Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V3

[ottoelvis]

ok so i really like this guy, but im pretty sure he thinks im a freak
he makes me do really weird things, like falling into a rubbish bin, dropping my lunch tray ect.
the most recent time he was wiping spaghetti off my face (it was my lunch), he said it was cute how im always so clumsy
so like what does this mean?
he also asked me to dance with him at the dance, right before i fell into the punch bowl...
god i sound stupid!
anyway can somebody help me get more courage to next time actually AVOID the rubbish bin?
thanx, and stay cool, ottoelvis xoxoxxx

[Acidic]

Everybody says that me and my crush 'suit'. Then they tell him to ask me out- and I never catch his response.
The more i hang about with him they all think we're dating.
I just don't know what to do next... Be patient or ask him out myself?

[ottoelvis]

maybe just slowly yet obviously hint to him that you like him, and he'll eventually say he likes you back

then there will probably be an awkward silence, so say something like (if he hasn't already said it) so u wanna hang out saturday night?

it will all go from there!

good luck!

[Nellas]

OKay i'm really REALLY nevous.

Okay so i finally plucked up some courage and gave my crush my phone number. So i'm waiting for a text, but i know i have to be pactaint because he sprained one of his arms and can only use one. (When ever i'm around him he asks me to do stuff for him. {Zip up his book bag, help him with his lunch tray, carry some small books... ect.} ) So how long should i wait, but how long is too long! Grrrr.... Please help.

All you have to do is text him saying, "Hello, So-and-so, this is So-and-so" And just wait for him to respond after that. I think you'll find, once you start a conversation, it's not so nerve wracking.
But make sure that you spend time with him in real life as well, and not just over text.

do it soon! (sry im not 1 of the ppl to answer this kinda stuff...) but the faster the closer u 2 will get!

This is not always true, and this applies to everyone. There's a happy medium- don't take it slow as molasses, but you don't want to be kissing on your first date, you know what I mean? Love takes time, infatuation, trust, friendship... all of which only grows if you give it time. If it's going to happen, it's going to happen, but don't take it too fast or you'll suffer the consequences later.

[-Firesong-]

do it soon! (sry im not 1 of the ppl to answer this kinda stuff...) but the faster the closer u 2 will get!

This is not always true, and this applies to everyone. There's a happy medium- don't take it slow as molasses, but you don't want to be kissing on your first date, you know what I mean? Love takes time, infatuation, trust, friendship... all of which only grows if you give it time. If it's going to happen, it's going to happen, but don't take it too fast or you'll suffer the consequences later.

I agree with Nellas. The faster you go... the more likely it is that you will break up because the relationship will only be a physical one. You guys will barely know each other, even if you were friends beforehand. Actually taking the time to get to know the person will pay off in the end.

[Scarlett Redd]

I think this guy might like me...
I've watched the videos, and they've helped and confused me.
I'm too nervous to ask him out though, yet too impatient too see if he asks me.
Help??

[ephemeral.light]

I think this guy might like me...
I've watched the videos, and they've helped and confused me.
I'm too nervous to ask him out though, yet too impatient too see if he asks me.
Help??

Hm. Have you talked with this guy? Talking may help you get to see if he likes you a little bit more. You could watch his reactions when you speak with him. It could also ease the both of you into the comfort zone and help you guys become friends.

[Kecko]

I got to go with my crush and his family and mine to a concert tonight, I was sitting by him, it was really fun, he put his arm around my chair and my family member (who is usually mentioned when I post on here as I am always with him and my crush) and pulled our chairs closer to him. He also asked if I know how to dance, I don't and I told him that I never had, he then asked if I even knew how to slow dance, after he asked that he said I had a lot to learn, I kinda hope he will ask if I'd like him to teach me or if I'd like to dance, but I'd still like to know, has anyone had this happen before (or something like it) but it was really them just being friendly and not really "liking" you?

[Scarlett Redd]

I think this guy might like me...
I've watched the videos, and they've helped and confused me.
I'm too nervous to ask him out though, yet too impatient too see if he asks me.
Help??

Hm. Have you talked with this guy? Talking may help you get to see if he likes you a little bit more. You could watch his reactions when you speak with him. It could also ease the both of you into the comfort zone and help you guys become friends.

Yeah. I often hang around in his group of friends, as he's friends with one of my bestie's boyfriend, so I can fairly casually fit in. He smiles alot, how people's eyes smile, so they're really smiling.

[clarabow]

*sigh* There's this guy in my class that likes me a lot. He's always doing nice things for me like offering to move so I can sit beside my friends, helping me out on my work, letting me borrow his things and not getting upset when I lose them. That's a good thing, except for the many other things such as the fact he's got a bit of a nasty mind, he's irritating, he's super clingy - never giving my friends and I personal space - and very, very unattractive. /: I know he likes me, one of my guy friend's told me so, but I honestly hate his guts and I know for a fact that will never change. How do I tell him that? I mean, I tried being nice to him at first, then I tried ignoring him completely, and now I'm trying things like "go away," "I don't want you here," "you're so annoying," but none of it works. .-. What do I do to get this kind but total pest off my back?