| TheComfortCorner | v.5

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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby My Immortal » Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:53 pm

So, basically, I'm back at stage one. I'm being forced to make new friends because I'm basically not allowed or unable to talk to my old ones. I miss my old friends like crazy... And I suck at making new friends. Even on here
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby snowflake ;; » Sun Nov 22, 2015 3:59 pm

My Immortal wrote:So, basically, I'm back at stage one. I'm being forced to make new friends because I'm basically not allowed or unable to talk to my old ones. I miss my old friends like crazy... And I suck at making new friends. Even on here


oh, I'm sorry, that happened to me a few times. the major time was when I had
lost all my childhood friends because my mom moved me to a new school for
education, and I had the hardest time socially there >n< I really missed all my old
friends, and I wasn't the best at making new ones either. try to find out who
hasn't settled down in with a small group of friends yet, or maybe find a group
that has similar interests as you. I made my first new friend at my new school
by saying hi to her c: I had another group of friends before, but my mother banned
me from contacting one of them when because her mother was my summer camp
counsellor.
sorry if I read your situation wrong, but just so you know, if you'd like I'll try my best
to be your friend if you ever need to talk or whatever <3


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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby arcticwolf » Sun Nov 22, 2015 5:17 pm

I'm losing him. I'm losing him for the second time and there's nothing I can do about it.
My best friend, my only friend, my one and only love.
He doesn't want me anymore.
I've tried so hard and it just has never been enough.

I know him better than just about anyone and he could say the same for me. It's why this hurts me so much. I took it upon myself to confront him in person last week (because otherwise he still wouldn't have saw me) and he said "I don't know why I've been ignoring you. There's no reason why but I know it's wrong and I'm sorry. I promise it won't happen anymore." He knew how bad he's been hurting me. He comforted me while I cried from the emotional pain.

...He lied. It didn't stop. He's gone back to ignoring me.

It hurts so much to watch someone drift away from you. To watch as they slowly start to care less and less until one day they just disappear completely no matter how tightly you hold on to them. I gave him everything I had- everything, and he destroyed me.

I'm broken.

Two and a half years we've been together. For two and a half years I've been familiar with the color of his eyes, the taste of his lips and the smell of his clothes. His embrace is the safest and most familiar place on Earth but he doesn't want me anymore. We were supposed to move into our own apartment in the fall. We were even talking about marriage and starting a family together some day. We were serious about this, and now all of a sudden, he's not.

He's not just my love, he's my only friend- the only person I actually see and talk to that's not my mom. We've been friends for four years. I don't know why he stopped caring or why he started doing this. I don't know anything anymore except that I'm hurt beyond belief that he's doing this to me.

I can feel the depression taking over me again and it's terrifying. I can't escape it. My emotions alternate between waves of extreme sadness and feeling like my heart is empty. I'm so lonely and hurt. I can't handle this and the meds aren't helping no matter how many they give me. I just want to give up.
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Postby AmnesiaUndead » Sun Nov 22, 2015 9:25 pm

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pm please? <3
I'm so tired. I'm done of acting. If you don't like me go. I honestly don't care.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Ygritte » Sun Nov 22, 2015 9:54 pm

    my friends are all turning on me because i'm always such a pessimist omg omggggg guess i'm gonna go back to having zero friends instead of the large number of two!
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby The Fifth Spirit » Mon Nov 23, 2015 2:14 am

ecliptic wrote:
    my friends are all turning on me because i'm always such a pessimist omg omggggg guess i'm gonna go back to having zero friends instead of the large number of two!


Yay, a fellow pessimist! Greetings!
I know it's sometimes hard to keep friends when you have a bleak outlook on life. You just need to find some people who either appreciate the humor that comes from being pessimistic, or who don't care and accept you for who you are. If they can't stand you because of your pessimism, perhaps they're not worth hanging out.


arcticwolf wrote:I'm losing him. I'm losing him for the second time and there's nothing I can do about it.
My best friend, my only friend, my one and only love.
He doesn't want me anymore.
I've tried so hard and it just has never been enough.

I know him better than just about anyone and he could say the same for me. It's why this hurts me so much. I took it upon myself to confront him in person last week (because otherwise he still wouldn't have saw me) and he said "I don't know why I've been ignoring you. There's no reason why but I know it's wrong and I'm sorry. I promise it won't happen anymore." He knew how bad he's been hurting me. He comforted me while I cried from the emotional pain.

...He lied. It didn't stop. He's gone back to ignoring me.

It hurts so much to watch someone drift away from you. To watch as they slowly start to care less and less until one day they just disappear completely no matter how tightly you hold on to them. I gave him everything I had- everything, and he destroyed me.

I'm broken.

Two and a half years we've been together. For two and a half years I've been familiar with the color of his eyes, the taste of his lips and the smell of his clothes. His embrace is the safest and most familiar place on Earth but he doesn't want me anymore. We were supposed to move into our own apartment in the fall. We were even talking about marriage and starting a family together some day. We were serious about this, and now all of a sudden, he's not.

He's not just my love, he's my only friend- the only person I actually see and talk to that's not my mom. We've been friends for four years. I don't know why he stopped caring or why he started doing this. I don't know anything anymore except that I'm hurt beyond belief that he's doing this to me.

I can feel the depression taking over me again and it's terrifying. I can't escape it. My emotions alternate between waves of extreme sadness and feeling like my heart is empty. I'm so lonely and hurt. I can't handle this and the meds aren't helping no matter how many they give me. I just want to give up.


Maybe your friend is experiencing similar emotions that you are, but from different causes. You have to remember that even your closest confidant may not want to share everything with you, even if you never kept any secrets previously. He may be ignoring you because there is another person or event in his life that is consuming his mind in a negative way. You need to give it time, and if it persists, approach him and ask if he is struggling through something. He may simply not like you anymore, but considering the relationship that you two had, it seems more likely that some catastrophic event is eating away at his mind.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby Jazz Never Dies » Mon Nov 23, 2015 3:27 am

someone that cares please PM me. I don't want to make my troubles public anymore...
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby hoofbeat » Mon Nov 23, 2015 4:02 am

Pming ^^
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby sp4cep00ch » Mon Nov 23, 2015 4:54 am

feeling really uncomfortable in my body again. When will this feeling end.
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Re: | TheComfortCorner | v.5

Postby arabella !! » Mon Nov 23, 2015 4:55 am

sp4cep00ch wrote:feeling really uncomfortable in my body again. When will this feeling end.

aw, i'm sorry that you're feeling this way. :c just be confident about your body. <3
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