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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby loonyloolaluna » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:05 pm

~Remini~ wrote:o-o Reading about all these girls that like older guys, I guess I'm not alone. x3 Fourteen and Sixteen just like everyone else too haha, so weird to know other people do as well.


EVERY ONE KNOWS HOW YOU FEEL!
Older guys are more matured. Therefore they're not laughing at things we would have laughed at, at the age of 10 -.- and they're just ... better.

I'M NOT ALOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONE ... in liking older guys >.>


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Glasses is three months younger than I am, so at the moment, I'm sixteen, but he's still fifteen.
Cougar? Probably not. But it still feels funny. X3


My x boyfriend was 13 while I was 14 ...
Didn't go well.
But no worries! It's actually healthy to have a bf younger than you. *If you know what I mean ;)*
My best friends bf is a year younger than her. They're really happy together.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby Pochica » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:21 pm

Hello ladies! I need to rant and need advice please and thank you. <3

Anyway, I have a boyfriend. Let's call him Piggy. He really likes me. He's said he's in love with me and we only have dated for a month and known each other for six months. He just really loves me no matter what. He's perfect and amazing, but the thing is I'm not sure if he's really my type. o.o He's about 7 months older than me, making him 17 earlier, but it's like he looks way younger than me. He's scrawny. He's way more sensitive and emotional than me. I don't know if I should just ignore it or not. Our situation of getting together was really tough and long and it's a major issue now. Not only do I have these girls hating, but we have just recently found out his best guy friend has a crush on him too! It feels like too much drama and I'm a busy girl with extracurricular events and all. It's getting hard and to the point where I don't want to hang out with him much. I love him, he's a great guy friend, but I'm not sure if I can be in a relationship where I feel almost nothing. Hey, maybe I'm just PMSing, but it's really bothering me since tomorrow he wants to come over and hang out for our one month. (Friday the 13th, great. xP) sigh. It's a little awkward, I don't even know what to do with him or where to go. Any ideas ladies and gentlemen? D:

Oh, and I've talked to my mother and grandmother about this and they always say, "We like him, he's a good clean cut guy, you'll learn to like him too." sigh, I wish it was that simple. </3
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby spaceferrari » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:28 pm

To be honest, I think Glasses and I are in that "mature for our age" group. Glasses is very polite and well-mannered while the rest of the guys in our grade run around acting like twelve-year olds. We do goof off plenty, of course, but, to put it simply, he isn't nearly as much of a douche as the rest of them.
Guess I just got lucky. X3
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby oikawa » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:32 pm

Argh! Guys are so immature at my school. >.<

I want a mature guy so bad. But guys dont realize that, do you? Sorry, boys, acting 5 does not make you appealing. >.>
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby loonyloolaluna » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:37 pm

Pochica wrote:
Hello ladies! I need to rant and need advice please and thank you. <3

Anyway, I have a boyfriend. Let's call him Piggy. He really likes me. He's said he's in love with me and we only have dated for a month and known each other for six months. He just really loves me no matter what. He's perfect and amazing, but the thing is I'm not sure if he's really my type. o.o He's about 7 months older than me, making him 17 earlier, but it's like he looks way younger than me. He's scrawny. He's way more sensitive and emotional than me. I don't know if I should just ignore it or not. Our situation of getting together was really tough and long and it's a major issue now. Not only do I have these girls hating, but we have just recently found out his best guy friend has a crush on him too! It feels like too much drama and I'm a busy girl with extracurricular events and all. It's getting hard and to the point where I don't want to hang out with him much. I love him, he's a great guy friend, but I'm not sure if I can be in a relationship where I feel almost nothing. Hey, maybe I'm just PMSing, but it's really bothering me since tomorrow he wants to come over and hang out for our one month. (Friday the 13th, great. xP) sigh. It's a little awkward, I don't even know what to do with him or where to go. Any ideas ladies and gentlemen? D:

Oh, and I've talked to my mother and grandmother about this and they always say, "We like him, he's a good clean cut guy, you'll learn to like him too." sigh, I wish it was that simple. </3


It's hard to just like a guy when I'm not that attracted to him either.
It's either: WOW you're a great friend
or: My god, please be my bf/gf

I'd say do what feels right
If it feels like whenever he opens his mouth, you get agitated, then you should probably dump him ...
It's really your decision if you want to dump him or not.
It took me a week to gather myself, and dump my ex. He was too childish.

Space Ferrari wrote:
To be honest, I think Glasses and I are in that "mature for our age" group. Glasses is very polite and well-mannered while the rest of the guys in our grade run around acting like twelve-year olds. We do goof off plenty, of course, but, to put it simply, he isn't nearly as much of a douche as the rest of them.
Guess I just got lucky. X3


He probably wants to impress you ;)
But lol, he sounds like a great bf! hope you two are happy. :D

Silverspirit wrote:Argh! Guys are so immature at my school. >.<

I want a mature guy so bad. But guys dont realize that, do you? Sorry, boys, acting 5 does not make you appealing. >.>


I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL
That's why I end up liking guys older than me v.v it doesn't give me much chance ... ad I've got my sights set too high ... but they're just more mature, which is way better than 3 year olds.
Again, I broke up with my ex, for this reason: Randomly shouting out. P!!!!!!$$ ! P!$$ in my @$$ ! 8@77$ ! Oh, %3$%!(@7$ !
He was funny the first 20 times ... then it got really old really quick.
But I recommend looking at guys. you don't look how he acts with his friends, but how he is when he's alone ... in a more public place ...
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby oikawa » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:44 pm

*~ҒƖЯЄƜѲЯƘ~* wrote:
Silverspirit wrote:Argh! Guys are so immature at my school. >.<

I want a mature guy so bad. But guys dont realize that, do you? Sorry, boys, acting 5 does not make you appealing. >.>


I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL
That's why I end up liking guys older than me v.v it doesn't give me much chance ... ad I've got my sights set too high ... but they're just more mature, which is way better than 3 year olds.
Again, I broke up with my ex, for this reason: Randomly shouting out. P!!!!!!$$ ! P!$$ in my @$$ ! 8@77$ ! Oh, %3$%!(@7$ !
He was funny the first 20 times ... then it got really old really quick.
But I recommend looking at guys. you don't look how he acts with his friends, but how he is when he's alone ... in a more public place ...


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I know. Its so annoying. I wish some guys would just man up and be strong instead of acting like d***s. -.- My expectations were raised to the limit when I read the Hunger Games, and the they crashed. Crashed and burned . o.e Okay, so maybe no guy will ever be as sweet as Peeta. But cant you try instead of acting like d*****bags?
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby loonyloolaluna » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:53 pm

Silverspirit wrote:
*~ҒƖЯЄƜѲЯƘ~* wrote:
Silverspirit wrote:Argh! Guys are so immature at my school. >.<

I want a mature guy so bad. But guys dont realize that, do you? Sorry, boys, acting 5 does not make you appealing. >.>


I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL
That's why I end up liking guys older than me v.v it doesn't give me much chance ... ad I've got my sights set too high ... but they're just more mature, which is way better than 3 year olds.
Again, I broke up with my ex, for this reason: Randomly shouting out. P!!!!!!$$ ! P!$$ in my @$$ ! 8@77$ ! Oh, %3$%!(@7$ !
He was funny the first 20 times ... then it got really old really quick.
But I recommend looking at guys. you don't look how he acts with his friends, but how he is when he's alone ... in a more public place ...


asdfghjkl;

I know. Its so annoying. I wish some guys would just man up and be strong instead of acting like d***s. -.- My expectations were raised to the limit when I read the Hunger Games, and the they crashed. Crashed and burned . o.e Okay, so maybe no guy will ever be as sweet as Peeta. But cant you try instead of acting like d*****bags?


A D0(#8@G is normally known as rude. Well, for me.
Are the boys rude to you? Or are they just a pack of raving lunatics?

*Aiedail* wrote:
So, there's this guy at my roller skating class who I think likes me. I might just be making it up, but he watches me a lot, gives me more attention than any of the other students, (He's a senior student so he's supposed to help the newbies, but he is right around my age) and congratulates me excessively on every minor accomplishment. He looks like a total nerd, which is actually my type, but I am more interested in somebody else. I don't know what to do. ;-; Please help.


Again, I know how you feel. I have this need that I think everybody likes me. And that I can't last over 2 weeks with out fancing somebody (this has been going on since year 2, I am now year 10 -.-')
For all you know, you might actually be really bad, and all you need is confidence
But if he does like you. Please, just watch the youtube links on the first page. The guys that looks like Tom and Daniels gay love child helps out alot.
Like. He might subconciously be getting closer, or looking you in the eye alot ... He'll talk to you about new stuff. If the convo is dead, he;ll try keep talking about it, reviving it. ANd he might touch you. Not in that way. Maybe like a hi-5 though, or a pat on the shoulder.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby oikawa » Fri Apr 13, 2012 12:58 pm

@*~ҒƖЯЄƜѲЯƘ~* : They are just perverted, and not nice at all. They are not kind, and dont help or anything. It makes me want to hit them on the head with a stick. why dont you realize that being perverted and running around, messing with girls does not make you interesting? To me, I guy that I could love has to be caring, a good listener, and kind.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby loonyloolaluna » Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:26 pm

Silverspirit wrote:@*~ҒƖЯЄƜѲЯƘ~* : They are just perverted, and not nice at all. They are not kind, and dont help or anything. It makes me want to hit them on the head with a stick. why dont you realize that being perverted and running around, messing with girls does not make you interesting? To me, I guy that I could love has to be caring, a good listener, and kind.


You did not say that they were perverted, in my defence.
Maybe ask a teacher if you could be moved to another class, or if that doesn't work, away from them, and sit with girls.
They guys in my class are just immature too -.- I actually dread going back to school on the 23 -.-'
But yeah, that's why I tend to like older guys. They're not that immature. Yeah, they still have some immaturity, but it's the same level as me.
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Re: Crushes, Boyfriends and Girlfriends | V2

Postby c h r i s t m a s » Fri Apr 13, 2012 1:37 pm

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<3 Narwhals <3 wrote:I want my crush to ask me out.... so bad.
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My and Z have been friemds for the whole year and I told him I have a crush on him and he didnt really care but him and this girl 'A' have gone out at least 5 times this year and I hate her so much. He can act like a jerk or he can be nice and sweet. We talk a lot and on friday when I was going home he finally said "Bye L!" And he was staring at me! I dont know though..... I wish we can be together so bad. D:

News-
Z was a jerk to me after talking to A... I fell like I love him but I want to completly hate him. I cant its to hard sometimes I fell like dieing because he makes me fell bad about everything I do thats not riight. I cant live with him doing this to me. I wish I could stop liking him but I cant. Ive tried so hard. D:

So the last couple days he has been really nice and sweet <3
Today A{the one he hangs out with a lot and they always flirt} tried to be on his team for PE and he said no and she walked on my side and then about 5 people were on my team -__- and they had 2. So me.and my friemd S were about to sit down and watch them play and Z and his friemd AG were like "You can come play with us!" So we walked over there and A glared at me and threw down her racket and walked away into the bathroom. Shes such a dang drama queen
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