angry and my music taste is apparently "ugly" (imo, 5sos and
my chemical romance are just babe) but i found this amazing friend group.
they're so nice and friendly and sweet, they've helped change me from my old
self. if you find a new and healthier friend group, being around them can sometimes
change who you are as a person and make you better. (:

Yes, I do have a group but I often feel like the one who doesn't belong. I hope I end up in a group like that.

[[If people are encouraging you to be someone you aren't, then they aren't really your friends. Once you figure out who you are and what you like, and stick with it, you'll be a lot happier. You might not always find someone who likes or understands what you're interested in at first, but once you become friends with someone and start talking to them about your interests, they'll understand more, and might even become interested in what you like. I like a lot of strange stuff and, though my friends might not share my interests, they're more than willing to listen to me talk about what I like and one of them even keeps up with the characters in my favorite shows.
Schools do often seem to be divided up into groups, but there are always outsiders and ones who don't always fit into a group. I'm one of them, so are my friends, and we're perfectly fine with things the way they are. You don't have to be in one group or another. It doesn't make you a rebel, it just makes you different, and different's not a bad thing.]]

It's more than friends, guidance counselors, family friends, relatives, enemies. I already know what I like but people laugh at me for them. As an outsider I mean no friend group though. Although I do fall into the no category catagory. Different isn't a bad thingy though. (Unless it's a different than the answer sheet on a test)

[Shiny Sylveon]

My dog's limp is getting really bad, and we can't afford a vet...we've tried giving her Aspirin, but it's not working. Stretching and running works a little, but not for long...she can barely get on the couch. Nick used to do that too, but he was 16, and my current dog Rusty is 6. I worry for her, as she used to be so healthy...I can't stand to see her in pain, and I bet it's her bones or muscles. I bet it's my fault too, we're always rough, and she's been through a lot. I can't risk losing another one right now, as it will probably break me.

Also, my dad says both cancer and arthritis run in her family...screw me, I can't stand this, if only my dad had a job! If he had a job, we'd be able to take her to the vet, and possibly get her surgery or better medication!

[[deleted user 39490]]

My dog's limp is getting really bad, and we can't afford a vet...we've tried giving her Aspirin, but it's not working. Stretching and running works a little, but not for long...she can barely get on the couch. Nick used to do that too, but he was 16, and my current dog Rusty is 6. I worry for her, as she used to be so healthy...I can't stand to see her in pain, and I bet it's her bones or muscles. I bet it's my fault too, we're always rough, and she's been through a lot. I can't risk losing another one right now, as it will probably break me.

Also, my dad says both cancer and arthritis run in her family...screw me, I can't stand this, if only my dad had a job! If he had a job, we'd be able to take her to the vet, and possibly get her surgery or better medication!

I'm so sorry to hear this about your dog. It can be really tough knowing that your animal is in pain. I had a pug named Max who had arthritis from an early age, and that may be what she has. Don't worry though, it's not as bad as it sounds. Daily exercise seems to help, and walking seems to be the best. It helps to work the muscles in the leg and loosen them. It doesn't affect the life span of the dog either, if that's what you're worrying about. My pug lived to the age of 14 years old.

Don't take this as a definite though. She may have just pulled it or hurt it playing around. It happens sometimes.

I really hope that it turns out well for you, and I'm sorry to hear about your father. If you ever want to rant or talk, my PM box is open.

[gone,]

My dog's limp is getting really bad, and we can't afford a vet...we've tried giving her Aspirin, but it's not working. Stretching and running works a little, but not for long...she can barely get on the couch. Nick used to do that too, but he was 16, and my current dog Rusty is 6. I worry for her, as she used to be so healthy...I can't stand to see her in pain, and I bet it's her bones or muscles. I bet it's my fault too, we're always rough, and she's been through a lot. I can't risk losing another one right now, as it will probably break me.

Also, my dad says both cancer and arthritis run in her family...screw me, I can't stand this, if only my dad had a job! If he had a job, we'd be able to take her to the vet, and possibly get her surgery or better medication!

It's ok. My dog had the same problem, my uncless dog would nip at his leg and he tore his ACL, but it pops up about once every six months. I would just let your dog eat something he/she likes, like bologna or cheese. But, put some aspirins in it and wrap it up. Just remember that dogs don't live forever, I still have my first and only dog, he is around 6 now, my is going to live to about 10, so I'm scared.

[danny fenton]

PM me, please?

[Shiny Sylveon]

My dog's limp is getting really bad, and we can't afford a vet...we've tried giving her Aspirin, but it's not working. Stretching and running works a little, but not for long...she can barely get on the couch. Nick used to do that too, but he was 16, and my current dog Rusty is 6. I worry for her, as she used to be so healthy...I can't stand to see her in pain, and I bet it's her bones or muscles. I bet it's my fault too, we're always rough, and she's been through a lot. I can't risk losing another one right now, as it will probably break me.

Also, my dad says both cancer and arthritis run in her family...screw me, I can't stand this, if only my dad had a job! If he had a job, we'd be able to take her to the vet, and possibly get her surgery or better medication!

I'm so sorry to hear this about your dog. It can be really tough knowing that your animal is in pain. I had a pug named Max who had arthritis from an early age, and that may be what she has. Don't worry though, it's not as bad as it sounds. Daily exercise seems to help, and walking seems to be the best. It helps to work the muscles in the leg and loosen them. It doesn't affect the life span of the dog either, if that's what you're worrying about. My pug lived to the age of 14 years old.

Don't take this as a definite though. She may have just pulled it or hurt it playing around. It happens sometimes.

I really hope that it turns out well for you, and I'm sorry to hear about your father. If you ever want to rant or talk, my PM box is open.

Thanks, the only reason I'm worried is that over the past week, she can barely put weight on it, as she holds her leg up a lot. Walking, playing, and running only work for a little bit.

It's ok. My dog had the same problem, my uncless dog would nip at his leg and he tore his ACL, but it pops up about once every six months. I would just let your dog eat something he/she likes, like bologna or cheese. But, put some aspirins in it and wrap it up. Just remember that dogs don't live forever, I still have my first and only dog, he is around 6 now, my is going to live to about 10, so I'm scared.

Aspirin does not help at all. All it does is wear her out, which makes her limp worse. Unfortunately, her limp has been going for a while now...so I just don't know.

[ghost queen.]

tbh im done. im done trying. im done with people leaving me. im done being ignored. im done being scared. i just want to leave. that's all i want to do. i want people to miss me, i want people to wonder why i haven't texted back. i want everything to flip so im not the one getting hurt in the end.

['Danny']

I ruin everything with my mouth.
Why can't I just keep it shut for once?

[shim]

Could i get a pm?
Someone whos okay with sexuality issues and such, please.