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[Julia]

my grandma prefers my brother over me and she doesn't even seem to really care about me at all
it hurts
she said she would do something for my birthday and she never did..
but when my brother asked for a bunch of presents for his birthday, she bought everything he asked for
she sent him a text asking what he wanted for Christmas
she hasn't said anything to me
she already bought him a bike and a hundred dollar pair of headphones
and a phone
and everything he's asked for
I know I'm pathetic for crying over this
it still hurts

There are no excuses, but please try to find out the reasons behind her behaviour. I would try to talk to your mother or father, ask if they had any difficulties in their childhood regarding gender. There is something going wrong, but I can feel that this has nothing to do with you, but more with the fact that you are a girl (if you are a girl?). Is he your stepbrother? It's almost impossible that her behavious is something against you as a person, I couldn't imagine why (unless you have hurt her in the past). For how long has she been like that? etc, Try to reflect on that, otherwise it will chase you a life time. It also doesn't matter whether you are teen or adult. You cannot force her to love you, but the only thing you can do, is try to understand why. Again, you won't find any excuses, but maybe some explanations.

I think asking your grandmother about her reasons won't help. She has never reflected her behaviour on that. At least it seems to me like that

[troye]

my grandma prefers my brother over me and she doesn't even seem to really care about me at all
it hurts
she said she would do something for my birthday and she never did..
but when my brother asked for a bunch of presents for his birthday, she bought everything he asked for
she sent him a text asking what he wanted for Christmas
she hasn't said anything to me
she already bought him a bike and a hundred dollar pair of headphones
and a phone
and everything he's asked for
I know I'm pathetic for crying over this
it still hurts

There are no excuses, but please try to find out the reasons behind her behaviour. I would try to talk to your mother or father, ask if they had any difficulties in their childhood regarding gender. There is something going wrong, but I can feel that this has nothing to do with you, but more with the fact that you are a girl (if you are a girl?). Is he your stepbrother? It's almost impossible that her behavious is something against you as a person, I couldn't imagine why (unless you have hurt her in the past). For how long has she been like that? etc, Try to reflect on that, otherwise it will chase you a life time. It also doesn't matter whether you are teen or adult. You cannot force her to love you, but the only thing you can do, is try to understand why. Again, you won't find any excuses, but maybe some explanations.

I think asking your grandmother about her reasons won't help. She has never reflected her behaviour on that. At least it seems to me like that

I am biologically female, and she seems to prefer the boys
I wonder if coming out to her would affect her view on my positively or negatively
everyone prefers him over me, though?? I'm the over-emotional one, and he's the smart and humorous one.
and he's not my step-brother. he's my only full biological sibling.

[xXFoxfaceToastXx]

I need someone with experience moving out or have got kicked out to PM me.
I got kicked out of my home for reasons I don't really understand and need advice on how to cope as well as move on, and what to do to survive. I'm staying at my dad's place which unfortunately has fleas that irritate my dog but we're safe for now. But please help, I need a plan to move forward, I don't want to get stuck or go back.

[radiantly]

well I guess that's why I always feel lonely, they always forget about me. Would they even notice if I left, felt sick or died? Probably not.

Please don't reply, if you feel you need to, please shoot me a pm or send me a message on tumblr. Thanks.

[Montgomery Gator]

Dont you just love it when everyone copys your art?

[shim]

My hamster died last night.

[AmnesiaUndead]

i would love a pm please, anyone?

[skunkiii]

Can I get a pm? I kinda need to vent.. And I'm like so sad that I'm crying. I never cry..

[ଳ omori ଳ]

my biological mom has alcohol isssues
its 7pm ona sunday night and she's flat-out pissed
she grabbed me really hard and keeps shouiting
what do i do

[Lincoln]

Todays my birthday.
My mom hasn't noticed.
My friends haven't noticed.
Nobody cares.
I have strep throat.
I'm being a whiney brat.
Nobody cares about me.
Yes, I do have some friends...
..but only here on cs.
I'm afraid that one of them is mad at me,
and I love her and need to talk to her.
I might as well go sit in a closet for the rest of the year.
Also, someone pmed me and told me that I was wasting my time posting on here.