Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends

[-Firesong-]

*starts to hupervenalte* My crush asked me out

Congrats!! c:

So Buggy asked me out today. Again. I said yes. Again. This is what.. the third time we've dated? I really like him, and I know he really likes me, but sometimes I'm not sure about it all. He's been my first real relationship, and my first kiss. Counting all the times we've dated, it's been on and off since April, it's been almost five months. I'll cut to the chase: I suck at relationships. I never know what to say, or what to do. Ever. So I wind up not saying anything. I also have a really hard time showing emotion and letitng people in. And that's a bit of what a relationship is about. I don't want things with us to end again, but then again, I do want to stop being a "freezer." (That's what they call relationship fails at our school.) Any help?

[InTheDepths]

Me: "Hey... I was wondering if you liked me, or even if there was the slightest chance that you may in the future, or will you just be my epic saxophone buddy forever? :D"

Z: "There's a strong possibility in the future :) But you know there's other girls I like, so I don't know what's gonna happen ya know? But I'll be your epic saxophone buddy no matter what! :D"

That was two days ago, and I still don't know what to think of it :/ I copied everything verbatim.

[Prussia]

I just told A not bother finding out if B likes anyone and not to put in a good word for me. It's a waste of time anyways. Yesterday just pretty much ruined everything.

Do you all think it would have been better if I had just said "Hey" in the message to B?

[InTheDepths]

*starts to hupervenalte* My crush asked me out

Congrats!! c:

So Buggy asked me out today. Again. I said yes. Again. This is what.. the third time we've dated? I really like him, and I know he really likes me, but sometimes I'm not sure about it all. He's been my first real relationship, and my first kiss. Counting all the times we've dated, it's been on and off since April, it's been almost five months. I'll cut to the chase: I suck at relationships. I never know what to say, or what to do. Ever. So I wind up not saying anything. I also have a really hard time showing emotion and letitng people in. And that's a bit of what a relationship is about. I don't want things with us to end again, but then again, I do want to stop being a "freezer." (That's what they call relationship fails at our school.) Any help?

Try telling him little things that go through your head. Random stupid stuff, like how the toaster scared the crap outta you when it popped out your toast or something. That should help with letting out your feelings, that's what I did (:

And it probably would have gone better Prussia, but don't give up yet!

[-Firesong-]

*starts to hupervenalte* My crush asked me out

Congrats!! c:

So Buggy asked me out today. Again. I said yes. Again. This is what.. the third time we've dated? I really like him, and I know he really likes me, but sometimes I'm not sure about it all. He's been my first real relationship, and my first kiss. Counting all the times we've dated, it's been on and off since April, it's been almost five months. I'll cut to the chase: I suck at relationships. I never know what to say, or what to do. Ever. So I wind up not saying anything. I also have a really hard time showing emotion and letitng people in. And that's a bit of what a relationship is about. I don't want things with us to end again, but then again, I do want to stop being a "freezer." (That's what they call relationship fails at our school.) Any help?

Try telling him little things that go through your head. Random stupid stuff, like how the toaster scared the crap outta you when it popped out your toast or something. That should help with letting out your feelings, that's what I did (:

And it probably would have gone better Prussia, but don't give up yet!

M'kay. I'll try that. Just my problem here is, whenever I'm around, or he puts his arm around me or something..I literally can't think. Anyways, thank you, and I'll try doing that.

[InTheDepths]

Your blank mind is just natural. It's sweet<3

Can I have some advice or an opinion or two on my subject, please? :3

[MissKiwiBird]

Blar garble is really all I can say right now :p
Theres this guy in some of my classes that I cant get over
The problem?
I'm the school nerd
He's the school jock :p
He's actually an amazing guy, not the jerk you'd expect him to be.
He's a great student, and from what I've heard, is very sweet and respectful towards girls
He hasn't had his first kiss, and neither have I.
To top it off, I'm not something you'd take a second glance at
I have dark hair with very little highlights, and the same kind of eyes, nothing compared to the blonde hair blue eyed cheerleaders that also have their eyes on him.
I don't know what to do.
He doesn't know I exist, and I'm afraid of approaching him
Any help?

Start with hey how you doing. It's hard to misinterpret a greeting. If he's polite and gracious to you, be the same to him. Smile when he looks at you- but don't try too hard. You don't want to look desperate.
I'm not really one for advice, but this is what worked for me. =P
Then again, Glasses and I are both big nerds that enjoy history and reading, so we have some common ground. I'm getting him used to country music and SciFi, he's getting me used to shooting and military stuff. It's a win-win.

Thanks Ill try to see if I am able to say :hi" tomorrow :3

[mukade]

Is it bad that I have a crush on one of my guyfriends? :\

[JamBlack]

Is it bad that I have a crush on one of my guyfriends? :\

Not really. Thats how me and Badger started out. Best friends for three year then . . yeah xD

[Pvnkky]

I have the amazing boyfriend in the world... to be honest i dont see what he sees in me... But i honestly dont beleive i could ever ask for anything more in a guy... He's funny and always cheers me up when im down... and not to mention he is utterly drop-dead gorgeous ... I am never bored when im with him as its always something new when he's around... He's also amazing on the guitar and has a AWESOME singing voice DD
Now im gonna stop there... before i start getting soppy...