TheComfortCorner | v.6

[kiwikweenie]

im having so much trouble with myself and i mean theres not anyone i can really talk to about this kind of thing
im not so positive on what my sexual orientation actually is, to be honest

i came out as bisexual/biromantic to close family and friends, online and off, about a year ago maybe and nothing bad has come out of it, i feel good about myself and i feel like i can just be me
and i know that im not straight, ive dated a male and a female before and i was happy in both relationships
but likE lATELY my online friends have been making lesbian jokes and I'm having second thoughts
i find them funny but at the same time kinda odd?? like i DONT KNOW I MAKE THEM TOO WHY DO I FEE L LIKE THIS
and they are very very nice people, its not like they've done me wrong <3 i just don't know if they get it

tbh i just don't want to be considered the "gay" kid outta the group

i actually considered going... back in the closet?? if that's a thing?? i guess since I'm not opened to everyone, i can at this point, but every time i think of it i get this weird feeling in my heart area
i want to i really do but i know its not the right thing sigh

i just wish sexual orientation didn't really matter to the world and you could just be a human bean yes bean

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that was more of a rant to myself rather than me needing comfort, haha ill figure this out <3
thank you for reading if you did

[fika.]

im having so much trouble with myself and i mean theres not anyone i can really talk to about this kind of thing
im not so positive on what my sexual orientation actually is, to be honest

i came out as bisexual/biromantic to close family and friends, online and off, about a year ago maybe and nothing bad has come out of it, i feel good about myself and i feel like i can just be me
and i know that im not straight, ive dated a male and a female before and i was happy in both relationships
but likE lATELY my online friends have been making lesbian jokes and I'm having second thoughts
i find them funny but at the same time kinda odd?? like i DONT KNOW I MAKE THEM TOO WHY DO I FEE L LIKE THIS
and they are very very nice people, its not like they've done me wrong <3 i just don't know if they get it

tbh i just don't want to be considered the "gay" kid outta the group

i actually considered going... back in the closet?? if that's a thing?? i guess since I'm not opened to everyone, i can at this point, but every time i think of it i get this weird feeling in my heart area
i want to i really do but i know its not the right thing sigh

i just wish sexual orientation didn't really matter to the world and you could just be a human bean yes bean

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that was more of a rant to myself rather than me needing comfort, haha ill figure this out <3
thank you for reading if you did

firstly,
i'm proud of you for finding out who you are c:
i wouldn't even tell people about it,
i mean why should you.
heterosexual people don't come out
saying "I'M STRAIGHT", you get me?
like, only come out when you're comfortable.
good luck <3

[mr.robot]

im absolutely mortified
ok so some of u might remember
me and my partner are engaged, happily
but we didn't initially want to be
it's just become something normal now. they're just rings as far as we're concerned. so this gives u an idea of how relaxed our relationship is. we're also both scared of commitment lol

backstory: dude I dated abandoned me and caused a dramatic decline in my mental health that lead to a traumatic event that, two years later, I still haven't recovered from. dude came back from South Africa and wanted to meet up, so I lied to my partner and went to see him 3 times. partner found out, we nearly split up, trust was gradually built up again after I busted my butt off for it.

there's a girl. she's tumblr famous so I see her everywhere, but she manipulated my partner when they were buddies. I was also close friends with her until my partner and I started seeing each other. we hooked up regularly without wanting the attachment of a relationship, so we became friends but soon fell for one another. she messaged him one night, Christmas Day, and brutally spoke of the trauma I went through (I didn't tell him. I'd only known him 6 months.) and how I should get over it cus it happened to her too. she then picked at my mental health and said I was gonna make him sick

since then he's asked I never talk to the dude I dated
and I have asked that he doesn't talk to her to avoid drama

however today I found he's been lying to me
he's been chatting to her on Fb and Skype
even had a video call
:^)

we spoke about it and he's gonna try to fix this
and I'm pretending I'm okay because he lost his mind over it
he's a very negative person toward himself already so

we're gonna work through it but
I'm so miserable
I'm so tired
This hurts

[kiwikweenie]

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firstly,
i'm proud of you for finding out who you are c:
i wouldn't even tell people about it,
i mean why should you.
heterosexual people don't come out
saying "I'M STRAIGHT", you get me?
like, only come out when you're comfortable.
good luck <3

oh my gosh, thank you
you're so right, i shouldn't be worried about that and just be my normal self
thank you <3
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i must add that i always see you replying on this thread and you are like the nicest person ever you deserve infinite hugs

[trans]

honestly someone end me already im so done with everything
i cant breathe and im a wreck and i just want it to stop

[Ƈಎ႑ಎෆiႵƴ]

im absolutely mortified
ok so some of u might remember
me and my partner are engaged, happily
but we didn't initially want to be
it's just become something normal now. they're just rings as far as we're concerned. so this gives u an idea of how relaxed our relationship is. we're also both scared of commitment lol

backstory: dude I dated abandoned me and caused a dramatic decline in my mental health that lead to a traumatic event that, two years later, I still haven't recovered from. dude came back from South Africa and wanted to meet up, so I lied to my partner and went to see him 3 times. partner found out, we nearly split up, trust was gradually built up again after I busted my butt off for it.

there's a girl. she's tumblr famous so I see her everywhere, but she manipulated my partner when they were buddies. I was also close friends with her until my partner and I started seeing each other. we hooked up regularly without wanting the attachment of a relationship, so we became friends but soon fell for one another. she messaged him one night, Christmas Day, and brutally spoke of the trauma I went through (I didn't tell him. I'd only known him 6 months.) and how I should get over it cus it happened to her too. she then picked at my mental health and said I was gonna make him sick

since then he's asked I never talk to the dude I dated
and I have asked that he doesn't talk to her to avoid drama

however today I found he's been lying to me
he's been chatting to her on Fb and Skype
even had a video call
:^)

we spoke about it and he's gonna try to fix this
and I'm pretending I'm okay because he lost his mind over it
he's a very negative person toward himself already so

we're gonna work through it but
I'm so miserable
I'm so tired
This hurts

I'm recently engaged as well. Though, we had waited 5 years to get to know each other (still in our teens). He has never been the one who ever dated while in our relationship, but he let me date while in our relationship. Trust me, your fiancé is very sorry. I felt the same way when I dated other people, but I stopped as soon as we were engaged. He should grow into the life as a husband-to-be. If not, just keep in touch with your folks about how you feel. It's great to have some moral support when you're going through this new experience.

[debris]

my best friend is moving
I barely do anything without her
she helps me with my social anxiety and I help her with her anger stuff
but now she's moving and I have no other friends, and don't want to make any
I'll probably just go back to being 'that one weird girl who sits in the corner and draws'
but I really don't know what I'll do without her
we have no way to stay in contact, and she's moving 12 hours away
I'm going to be alone again, and even though I act like it's fine, like I'm okay with being alone, I actually love talking to people -- but I only talk once I've known the person I'm speaking to for a few months, most of the time more, and by then they have the idea that I want them to leave me alone.

[catdoqq]

could I get a pm..? please? I'm really desperate..

[cece.]

it just really sucks when one of your good friends starts talking to your crush :')
it just really freaking sucks. i know we aren't a thing and i know we never will be but when you see the person you love more than anything love your good friend sucks. i'm learning to love myself again and see myself in a better perspective, but when he talks to her it feels like my world is just crashing down on me again. she always says she's ugly and looks like a potato is seriously drives me insane. she's absolutely beautiful and she draws all the guys in and it just annoys me. i say i'm ugly and fat and look like a potato because i am.
and my best friend thinks that saying snarky comments to her makes everything better when, in reality, just makes it worse.


I just really want to be happy for once in my life

the way you see yourself is the way
she sees herself. but the way you view her is the way
everyone views you, beautiful.
maybe talk to her about it, explain how he's
your crush and you would like it if she didn't
start talking to him as much.
good luck <3

she knows.

[Thalassic]

the period pain is so bad this time
I already felt like crap and now its so much worse
I'm so tired and in so much pain