surrounded by idiots wrote:i just broke out crying in the middle of school. my counselor is booked for the day. i have no clue what to do. i'm just sat crying at one of the computers in the library. i'm so overwhelmed but i don't know with what. is it an anxiety attack?
- ohh, that's okay. it's okay to cry! boy, i can't even count on two hands how many times i cried in class (it has been A LOT). even now i still cry in the middle of my classes. it's okay! the best thing you can do is excuse yourself to the bathroom; you can have a bit more privacy and splash your face with water. i know i'm a bit late to this message but at least you can have this for future reference, right?? (: good luck ♡
grell sutcliff ;, wrote:i am done.
i want to move schools. i dont want to be here anymore.
ever since i came ive been picked on and bullied for no reason??
but today, because of pressure i just broke down in class.
not only did the class mock me for crying but the teacher didnt even give a damn.
he walked around, PAST ME AS WELL, knowing DAMN WELL that im crying.
i was invisible.
im so sorry asja for the damage i caused. i hope you can forget me and my selfish ways,
i wish your life went a better way before meeting me...
im sorry for everyone...im just that kind of person.
im not happy, i barely show real emotion at all.
but crying is something i show every night...
- again, crying is normal! it's okay to cry so don't feel ashamed of it. you can cry every night if you want, if it makes you feel better. no one here is judging you or thinking bad things about it, i can assure you that many other people do the same. if you cry in class, excuse yourself to the bathroom. if you're a bit more shy about it, my excuse always is "can i go to the bathroom? my allergies are kicking in and my eyes are itchy", because with crying eyes come red eyes, and allergy eyes are red eyes and watery eyes! so then go to the bathroom and splash water on your face and calm yourself down. are you able to switch schools? it doesn't sound too good for your mental health. good luck! ♡
Gubler wrote:I feel like I’ve hit an all time low in my life right now, I’ve never felt this way before. I’ve been rejected from two universities which I really wanted to go to as it would help secure my future, now I don’t even know if I have a future. I’m having serious doubts about whether I’m even good at the subject that I’ve picked. College is overwhelming me with the amount of coursework that has to be completed very soon. I just feel that my life has no purpose anymore.
- i am so sorry that you got rejected! the universities just can't see your potential! although you have a massve lack of motivation because of it i bet, work as hard as you can. talk to your teachers about it; my sociology teacher was saying a student got turned down by a uni the other week and she was going to contact the uni about it (it's a very prestigious college i'm at)
but before she managed to, the uni contacted the student and said there had been a mistake! maybe the uni made a mistake with your application? or, once you get your exam results contact the uni and say "look, here are my results, will you consider me now!.
you might be lucky!
it's okay to feel overwhelmed; talk to your teachers and explain how you feel and your situation, they can help you and support you. and don't have doubts, if you weren't good at your subjects, you wouldn't be taking them, right?? your teachers have high hopes in you, i have high hopes in you, and you should too. good luck ♡
Harlow. wrote:I don't understand, how am I expected to just forget
- don't feel guilty if you can't forget. there is the saying "forgive and forget", but many people say they will forgive and not forget. because it is impossible to expect someone to 'forget'. god, if we could forget things there would be so much in my life i wish i could just forget. so don't feel bad that you can't, and don't act differently with the person because it's too much of an expectation to just forget. good luck ♡
-Infinity- wrote:I'm so stressed and upset.
I overwork myself too much.
- maybe you do. have you got an organisational planner or 'timetable'? make a timetable for your day and a to-do list and you will feel much more organised and on top of what you have to do. when you feel overwhelmed, stand up, and have a walk. make yourself a drink and treat yourself to a biscuit or a chocolate bar. we're only human, we weren't made to overload ourselves with work and stress. it's okay to take a break. good luck ♡
cswolf. wrote:I am just so tired all the time
- life is exhausting isn't it ;< have a days break and do what you want. nap, go to a spa, go for a jog, do that thing you've always wanted / needed to do. if you can check little things off your list on making you feel happier you will feel more energised. is your diet proper? eat fruit, or if you're like me and have oral allergy syndrome (allergy to fresh fruits), eat vegetables and get the right amount of protein. treat your body like you would treat a pets; keeping it healthy and in-check! good luck ♡
Valtameri wrote:I'm really worried for a friend. I hope they respond to me soon...
I'm also worried about where I'll live. I guess my grandma wants to kick my mom, my brother, and me out since we won't drop everything for her and do what she wants.
She constantly breaks her electronics just so she can steal ours. If we don't buy her new items, she'll scream at us.
She uses her illnesses as an excuse to sit around and do nothing. She fakes illnesses too and wakes me up constantly just so she can complain about it.
I'm barely able to sleep anyways, and she doesn't help. She doesn't care that I'm sick since her problems are "worse."
The world revolves around her. She even eats all our food so the rest of us can barely even eat.
I just want a break from her.
- i'm sorry you're going through a tough time! i get your nan thinks because it is her place she controls you guys which really sucks. are you able to live with another extended kin? maybe just calmly say to her "listen, i'm tired, can you please leave me to try and sleep?" because sometimes people just need it straight. that's if you don't tell her already all of that. that's not much i can do except to say stay strong! good luck ♡
StevenUniverse wrote:I just want someone to pass my fear of starting my computer who got Checksum errors, some hours after the computer starts.
- good luck ♡
Spearow wrote:
i’m so depressed, i don’t know what to do. i feel guilty about missing a class today, but i didn’t miss anything important and i was having an anxiety attack. and i keep having them, now i feel exhausted. i’m so lost
edit; tried to confide in my mother, and she is ignoring me. oh right “mental illness doesn’t exist”
- oh, i thought your mum was alright with it a few weeks ago?? when you posted? unless i'm just thinking of someone else. don't feel guilty about missing a class, you cannot help how you feel and you would not have been able to focus on it anyway; and it is okay to feel lost. have a days break and just do what relaxes you, you need to relax your mind. you sound so mentally exhausted, i recommend having a bath and just reading or watching your favourite movie or tv show. good luck ♡
jump to outer space wrote:i woke up cryin this mornin and i' just dont know what to do...
i've thought about begging. begging them to love me again. i'd promise to do anything they asked. but i know that's not fair to them,
they didnt do anything wrong. it's my fault because i'm not a good person. i feel bad for feeling heartbroken bc ik they deserve leagues better than me.
i havent been wanting to eat or sleep or do anything but cry
i've pretended to be happy and ok and positive because i was in the hospital and my parents wanted me to come home. i go along with it all because i dont like to disappoint or worry people and i try to seem like i'm not bothered or affected and like im moving on ok but im not!! im not ok! my heart is completely broken and i dont even know how to start feeling ok again, let alone happy.
- ohh please don't think like that !! you deserve the best and i am sure they deserved you. you're such a lovely person, trust me. talk to them?? find closure, that is what you need. if they take you back, perfect, and beg. begging is fine; it shows you care, right? you are only human; it is okay to not be okay. it takes time to heal over something like this, do not feel bad for not feeling happy, and do not feel bad for your feelings. we aren't robots, we can't block things out and not feel anything. don't pretend please?? it'll only make you feel worse about the situation, trust me. i hope you feel better soon, if you ever need a shoulder to cry on, pm me. good luck ♡
Harlow. wrote:I don't know how ripping away all my friends and forcing me to social advents is going to make me "happier" you are just messing everything up. All you've done is made me miserable and lonely..
I feel so alone, I long to chat with my friends. But i can't, I really need them right now..
- oh i'm so sorry to hear. are you able to message them somehow?? or explain to the person "forcing you" that one day they will have to let you go and you need to learn to be independent? good luck ♡
Slushy. wrote:real sick and tired of all these selfish people that only care about money. I don't want them in my life. People think 'lol the world is becoming better' no. You're not making it better. Not by bashing on me and other people. Disgusting.
sorry im really salty rn. this is not towards anyone in cs !!!
- nah i totally get you !! i dislike people who put money before anything ?? it's such a pain because money doesn't buy happiness !! and the fact that they bring others down for not having as much is worse. granted, not every money-loving person is like this, but unfortunately many are. hopefully they stop being so mean to you, good luck ♡
edgy cat of DOOM wrote:hello yes I'm feeling very anxious rn
please give me a hug I'm shaking
I don't feel good at all
i know you don't want to but talk to someone about it!! you'll feel more reassured and hopefully better. good luck, and there are always doctors online to chat to! hope you feel better soon ♡
cswolf. wrote:Waking up everyday is so painful now.
- i am so sorry you feel like this, but you're so strong for getting through everyday. if you ever need to talk and have a friend, pm me!! good luck ♡
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to help you smile:
list of little things - list of little things to help make you smile and be happy
cutest - cutest tumblr to help with your self esteem
smile things - cute colours and tumblr page to help you out
adorable - basically another tumblr that does the same as the ones above
to help you with anything else / distractions:
emergency compliments - if you ever feel poo, and nothing seems to cheer you up, this site is full of 'emergency compliments' which can make you laugh at how ridiculously brilliant they are.
automatic flatterer - you know what's cute about this? you put in your name, nickname, whatever (it doesn't save it) and it pays you compliment after compliment after compliment. it's the cutest idea ever.
the dawn room - do what it says. after doing that, loads of encouraging messages will come your way!
hugs - hugs is all i have to say.
thunderstorms - control them!<3
beautiful places - if you're looking for a sign, this is it. set a goal to visit one of these places. don't change that goal. you won't regret it.
how to change your life - just read it. it's amazing. too good.
player two - if you're feeling hurt or upset, visit here. it's a game. it's good.
koalas - if you're in need of a distraction that lasts a good five minutes, play this. it's fun, and if you love koalas it's even better!
stick man game - good distraction with a hopefuly message i made at the end!
just say yes - this blog was made by zoella and good for anyone who suffer with anxiety disorder, have panic attacks, depression, have social anxiety or are just a very negative or shy person this may be good for you!
random acts of kindness (video) - may make you feel all warm and gooey at how kind people are
list of things for those having a bad day!
more bad day remedies - is similar to the one above
how to love yourself - if you struggle with self esteem, pleasep lease read <3
quiet room - one of my favourite places <3
comfort box - i highly recommend looking at this because it's the most amazing idea i've ever seen
ground box - similar to the one above
to help you with panic attacks:
i have loads of things that can help with your anxiety and panic attacks.
facts !!!!:
what not to say !!! - to someone who is having a panic attack, do not say these things
facts- if you're confused about a few things
i've also made a tumblr! you can message me anonomysouly on there for advice if you don't want to post here. i also will start reblogging things (nothing triggering or sad !) so if you ever need someone, you can go to me on there! http://happinesscomeswithnoregrets.tumblr.com/
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