♥Crushes, Boyfriends, and Girlfriends | V6♥

[Sheena.b]

um i think you could try to talk to him about how you feel and try to see what he thinks about it, if he shows feeling maybe you could move forward in the relationship and if he shows no interest then i would suggest move forward or try and wait for him to reliaze how great and good you are.

[gamorasass]

okay..so i've had a huge crush on this boy since about
december. he's kind and he's really the kind of person i'd wanna be with
and i think that even he might like me too?
the only thing is, he has a girlfriend and they're close.
both him and his girlfriend know i like him (well, pretty much everyone does)
his girlfriend is super cool with it, we even joke about it sometimes but
i still can't help but feel really jealous around them.. i don't show it but it's
killing me ;;

this is more of a rant than anything,, but how can i get over it? :0

Time. Unfortunately, only time can help you get over it. He's also off the market, so there's not much you can do.

[WastedSpace]

okay..so i've had a huge crush on this boy since about
december. he's kind and he's really the kind of person i'd wanna be with
and i think that even he might like me too?
the only thing is, he has a girlfriend and they're close.
both him and his girlfriend know i like him (well, pretty much everyone does)
his girlfriend is super cool with it, we even joke about it sometimes but
i still can't help but feel really jealous around them.. i don't show it but it's
killing me ;;

this is more of a rant than anything,, but how can i get over it? :0

You can try training yourself out of the feelings. Whenever romantic/crushy feelings pop up, recognize them, and take a moment to address them and redirect them. "Yes, he is good looking, but it's just aesthetic. It doesn't mean anything." "Of course it seems like fun to go on a date with him, but look how happy he and his girlfriend are. I bet they have so much fun, and I could have that fun with someone else." Stuff like that.

um i think you could try to talk to him about how you feel and try to see what he thinks about it, if he shows feeling maybe you could move forward in the relationship and if he shows no interest then i would suggest move forward or try and wait for him to reliaze how great and good you are.

I feel like it's important to quote for context because the person who posted right above you clearly states that the person they like has a girlfriend already, and I would hope this advice was meant for someone else. =x

(Sometimes I don't realize there's a new page and come in at weird spots in a conversation, too.)

[teethfae]

so i've been having this weird feeling? i've been having crushes on my friends and they're all girls. that doesn't really matter but anyways, they don't feel like crushes? i feel like i can't love anyone at the moment. i'll get these moments where i feel i really love them but then i also get moments where it doesn't even feel like a crush. i just don't understand it and its making me crazy.

[hazle05]

So, i'm having some issues with my boyfriend at the moment. If someone could PM me that is of age 16 or older that would be great.

[basil!]

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[zenisiti]

Ok so I have a crush and we're friends. Pretty much all my friends ship me with him(although I never told them I actually like him) and I'm not sure he likes me back, sometimes it seems he does like me but then sometimes I think I'm just imagining things... What should I do?

Cliche I know :')

[_WolfS_BanE_101_]

In my opinion it’s best to just tell him. There’s only two options for him. Yes or no. If your good enough friends things won’t be akward he’ll just know that you like him. Also don’t expect him to reply to you straight away. He might not even realised that he likes you.

[WastedSpace]

I can't tell if I like someone or not? There was a point where we were hanging out and I was completely sure, but my crush is pretty antisocial and ignores me half of the time... Also, my crush knows I like them but they like someone else and I'm only a friend? And I'm fine with that, it's just that whenever I see them it hurts because I know how happy they are and their great life and I get really jealous and just wish they'd talk to me...
i don't know what to do, I want to figure out my feelings but everything is really complicated and me having a crush on this particular person is pretty bad for several reasons I won't get into...
and this is my first crush
how do I deal with these feelings?
edit: just wanted to say that I don't want to stop liking this person because they make me very happy and I don't want that to be gone

Compartmentalize? Use mindfulness or meditation or something to let go of the pain and anxiety?

Ok so I have a crush and we're friends. Pretty much all my friends ship me with him(although I never told them I actually like him) and I'm not sure he likes me back, sometimes it seems he does like me but then sometimes I think I'm just imagining things... What should I do?

Cliche I know :')

What do you want to do?

[RPG]